We recently brought you reports about a Nigerian Lady who committed suicide after leaving behind a heartbreaking suicide note.

Apparently, we’ve been able to get more information as regards the painful death of the lady.

We have identified her as Ashiat Abdulganiyu, a 300 level student of Ahmadu Bello University (ABU), Zaria in Kaduna state.

She committed suicide after drinking poison, in the early hours of yesterday, December 26th.

She also left behind a suicide note, which reads;

Ashiat Abdulganiyu commits suicide

Just like I said, If I am no more please hold my family especially my mum and dad responsible. I have tried to be the best I can be, Stayed away from them just because they blame me for their mistakes and they cant love, help and take care of me like their own.

My mum has made life a living hell for me only because she is bipolar and frustrated. Accusing me of being a witch, trying to bill her and being a cursed child even though my brother is responsible for my education and upkeep.

The only thing she helps me with is my feeding money. I have gone out of my way to take care of my mum by giving her food and money but I still end up being her problems. My brother cant stick to his promise anymore best he feels I am not his responsibility and I have my
own family. I hope and believe that now that I am gone, It will bring them relieve and happiness.

I am so sorry Collins, I had to leave you this way, Maryam Olayemi you have been more than a bestie to me. I am also sorry to all my friends and well-wishers, I love happy but I’m nothing but a broken child. I don’t believe in God anymore, cos I cant see my purpose anymore. I Love you all so much.

Phone Password ==> ****
ATM PIN =>**** Amount: 12K

Please bury me immediately I am found dead

Love you!

Ashiat Abdulganiyu commits suicide

This came shortly after she hung out with her friends and updating her WhatsApp stories, telling her friends: “I love y’all” and saying: “Rest girl… You need to rest”

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118 COMMENTS

  1. This is not the best solution to her problem, seeing that she is almost on her finals in school and very pretty not to deny husband and trusting the Lord Jesus that one day things will turn around for good

  2. Innalillahi Wainna Ilaihi Raji’un,This is a Bad Story And The Chited her Self For just a small Reason,I ask Almighty Allah to Forgive Her And Forbid The type Of this mistake Later Ameen.

  3. SUICIDES IS NOT AN OPTION!!!
    So sad hell will be your eternal Resting abode!
    You took the life you can’t create, which penalty is eternal doom.
    Always remember that some people are in a worst condition than you are,and suicide was never a first nor second thought.

    Qur’an 94 verse 5-6
    “After hardship comes ease.”
    “Indeed with every hardship there is ease.”

  4. May her jentle soul rest in peace, suicide is not the answer and solutions to her problems anyway, the family should be blamed and questioned also. The family especially her mother is a wicked soul, even though she don’t has the capital or financial assistance, she would have just stay by her side always and comfort her cuz that what all child need from his or her family. Thanks

  5. This is so sad.We all have roles to play to stop the increase in the suicide rates in the country.Parents,Government, religious leaders, we must all do our own part.Suicide is not the solution.There is no problem that does not have a solution or will not pass.Most people who commit suicide don’t know that if they share their problems with someone,they will see that their problems are nothing compared to others and they will be able to get the best solution to them.

  6. So sorry that no one observed that she was having psychology problem till when she committed suicide. what a wrong and costly stem. please friends don’t keep your challenges to yourself there is always a person to share it with

  7. Hmm, this is so touching, I felt for the poor girl but notwithstanding this is not the bet option and it’s going to be a lesson for some parents. R.I.P

  8. Aishat dear, you had a share of the ills so many pass tru and are managing to cope with. For sure, you would overcome, but with a little more patience and tolerance. Taking your life was certainly NOT the best option in this circumstance. However, the deed has been done. May your soul rest in peace, adieu

  9. Its a pity you were faced with all these, but all the same its more sad you had no one to talk to.blame her not for doing this cos you wouldn’t have help her if she had come to you.rest on dear

  10. This is rather unfortunate. I sympathize with her but suicide is not the ultimate . God in her situation would have been the solution. May her soul rest in peace.

