A Nigerian lady identified as Oge has narrated how her relationship ended just as quickly as it began because of the request her partner made.

According to her, her boyfriend demanded a Play Station 5 from her as a birthday gift just two weeks into the relationship.

She was unable to purchase one for her lover, but he constantly reminded her by sending videos, photos, and tweets of other ladies giving their men PS5 consoles.

Oge claimed that she was compelled to disappear because she did not imagine herself being able to afford a PS5, which costs hundreds of thousands of naira.

In her words;

“Remember This Guy I Tried Dating And Two Weeks In, Baba Casually Asked Me To Get Him A Ps5 For His Birthday, From Casually, It Turned To Harassment, He Reminds Me Everyday, Sends Me Random Ps5 Pictures, Tweets And Videos Of Women Buying It For Their Men.
Omo, I Vanished. Still Wondering Why He Thought I Had That Kind Of Money More Than Half A Million Naira? Ah!”

A Nigerian woman identified as Eketiette narrated how her friend’s neighbors saved a widow from her in-laws.

According to her, the woman had just lost her husband, and his family member came over to take over his properties without consideration for his widow and children.

The neighbors who heard about the exchange came up with a plan to rescue the woman and keep her documents.

Read the full story here:

“A lady who lives in my friend’s compound, lost her husband and his people showed up from the village two days later to collect everything from her.
As they began to harass her to bring the documents for the house, the car keys and cheque books, a neighbour overheard them.

He went and called three other men who were around in the compound and briefed them on what was happening. These men dressed up; one of them, a policeman who was off duty, put o his uniform. Together, they went to her door and knocked.

One of her brothers-in-law opened the door and told them to go away, that they were having a family meeting. The three men ignored him and barged into the house. They said they were from the bank, that the late man owed millions in debt and they were there to pack his things.

The wife was shocked. The man’s people were shocked. Their spokesman said, “Officer, sirs, let us hold a small meeting outside. We’ll be back.” They went outside to have a family tete-a-tete.

While they were outside, this woman’s neighbours told her their plan and assured her that they wouldn’t let anything bad happen to her. Ten minutes later, her brothers-in-law, husband’s uncle and cousin had still not returned. One of the men went to check on them.

Do you know these men had left? They fled and left their brother’s widow alone to face alleged bankers her late husband was supposedly owing. They hurried off to tell the whole community that everything the man had been displaying was on loan; that he was poor and owned nothing.

This worked in the woman’s favour, because they didn’t ask her to bring a dime for the funeral. After the man was buried, one of the neighbours who had showed up to protect her against her thieving in-laws, helped her collect her husband’s benefits and sell the house.

After the sale, she quietly relocated to Canada with her children. Her in-laws nearly choked to death. I chuckle every time I remember how they showed up again, to ascertain if the house had really been sold by the “bank” and that their brother didn’t own it.

A fellow on this app once said, “Our tradition dictates that a man inherit his late brother’s property. It is my right. His wife is not part of his family. The moment he dies, their contract is done.”

Interesting, this tradition that demands that you inherit your brother’s property, and not his debts. It doesn’t tell you to care for your brother’s orphans and widow. It gives you the right to only take and not give. Such a hollow tradition. Sounds like a tradition of thieves.”

A newly wed Nigerian man has set some ground rules for how his friends should approach his recently acquired status.

The groom identified simply as Mr. Akin was heard telling his friends that they shouldn’t call him from 7 pm.

According to the excited groom, his friends no longer had a right to call him past 7 in the evening because he would be very busy with his wife.

Watch the video here:

In related news, Ossai Success Ovie, the Special Assistant on Media to the Governor of Delta State, Ifeanyi Okowa, has said brides should stop kneeling down to feed their husband at their wedding.

The media aide, in a post shared on his Facebook page, said the practice which represents a woman’s submission to her husband should be scrapped because it’s fake.

According to him, after the wedding ceremony, women don’t replicate the act by kneeling down to serve their husband’s meal at home.

He pointed out that back in the days, women used to kneel down to serve their husband his meal but that is not the case anymore, so the practice should be ruled out from weddings.

Read as he wrote,

“Ladies should stop kneeling and feeding their husbands during wedding reception.
This act personally to me is called fake feeding .
Ladies only do this during wedding reception after that moment , they won’t be kneeling down and feeding their husbands so why doing it when they won’t continue acting it.
Back then, when women served their husband food , they go on their knees But today the story is different because we are advancing.
So they should stop doing that kneeling thing during wedding reception.
Personally I won’t want my wife to be keeling while serving my food.”

A Nigerian man identified as Emeka has shared what he discovered when he went through his ex-girlfriend’s phone.

He stated that he discovered she was intending to leave the country for a week with another man.

The odd twist was that the other guy was in a serious relationship as well, but they both intended to leave their partners and travel to Dubai.

He claimed that the other guy and his babe had agreed not to tell anyone when they arrived in Dubai and not to share any photos online.

He shared this because another Twitter user stated that she would go through her partner’s phone whenever she had the inclination to.

In her words;
“If I feel the need to check your phone as someone I’m with, I will. I will rather know where to channel my energy to than sit and live in the illusion that all is well. If what is in that phone will scatter the marriage by all means let it scatter.”

According to Emeka, he would never try checking his partner’s phone again for his sanity.
In his words;

“I did this once and found out that an ex was planning to go to dubai with a guy that was also in a relationship. They planned to ghost us (their partners) for one week and not take pictures during their stay. I personally won’t do it again for my sanity but if you need to, do it.”