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When I was young I told myself that @ a certain age I will be one man babe….along d line I went into setting my goals (relationship wise), I’ve dated guys who were Christians and just two Muslims.
The Christian guys I have dated so far, don’t do the things that should be done in a relationship, it is either one is lazy, rude, had nonchalant attitude,etc my relationship does last long,so have been searching for the right one.
Last 2-3years I dated another Christian guy all in the name of “religion” the guy is ohk but it seems to me that I was d one driving d relationship, d guy can’t do anything without involving me, I am always the one trying to put him in shape, if am nt around him he looses force, you know, am always the one trying to make things work…and each time I do this I always brings it to his notice that he is not doing what a real man should do, for this years I kept on complaining, still no changes. I had no other option then to break up with him.
Right now am in relationship with one of d Muslim guy, we’ve dated before we had issue so we broke up and now we r back together and he wants to settle down with me, yes of course this guy is not giving me all that I want but he is trying, he gets pissed @ me when am wrong, apologize when he is wrong, he is very hard working, he encourage me to be independent, he is even trying to fix me(business wise), I am not saying he is perfect but he is trying to be a perfectionist, with him I can feel a true relationship.
Personally I don’t have any issue getting married to him,thou he as made his intentions clear that he won’t allow me go to church, and I have concluded within me that I Will change to his religion(I didn’t tell him this) as far as I am concern we are good to go but I don’t think my family will b in support because he is a Muslim.
Pls I need advice what do you think I should do? No insult pls your opinion and advice will be useful pls.
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Christianity is not a religion but a way of living Christ like if you are thinking you are a Christian I don’t think so.
That u r born into any religion is not a criteria that u must practice such a religion… I think u r old enough to know n willing to die for a religion u consider fit to worship ur creator..No matter the consequences…If he loves u n u love him too, religion will nv b an option….CU’s I HV seen a family that the father is a Muslim n mother a Christian… The father gv room for his children to decide which religion to practice……That a Christian guys gv u heartbreak is not an excuse, for me I will say u r desperate…… are u d first to HV a HEARTBREAK?????Be very careful before u make a decision that will make u leave the rest of ur life in REGRET, PAINS n agony worst than the heartbreak u r running away from..Be wise my dear, Life is too short to endure marriage….. for more advice….Hmmm####u no what to do!!!!!!!
Since u v concluded on changing ur religion despite the fact dah u no ur family wldnt support you,
So Aunty whay do you now want us to tell you…. Abegiiii Gerara hia joor…..
N hw does dat change the fact dah u will soon belong to the kitchen n oda room kos no Palour for you…
@Oluchi Maryan wishing there is an app dat cld make me like ur post more dan once….. Kos u’v said it all… Gudmorning dear…
just a little reminder, He is entitled to have more than one wife, if u can cope, kontinu
just a little reminder, He is entitled to have more than one wife, if u can cope, kontinue
And also b ready to share ur man hope you not the jealous type
chistian y u ppl au stupis na
Please don’t end up belonging to the kitchen $ d oda room
Accept him, marry him and you will never regret being a practicing Muslim. Ignore these bigoted advisers who do not mean well for ur eternal happiness. Gud luk dear and may the God Almighty who created Adam and eve from nothing and created his beloved prophet Jesus from Mary and Muhammad as his messenger accept u and bless ur union. Amen
You are too beautiful to end up in the hand of destruction hold on to the only TRUE GOD HE is working out something for you. You are the best
U re damn 2 hot 4 d kind of journey u re abt 2 embark on..Dnt marry him just wait in d other room small anoda christain guy ll come ur way soon.Am sorry if my comment is silly buh i rily cant help buh laf
Jxt follow ur heart remember everyone get choices ✔
young lady,it’s not about religion it’s about personality,you met the wrong guys thats all!!
My sister! As you,ve concluded already, what I can advice you is… Pray to God for direction and also don’t do things that your family doesn’t want if you do so,you’ll not get your family blessings
go n ask janet jackson..who converted
U are above 18yrs I think. So u have freedom of religion. But think we’ll dnt fall for him because u had previous heart breaks. Makes sure the love is real and u are ready to face d worst from ur family
What do u want us to tell u?take your case to God,he’ll have the answer
My sister the choice is yours.Marry him, change your religion and live in regret all your life.I am not trying to duscourage you but look before you leap.These muslims will deprive you of all you right as a woman
Ur a madgal
Stepping into the broadly route,the choice is yours.
Nice comment. Religion is for God. I see no reason y someone will keep changing religion cos of love. If he loves u right he will allow u to practice ur religion. What if he later breaks ur heart. Then u go back to Christianity. Thts funny
U never start
Islam is way to hell. Lol where women are slave
Follow ur heart, but take ur brain with u and don’t do anything dat will warrant the wrath of God upon u or will endanger ur life.
My sister let m ask u a question, r u getting married to him or his religion, if ur getting married to his religion quit the relationship but if ur getting married to him then get ready to convert to Islam, marriage is for better for …………….
So we shld fry egg, sweep a desert or mop an ocean
Du nt marry him dat nt love
Try yourself….. You will still tell the story yourself…. You be in the other room for the rest of your life.
What do u need advice for wen u said u have concluded? Or u just want to sound ur trumpet
Abeg i wan sleep!
You are the only one in this business, if you like marry a Muslim, it’s your choice not mine.
PLS POSTER U DONT NEED ADVICE WEN U HAVE CONCLUDED, WHAT ODA ADVICE DO U NEED.
Light and darkness cannot go together, remember were you are coming from….
Mumu goto school…no married am….he will still marries more wives..