  11. I want tosay this…a true and a good muslim don’t kill his self islamically cos Allah (swt) is angry with such always put trust in Allah and keep praying no matter how bad situation you are it will be gone one day. R.i.p

  12. She has failed to know the purpose of her life. She is an impatient human being to take such drastic decision on her own self. It’s a pity that she took such decision on her own self just because of facing mere challenges from her own mother. Above all, may Almighty God pardon her.

  13. So sad to hear,suicide is never the solution no matter the pressure. She even had a brighter tomorrow, education could av given her a good job,beauty could av given her a husband and a home then she will be free from the mum if that is the case

  14. Aisha you’ve made a wrong decision, hv u forgotten that whatever man is doing or the hardship he is going through Allah knows and he will be there for him? And everything has it own time but why why aisha?
    May your soul rest in perfect peace???

  15. Rip dear
    It’z still baffles me girls taking their lives true
    I know we girls are weak but we have to try and take it easy
    My sisters are u having hard time just email me I will try and make it easier for you
    Killing ourselves will stop this year

  16. Sucide is not the best way for her solution, but had happen had already happen..
    Let’s try to brigde in the gap by not letting this happen on our children and beyoung.
    LET’S NOT NEGLECT THE PLACE OF COUNSELLING.
    May God comfort your friends and family.

  17. Hmmmmm what a world,so she’s gone just like that,haba fine girl suicide was never an option,,,,,anyways R.I.P and now that u r gone u’ll know what to tell your God when u get there,,,,,

  18. She didn’t take the best step. She made a big mistake, but not all of us are strong to hold forth, some situations are hotter than fire, only the strong can stand it. She should have discussed things with someone and hint them she was considering suicide…she needed help, but seems she didn’t get it on time. So sad!

  19. I didn’t blamed Aisha Abdulganiyu for what she has done to herself so far, while b’cos when u are not in good terms with ur parents, that means u are no body on Earth, besides I have been having similar experiences with her, but only God knows what I may do to myself soonest, b’cos I really tired of listening to the sound of my tears both day & night.
    I wish I am dead already, just like her…….. although may ur soul rest in peace, & aspiring to join u soon princess Aisha.
    R.I.P

  20. She took the very last option at a beginning of her problems.WHY what she went through was a small problem only that she is not devoted in worshiping GOD.rip

  21. I am heart broken for the diseased, her friends and close ones most have perceived her agony and intention but did the apply thorough counselling and follow up. She is a disappointment anyway feeling life is always rosy ,she doesn’t look unkempt as claimed. People go to university and graduate with one dress yet they never lost hope. She is a failure. RIP anyway. The institution should have a good counseling unit. I think she was not able to cope with study and the frustration led to this act and stop pointing accusing fingers on her parents. We should be guided…..

  22. I believe this would be a lesson to so many parents out there that transfers every problem to their kids. I think the police should investigate this matter and prosecute whom so ever that must have infringed on the deceased rights

  23. There was never God in her right from day one because had it been there is, she would have known that suicide is never & will never be the best option.. If only she would be able to relate what she is facing in the other realm by now… So so sad

  24. This is pretty sad. She’s not the only one facing this type. There’re several many other girls in her shoes. Parents should learn to stop frustrating their daughters. Enough of this shit. I know of some who would want them as slave toys so as to bring them money. Many runs girls outside are products of parental frustration. I’m sure of this and I know of at least three around me. You don’t have to bring them to this world if you’ll give them a half-way lift. They should be jailed walahi

  25. Hmmm..this pathetics why must the parents live this to happen atleast if you don’t have money to cater for her schools,you will support her with good hearted word that can be keeping her morals and she also fuck up as well,she will be punish by Allah for killing herself cause nobody meant to do so.suicide is not an option everybody has a very difficult times now.. Its well ooooo

  26. Rip dear
    But it baffles me girls taking their lives true
    I know we girls are weak but we have to try and take it easy
    Are you having hard time just email me I promise I will try and make it easier for you talk u out from committing suicide
    Pls killing ourselves will end this year

  27. Honestly she is not resting in peace.they a thousand and 1 in even worst situatn even if every body reject u why can’t you look around for ways of making money even if it is selling pure water.”pride” it is a dangerous thing to leave a life without Christ.

