A Muslim police chaplain has been ordered to explain himself after he claimed that women “sin” if they do not consent to sex with their husbands.
Musleh Khan, who claims to be an expert on marriage counselling, believes that a wife must be completely obedient to their husband, according to a leaked presentation.
The new police chaplain reportedly said that unless a woman is ill, or is fasting during the holy month of Ramadan, they must consent to sex when their husband demands it.
He allegedly said:
“Without a valid reason then she committed a major sin. “So sisters it’s part of your act of worship towards Allah that you try to respond to this as best you can as part of your duties as the wife.”
Khan also reportedly advised women that they should seek permission from their husbands just to leave their home.
The perturbing comments came in a question and answer session at Ummah Nabawiah Mosque in Ontario, Canada, in 2015, where Khan explained that a girl is fit to be married whenever she hits puberty.
Speaking about Mohammed’s marriage to nine year-old Aisha in the Koran, he reportedly said:
“Nine year-olds back then are comparable to 20 to 30 year-olds now. “Back then at nine years old you were mature enough and you could get married.”
Daily Express UK reports that the president of the Toronto Police Association, Mike McCormack, received a torrent of emails about the chaplain’s views and said Mr Khan “needs to clarify his comments.”
To some men its a sin,after the bride price,goat,yam,pepper,salt,ogogoro(like 10 kinds),palmwine and do so on u nw close legs,na plier the man go take open am
Lolz
Sister u know ba…especially anambra and Imo woman
Hehe Anambra ppl no de do am lolz
Ehhhn iffa hear…my mom is from anambra i saw d bride price list they issued my dad,me myself i pity my dad
I think this is part of the reason why Muslims marry more then one wife
Their religion doesn’t believe in u having gf after marriage, if u like the girl, marry her and not having extra marital affair, that’s y they marry more than 1 wife.
Yes! that’s why muslims marry more than one wife, for in times of temptation, and when denied sex by his single wife, he wouldn’t have to commit adultery.
Bloody assholes!!!!! Marriage is about sex to fools!
Motherfuckers, is part of it
And all u are after is lesbianism, stupid queen
Ah….. Hahahahah…
U a bitch,spread dt leg!!!
Kikikikikikiki lol…..
Mak i laugh small! Ahahahahahahhahaha senseless
Don’t worry…ur secret of cucumber will soon surface internet too
Hahahahahahaha
Yusuf Ibrahim, you no go kill me hahahaha I beg help me tell her oooo
Miss cucumber
Yes its true
na dem no
Yes it’s a sin because it may lead a man to sinnah
Very correct
Helo everyone.
Please let us not be so fast to throw dirt on other people’s religous beliefs..
I guess the man saying this understand the Quaran better..that aside
do you know 75% of men use ”She refused my sex request” as an excuse when they cheat on their wives??..which is very bad.
Huzband and wife are soppose to understand each other and b ready to compromise ur own ways for the other,she might not be in d mood or best health condition to have sex,bt will her huzband allow her excuses cover his Horny?? Thats where understandinq and patience comes in….
And to the ladies dont always use that as an excuse to starve ur man of sex,you know devil is always out to kill,steal and to destroy,this young girls in the streets got no chillss….shey u know say december don near?
Yes December Don Near But This Thing Na Truth Talk O
Yes now…
Girls must wear christmass cloth na
I neva marry so I no go talk
Lol. December don near ??
Anie u never mary na him u dey underground dy ask Ope weather she get the qualities….u still type Cv wan go apply for Linda Ikeji
@Cindy yhu wey know…qirls must shop
Opeyemi na bae?? neva knew.. my bad.. Linda own na packaging na… I go leave 15 16 17 18 19 20 21yrs dem go meet who suppose get grandchild abi
Lol. Before nko
@Anie hehehehe shey u say money na him u dy chase
@Cindy but zero ur mind for Dubai dis xmas oh shey u know say Recession and EFCC dey around
I took ur advice na
Lol…i wan withdraw that advice now
Lmao nice talk Bobby Desmond shey u know say December don near lol
Lol december dn near
Yea. Sex is always what waiting for in marriage. No one have no power over his or her body. When the emotions arrive
If a woman refuses her hubby of sex, they must be a reason. The feeling should be mutual. Its also a sin for a man to refuse his wife of sex…..Don’t you think so? Please ” MR” include that. Cheers!
Sis u tok true !!!!!!
Yes there is always a reason,some women claim they are tired when its time,while will be offering it their boss at work and decline their husband
The same thing applicable to men, not only their secretary but also to d house maid….so kettle should not call pot black.
The topic here is focused on women and not men,if the caption said “couples” and not wives,then i’ll understand,so pls stop deviating from the point here__the caption was written in plain english__it said women
Yes true talk at Ugwu Ngozi
@ Ikejiaku..Its involves a woman who is married right, a man and a woman becomes one after marriage so its involves the couples…There’s no smoke without fire!
Cudos to u Ngozi. I was about saying same thing
Ngozi u spoke my mind,,,nailed it.
Lol miss Ngozi vs bro ikejiaku onya bro is ur turn to Fire bak ,fire!!
Ugwu Ngozi Are you talking from the biblical point of view?