Why would you fall in love the first place with Islam man? For get him and married a Christian man
I’ll advise,follow ur heart,do wat ever will mak uhappier,dnt listen nor care bout wat pple will say.live ur life for ursef
U are welcome sister u will never regret it.
Hum love sweet. Y seek 4 advice wen u hav made up ur mind, pray 2 God 4 direction.
U are welcome sister u will never regret it.
Mum tnk u 4 wat u jst say, let her follow her mind
abeg dont change your religion because of love of a man but change because u understand the man who worship one God and u are ready to worship God. bcos marriage is act of worshipping
Ur Family Is Part Of U. If They Refuse Then One Part Of U Has Not Accepted. As 4 Me, If Ur Parents Are Not Against It, Just Marry Him, It’s D Heart That Matters In Religion
Your head is not correct for asking us such a question,follow him and rot in hell fire,monkey
U are a fool if you marry him, y won’t he convert to Christian and marry you
my dear, if you are a true christian you wont consider changing you religion. now if you love this guys the way you say then ask God to help you convert him.
thank you for that statement.
Ur are a goat
The Muslim is allowed to marry maximum of 4 . Expect more disappointment . From fry pan to fire
No mind d yeye gal
Na small pikin da worry her
Ur name is sorry, when u are doing it with he did u ask 4 any body advice, girls care ur cross.
as 4 me, no love or woman can make me to change my religion.
That is nonsense. You have concluded… What moda fucking advise do u need again. Stubborn rat.
U belong to the Kitchen,so move on
You no get senses @all for the first time and till date
I will advice u marry a musilem Toto like u,,,lol…
On your own.
Don’t make is waste our data to contribute for this. You are not a true Christian
Lmao…nigerians are comedians…forget all thses AY shows and login to facebook
If I comment on this she will cry, so let me reserve my comment rubbish
Am very happy go and marry him,dont worry Muslim si the best religion in the wold.
Am against it too
My sister the choice is yous, any issue involve in religion matter is a personal dicition, the muslim who has converted to christianity sake advice from no one but deside on their own, befor you regret atlas and put the blam on people comence and advice on facebook. A wise person view marreige far from the future not at the begining.
i think u need some sleep .are there no Christian guys in ur church? love is blind but love of God can never be blind. so make ur choice and stop disturbing de internet
Give your life to christ first coz you can’t be in christ and you give youe love to the person who has not paid your bridge price that’s fornication.
Be who you are, or you are changed to who you do not w ant to be.
there is no need seeking for advise anymore since u av made up ur mind,but there is sumtin i tell u which is for sure is better being laugh at now dan u not able to laugh forever cos of any decesion u re makin today,cos if u rush in,u rush out.choose wisely
Hahaha bae shine ur eyes oo, ds is nt love, it is stupidity and desperation 4 marriage, bcuz u ve hrd he wil marry u, u now think u are in love, anyway wen he visits u in d kitchen and oda room and wen u hav 2 share d days and night with oda women, u wil hav no person 2 share ur probs with cuz u wont go to ur parents who wer against u…. Wen dat time cums, jst remember dat love is for better, for worse
Never never do that u time do not rush into it
Jst ride on ur mind tell uuu d right tin dear Bt do nt convert to Islam because of guy Bt bcs of Allah d almighty of d vc creator
U b idiot
Just follow your heart and try to talk to your parents they will understand.
good of u
Since you have made up your mind,why are u posting again
What relationship has light got with darkness.If u’re a true Christian u won’t even date him not to talk of marrying him.Stop deceiving yourself.
Is he the only man you see young lady
Like seriously! I wish I just kept passing, but I stopped to say this. Though you’ve conclusively said “my mind is made up to marry him” this is enough to tell us u don’t need our advises. But let me pretend I didn’t hear that. So in my candid advise, if you love Jesus, values his death on the cross for you and also believes in making heaven, then nothing should come between you and your christian faith. No doubt, you may leave a fulfilled life on earth if you keep to your conclusion of going into it. But my question is…… what about your after life?
My dear sister……,
Pause and #Think!
Read your #Bible!!
Kneel down and #Pray!!!
Are u a child?
Bright who is jesus?
Philip u ar a fool
Its a matter of choice …so why ask for help?
Get ready 2 be used as Narma!
You wiser than the old ashawo called ngozi. Nice comment.
Ur happiness matters
You need 21 days deliverance.
@Kabir Voocas….y dnt u jst drop ur advice without Insulting Sumone..,must u reply to evry comment? Pls b matured
Hahaha hah. .. I have never heard of a
Muslim gal falling in love with a
christian guy…I just feel sorry for our gals who have chosen that part
NA you sabi if you like marry Babalawo .Who you help?
Then why do you say here to pray to Jesus?
pls my sister follow ur mind but pls obey what ur parent say
U have already made up ur mind, u need not to look for advice else where.
In this case the suitor is wrong in dictating and she should think long and hard about any such relationship
Jesus Christ is our personal and sauvior
Yes and no
Follow your heart and keep on praying for God intervention
But do you know with Jesus Christ there’re solutions for all our problems?
Through him we are living
Why yes, and why no?
Then I can say no more
Satignon there is only one God all the rest is misunderstanding and rules made by men
Jesus made no rules
Christians doesn’t believe in Jesus, they’re just doing what they like, may almighty God help their soul.
Go ahead and marry him you will never regret it Insha Allah
So my sister u prefer your husband marry u alone and go out side and sleeping with other girls. let her make the right decision Islam is peace and Islam is the best
Am in the same problem. Hmm
Christ in u will lead n guide u. Pls do what pleases ur parents
Joseph Adesola Marie which face are you talking about? Abeg your pardon. The said lady here is interested in the boy’s religion. I’m not interested in changing mine.