  28. It has happen,nobody can bring her back,just want to send a message to whoever that think the world is not fair to them,killing oneself is not the solution because the moment they are about to lose their life that’s when Satan will appear to them and start mocking them,but its already too late,If the whole universe say no to you,pls turn to God,When you kneen down bfor God you will,you will stand up bfor all man

  29. Oh my God!she did the worst mistake by committing suicide, she should have sought advice from people. She felt bad because she kept it to her self. May her soil rest in peace. Mothers who are not doing it right, this should be a lesson.

  30. Is Soo sad indeed .some parents have failed in their responsibility they have caused Soo much pains for their children . Any to u gal commiting suicide is not the best option. BCS u are better than some people .who have no parents . And despite all ur problems God can still change situations. Rest in peace

  31. Well, she has gone. But categorically speaking, she only died of ignorant. Nothing on earth can cause a man to take his live by his own self.
    Rest in peace, Ayishat!

  32. Suicide is not the best option. Keep believing on God even while things are not working. It wouldn’t make you get to your destination. God is taking your somewhere. Remember deep in your heart you are going to get there.

  33. So painful but suicideis not the best option, it is true that sometimes people went through pain that makes them thing that ending their life is the only option left but there is always a way out. You would have leave the house and forget that you have a family. Remember what is said” the rejected stone turns out to be the chief Conner stone.
    Please mum and dad, always cherish your children nor matter how bad they may be and the worst thing a mother will do is to see her own blood as a witch.its very bad.

    To those that she mentioned their names, please take heart and continue praying for her soul to rest in the Lord for she knows not what she did.
    WHAT A GRATE LOST!

  34. She’ll now believe in God and will sure understand that she made the last wrong decision ever, may Allah protect us from the works of devil.

  35. Innanlillahi wa inna ilaihirrajiun, suicide is completely haram in Islam, suicide is not the best solution am sorry to say but this girl is totally out of sense…. anyways RIP

  36. I guess she was wronged taken her own life,I had face a terrible things in life yet I still cling to my faith that God is still there for me to turns thing around… People who committed suicide don’t know what is behind death,taken ones life is killing a soul… So the punishment for it by God is you have kill a soul despite its your own soul you take, that soul you take you can’t create..

  37. SUICIDES IS NOT AN OPTION!!!
    So sad hell will be your eternal Resting abode!
    You took the life you can’t create, which penalty is eternal doom.
    Always remember that some people are in a worst condition than you are,and suicide was never a first nor second thought.

    Qur’an 94 verse 5-6
    “After hardship comes ease.”
    “Indeed with every hardship there is ease.”

  38. Trusting God remains the best option in life because any body can disappoint you. She just failed to realize that. May God help us to take the right decisions in times of trials and tribulations amen.

  39. There is nothing we say that she will hear now she is already gone, May her soul rest in peace, my advice to young girls is that you try to speak out, don’t take your life is not the best option, you can come online and seek for advice, 3hundred level people would have helped in paying her school fees and other things she needs,

  40. I’m not God but obviously girl,you made the wrong move. Taking a life that you never gave to yourself is actually the worst thing you could do. I wonder how your soul feels now and where you are. RIP

  41. I find it very difficult to believe that she took her own like coz she is in final year, she gat a caring guy & bestie. There is more to this but R. I. P

  42. I’m not God but obviously girl,you made the wrong move. Taking a life that you never gave to yourself is actually the worst thing you could do. I wonder how your soul feels now and where you are. Rest on.

  43. I cant belive a very pretty girl like this as to commit sucide because she felt abonded..
    How i wish she knew jesus,things would have been different…

  44. See bunch of religious assholes commenting above! God this God that! Y’all can go fuck yourselves. I know how she feels no body actually cares about her it’s all pretending no body can show her true sacrifice they all after what she has and what she can give! She has now rest! Sweet beauty what a waste!

  45. Why can’t she believed God.That is the reason others like her had committed such act. God takes away the Vail covering ur eyes, and lead u into ur main desires. If u don’t believe God, u’re doomed already.

  46. duo she wasnt rite with the comment of God has failed me she made, however i tink her parents needs to be persecuted for child negiligence.