@ moh’d,, whether biblical or Islamical that is how it should be!..cheers!
Why will u refused your husband his right to his honey pot
I love your idea ..agreed
Am a Christain but I think D man is right. if u refuse ur husband sex and he cheat on u God will never punish him. He will rather punish d woman for d husband sin
Always remember that is human thinking,our ways are not same as God
God doesn’t punish people on such lame things! Thank God God is not man.
Sin is a sin,u don’t because of sometimes or someone commit sin that is not an excuse my dear
Go and commit sin bro and expect God to tap ur back and punish ur wife.
Its a big lie ooooo….if she refuses to sleep wit u…no matter Wat her reasons r….its not a guarantee for u to cheat…Mr.man …na dere u fail exam ooo…na big sin..ur stuck with her as ur wife …except na those bf and gf thing that God dsnt guard…na Satan dey guard that one…and u know the end result of most of dem is nothing to ryt home about …
yes it’s a sin..if u force her it’s rape..if u beat her dosmestic violence..just go and marry another wife
No be rape u rape her oo Abeg guy no be ur wife
Na rape as far u force her an rape
Is true na
if my wife denies me of my right hmmmmm,,no comment sha……shebi the thing go hold her one day..do me i do you
can you do her back
U can not resist some women
mtchewwwwwwwwwwwww…which women.. the ones i no see for school abi??? Forget that thing
For me the man is right,why would u refuse ur husband sex,when he gets it else where u will start making unnecessary noise__it is some women that even make their husbands unfaithful__if u deny ur man sex and he gets it else where,God wont punish him but rather punish u the wife with unhappiness,if u divorce him and marry another man,he still find out the reason for ur divorce,so in all,you the woman is loosing,the damn alternative u will take is to be a worthless wrinkle face sugar mummy,if that happens i wish u luck___am not cruel though
Commot for dere bros.. Wife dey go outside if her husband refuse her sex?
No you hear__okoko
Lol. Mr judge i hail oo. So if a man commit adultery because of he wife, the wife is to be blame. Smh
Shake it make im fall
The man is somewhat right though!
shoo..dis is for married couples, am only here to learn..cheers
Yes he is right but same applies to the man.
A romantic man will always put his wife on the mood even if she don’t want to sex,men should learn how to be romantic to their wives
Exactly
,loiz,funny u Mercy Omoye Maxwell
Am not married yet
but
I think he has a point. In short he’s right
In Islam, is even a sin for woman to make a suggestion. ….talkless of refuser of sex, aboki wen like sex pass anything so…..na make then they rape any how….them kill you for talking with their wife…their mind na you dey sleep with am…
Guy, Na sin, even bible talk am, in marriage ur body no longer belongs to u, once he ask for it, please give him cos it his right, he paid for it.
Idris r u a christian or a Muslim? ?? Pls dont say what the bible didn’t say ok…..the bible only day be submissive…..maybe na Koran say ur body is no longer urs
& been submissive means different tinz
Do u still want me to explain further? ??…..been submissive ur husband will still bouch on you even when you are ill?…… that is not submissive. …submissive in the sense that he is the head of the house also respect is authority
Eboigbe Markson @Bidemi Idris is right, it doesn’t matter whether she is a christian or a muslim. If the bible says be submissive then that is what it means. Not only submissive, it says in Ephesians 5:22 “Wives, submit yourselves to your own husband as you do to the lord”
Ephesians 5:23 “Now as the church submits to christ, so also the wives should submit to their husband in EVERYTHING”.
Muhammad r u sure u know what u r saying. …if you are a woman you found out that your husband is hiv positive n u r not..bcos he is ur husband you let him ve sex….bros I dont think so…….stop miss quoting meaning to the bible……quote Koran instead..that should be d meaning in Koran…….submit n submissive in the bible does not include you kill her maybe it is in the Koran. ..
Muslim and sex sha ..
Of cus its a sin..y u go refuse
God did say Man and Wife are for each other sexually none should turn the other down
Any woman that is refused to give her husband sex has boyfriend believed honesty speaking, because women love sex more than sugar,
Hmmmmm
Dats de onli reasonable clause ave heard frm a muslin cleric…..
@Prince Vic …..that’s because majority of what they write about Muslims is what will tarnish the image Islam.
Perverted mind
Am not a Muslim but it is written in Koran, so you as a Muslim woman you should know that.
Point of correction! It is also written in Ephesians 5:22,24, so as a Christian woman you should know that.
Lol
100% correct
It’s funny how some people let loose of their hatred and sentiments. You don’t have to think about it or see it as a Muslims’ belief, it is right there written in the bible too, the problem might just be that you don’t read it. Ephesians 5:22-33
he’s Right
I’m not a Muslim, but I totally agree with him. Your husband is your head and the lord of the home. If he wants sex from you, it’s because he desires you. And if you refuse to give it to him, and don’t have a truthful and good enough reason for it, I believe it’s a sin. Because if he decides to get it elsewhere, God won’t just blame him for his sin but blame you too.
But he can refuse his wife sex because he’s the head of the home
Ifunanya Noel like I said, if the reason is truthful and genuine, you can decline from sex.