  47. Parent have failed to educate their children about God or the punishment that is awaiting human being after this life. Now is she did not received enternal happiness then she will get the enternal punishment

  48. Why do people think taken slef life gives peace? If you know what Allah said about sucide no one will try it. Yes she’s finding a way to move away from all these mysteries but taken her life is not one.. What if she shear her story online? And see how good people will show her endless love. Or better still get a chancellor? So sad it’s too late cause she’s going to face something bigger with almighty. May Allah have mercy on her soul.

  49. It is very sad. Every enlightened person that knows enough about depression will not blame her but will really feel for her. Depression is a sickness make no mistake about it. When the condition becomes bad enough no matter how good your living condition and religious disposition you

  50. Too bad, most parents are like that, there’s nothing their kids does that makes them happy, their kind they brought to earth always appears to be irritant to them, may God forgive you for taking ur own life & accept ur soul…

  51. Beheading is not the solution for headaches,however,many people out there are passing thru terrible things more than hers..she had 12k account balance,what about one who is penniless…I’m sorry.

  52. Suicide isn’t the solution to any problems because every human being has one problem or the other, challenges in life is a temptation from almighty God,let us be committed to our God that everything will be alright.stay free from suicide my fellow Nigerians.

  53. Subana-lah ! Ina lilahi wahina ilahim rajiuna, what a misery incident so painful ,and it was written in the holy Qur’an that committing suicide is the biggest sin ,pray may Almighty Allah forgive her and soften her parents heart .

  54. That was no reason for her to commit suicide. God is never happy because he told us through St. Paul that our bodies are a temple of God. So, whoever distroys that temple, God will destroy him. She has the life but does not owe it. Thereby having no right to destroy it. She already declared her disbelieve in God. And so, it’s even difficult to pray to God for her forgiveness. Nevertheless, may God do to her as he wishes.

  55. We regrettably lost a generation here but like she wrote parents should learn not to hold their children responsible for their misfortune. It is a pity that she has lost her life but suicide was not the best for her. RIP

  56. So bad,I never thought of something like this even as my mom,twin sister and my imidiate senior sister have been accusing me of being a ritualist and manipulating their destiny. People should be careful on how they accuse others. Hope as she said “the parents should now live happily and successful life “

  57. What a frustrating life and pains She went tru, Parents Pls love ur children and make provisions for them, stop calling them devilish names. May her soul rest in peace.

  58. OMG, what a waste of beauty,sucide should not have been the best option,so many people are walking around with various problems,the prayer is for God to give us the strength to move on.RIP dear

  59. Suicide is not the solution, it will never be, it’s even a sin in the sight Of God, may God console the family friends and love ones, and for those in same precarious situation, please hold on to God and speakout,i trust Nigerian they will help out, so sad
    It is well

  60. Well permit me to break this long silence about this so called religious people, why are you all so quick to judge that she’s going to hell, why calling her a fool? Why saying she got no sense or saying odds things about her, even the most so called religious people, there are some issues that will happen to you that you will be like does God care about me? When there’s a fake situation everyone talk as if they are real but when situation is real we are all fake, don’t ever blame any soul either dead or alive you have no idea what anyone is going through, you might called her ignorant but you didn’t know how she grew up, her parents should be prosecuted, our environment and upbringings matters a lot, a mastermind is someone who feeds others off his or her talents, sometimes you can help anyone without knowing them, there’s a song by logic ft Khalid it’s about people trying to end their lives, depression is so real, sometimes our artists need to make songe about uplifting people, making people who are depressed to feel better irrespective of the genre you don’t know who you are helping, music should be about passing messages mostly not only about things that are irrelevant,some people say everyone is going through stuffs yes that’s true but shits are deeper than each other and most people judging here pretend like if this deceased beauty reached out to them they gonna help, we all have people like this around us but what have we done about it so when they die you cowards can hide behind the screen and say bullshits, do you think suicide is easy? Do you think anyone will wake up and wants to end their life just like that? It’s not about how she looks or what she got in her account, some people don’t even know what chronic depression means, I have witnessed situations where parents tell their kids that they are good for nothing, it kills everything in that child, please and please God is a supreme being not human being so you can’t decide for him, I pray God forgives her and let her soul rest in peace. I don’t support suicide but I won’t blame her either cause I wasn’t in her situation so I don’t know how she felt, some guys are talking about religion as if they are God, help anyone you can, I believe most of the guys judging here got girls in the morning this situation around them what of the girls that comes around you that need comfort and that you think with your dick and used their situation to your own advantage dick headed judges and parents out there your kids no matter what they should be your priority, it doesn’t matter what you going through don’t unleash your anger on them, people might be around you and you might still feel lonely, you might have millions and be depressed, I’ve suffered from chronic depression so I know how she felt, sometimes I feel like ending my life being alive doesn’t mean I’m better than her or I should judge her, we are all humans, anything can happen to anyone, people should stop judging instead there are people out there in this situation if you really care try to do anything to reach out to help them, it doesn’t matter what you do, you might be an artist, musician, self employed or civil servant e.t.c we all have depressed people around us hiding , let’s know people around us deeply, may God forgive her and be with her loved ones, rest in peace lady I don’t know who you are but I know you care about people around you because of that note telling your ATM pwd cause she won’t use the money she wants them to use it. She was a great person, we missed another beautiful soul and to all people going through hard times please stay strong and hang in there God will make a way. People should be more spiritual than being religious cause both in the holy Quran and Bible, neither Jesus nor Prophet Mohammed tell us to judge the other people, help anyone you can you don’t know what that person is trying to do, rest well ashiat, we love you!!!!

  61. You were selfish girl, life is a circle,someone’s destiny was tied to yours but you just ended the circle without thinking that somebody else where would have been inspired by your experiences if only you chose to LIVE and believed that only God knows the end of every soul on earth and not your mother or anyone eles. You cared about what they had to say about you but not minding that which God has destined for you? Wrong move yeah, you were struggling we know, and i also think it was not fair on you to handle all that but gaskiya bae you no try.My advice to young ones yeah,Before you end your life Child, Please Live? I pray you find mercy in God’s sight. RIP

  62. Well permit me to break this long silence about this so called religious people, why are you all so quick to judge that she’s going to hell, why calling her a fool? Why saying she got no sense or saying odds things about her, even the most so called religious people, there are some issues that will happen to you that you will be like does God care about me? When there’s a fake situation everyone talk as if they are real but when situation is real we are all fake, don’t ever blame any soul either dead or alive you have no idea what anyone is going through, you might called her ignorant but you didn’t know how she grew up, her parents should be prosecuted, our environment and upbringings matters a lot, a mastermind is someone who feeds others off his or her talents, sometimes you can help anyone without knowing them, there’s a song by logic ft Khalid it’s about people trying to end their lives, depression is so real, sometimes our artists need to make songs about uplifting people, making people who are depressed to feel better irrespective of the genre you don’t know who you are helping, music should be about passing messages mostly not only about things that are irrelevant,some people say everyone is going through stuffs yes that’s true but shits are deeper than each other and most people judging here pretend like if this deceased beauty reached out to them they gonna help, we all have people like this around us but what have we done about it so when they die you cowards can hide behind the screen and say bullshits, do you think suicide is easy? Do you think anyone will wake up and wants to end their life just like that? It’s not about how she looks or what she got in her account, some people don’t even know what chronic depression means, I have witnessed situations where parents tell their kids that they are good for nothing, it kills everything in that child, please and please God is a supreme being not human being so you can’t decide for him, I pray God forgives her and let her soul rest in peace. I don’t support suicide but I won’t blame her either cause I wasn’t in her situation so I don’t know how she felt, some guys are talking about religion as if they are God, help anyone you can, I believe most of the guys judging here got girls in this situation around them what of the girls that comes around you that need comfort and that you think with your dick and used their situation to your own advantage dick headed judges and parents out there your kids no matter what they should be your priority, it doesn’t matter what you going through don’t unleash your anger on them, people might be around you and you might still feel lonely, you might have millions and be depressed, I’ve suffered from chronic depression so I know how she felt, sometimes I feel like ending my life being alive doesn’t mean I’m better than her or I should judge her, we are all humans, anything can happen to anyone, people should stop judging instead there are people out there in this situation if you really care try to do anything to reach out to help them, it doesn’t matter what you do, you might be an artist, musician, self employed or civil servant e.t.c we all have depressed people around us hiding , let’s know people around us deeply, may God forgive her and be with her loved ones, rest in peace lady I don’t know who you are but I know you care about people around you because of that note telling your ATM pwd cause she won’t use the money she wants them to use it. She was a great person, we missed another beautiful soul and to all people going through hard times please stay strong and hang in there God will make a way. People should be more spiritual than being religious cause both in the holy Quran and Bible, neither Jesus nor Prophet Mohammed tell us to judge other people, help anyone you can you don’t know what that person is trying to do, rest well ashiat, we love you!!!!

  63. honestly speaking I can’t stop crying… this is handiwork of Satan… she was possessed with the power of darkness… ain’t that easy for someone to kill itself… this life is a movie scenes plenty tales to tell… life will only give you one reason to be happy wish is you still breathing… then you give yourself 10 billion reasons to tell life that not by only breathing man has to sustain… well she’s so stupid and coward… a true hero remain accountable to the end… #rip

  64. It’s a pity, but you should have seek the face ? of God, who is the author and finisher of every life, in any case the parents have not tell they own story, only God knows the true story. My advice to ladies, know the type of friends you keep, stay away from friends that are addicted to drugs, may her gently soul rest in peace Amen.

  65. This girl’s death should be thoroughly investigated.Starting from the guy she mentioned and her bestie,then her friends and room mates.I suspect she was murdered.

  66. I think suicide is just her choice cos for her to have endured from day 1 till 300level, that means she can survive if she wanted to. She even have 12k in her account. I know so many who doesn’t even have 1k and they never thought of suicide. She just made a choice which I think is wrong but probably right to her. May God forgive her innocence.

  67. We are living in the end time.youth of today need to understand that fact, one need to be patient, adapts and tolerate any conditions they find themselves comes from Allah

  68. A lot of people are suffering but smiling.
    With these pictures I’m seeing, she looked happy and alright.
    Alhamdulillah for my life.
    May Allah save the depressed from their misery before they commit grave sins

  69. Oh what a loss to this nation, so painful. She’s gone already so I don’t need to start blaming anyone, only if she could come back, but Alas, she couldn’t. What a beautiful girl

  70. If indeed what she wrote down is true. Her parent should hold responsible to explain more.
    And my beloved sister Adeola Mary, don’t allow the force of your enemies to over come you as they over come Ashiat. May God help us.

  71. If what she wrote down is true, her parent should hold responsible to explain more about this.
    My beloved sister Adeola Mary, you are more than million of people no matter your bad condition. Don’t allow the force of your enemies to over come you as they over come Ashiat. May God help us.

  72. Haaah, wot a painful act s ds! U shouldn’t hv done ds, no condition s permanent, u hv made it already, all d way from nursery sch to primary sch moved to secondary sch now in high institution 300level,infact,,, within 2 to 3 more yrs ur present situation would b ur story to tell. Ds is not d best. RIP

  73. Anyone going through something this related remember this, come onto me all ye that labour and are heavy laden for i will give you rest… Jesus is all you need to be happy…

  74. People can be so funny and this bores down to our spiritual preachers here yiuv forgotten that the Bible and Quran says thou shall not judge,someone here said it was bcos she doesn’t know God another said she should have taken it to God I’m talking as a staunch believer right now,do you know there are times you’ll be going thru sth and it would seem like God is not listening no matter how you study the word pray and weep to His ear and you still won’t get any result and this makes you feel like giving up I’m saying thus cos that’s what I’m going thru right now but I tell you today that everyone’s breaking point is different what can make me can destroy someone else and to those saying she shouldn’t gave cimittwd suicide it is easy for you to say cos you’ve never never bqttkee with depression however light it can be cos I’ve had days in which all I thought about is ending it all not caring bout heaven or hell cos no one I repeat no one knows where he or she will end up you can only speculate so ou righteous people who knows who is going to heaven and hell do you know where you’ll end up even by judging you’re already a liable hell candidate being religious does not mean we should be stupid or wear the cloak of holier than thou the best you can just try to help anyone you know is battling depression and ayisha Darling RIP

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