A Christian sister shared the story her driver told her about his life and the details have netizens perplexed by the ordeals the man had gone through.

The driver, who claimed to have had sex for the first time at 13, explained his life choices and how they have affected his marriage.

Read the full story below:

“The Indriver that carried me today is 41 years old. He told me he started having sex at 13. I call it rape cuz that’s what I believe that older woman did to him. His wife left him 2 years ago after 6 years of marriage. She was pregnant with their third child, and she left with all the kids. He told me she left because he cheated. He started cheating after just 3 months of marriage. He confessed to her and she told him to do some STDs test and not touch her for the next 3 months. That made matters worse to him. He said he has a high libido but his wife didn’t like sex. He married her as a virgin and their first sex happened about a month after their wedding. He was a nymphomaniac (not sure the English word for the male version of this) before getting married but he thought he’d be faithful to his wife.

He realized he was stupid to think that a little too late, he acknowledged this to me. Yesterday alone, he had sex with 4 ladies. He had sex this morning too and showed me texts from two women begging him to come and sleep with them again. He has exes in relationships coming to get serviced by him. His HMO covers his sexual health needs and he always uses a condom. I told him this was a problem and he needs to block these women. He kept laughing. He sounded and seemed stuck. He had sex with his ex-wife last in May (she called him to come coded-ly) and he was so sure she hasn’t had sex again since then. He also said she was whack in bed. He believes sex should be had everyday.

When I told him he’s “living the life”, he said that’s what everyone says. His wife wanted to be a reverend sister. But she told him that reverend fathers came at night to ask them for sex and she couldn’t deal so she left. She has 3 sisters and they all got married before her, including the last born. She’d had bad luck with men so when she met her ex-husband (our Indriver today), she just rushed into marriage. He said they only dated for like 6 months and she “pressured” them into marriage. They didn’t get to know each other much before tying the knot. He believes that was part of their major problems. He says he also lost his job and had financial issues at the time she left him so those contributed as well. He insists she’s stubborn, unromantic and never believes she’s wrong. He still pays his children’s school fees although it comes late sometimes.

He does a number of contributions to meet up though, cuz he’s an Indriver and the school fees of his three kids add up to about 150k. He enjoyed the conversation with me and took my number to keep in touch while he continued with his work and I dropped at my co-working space too. This was a shocking, intriguing, kinda scary chat – different from any I’ve ever had. But guys, this is beyond me. From a Christian POV, I’m dumbfounded and confused on how to advise him. And even just as a human being, I really think he needs help. This is crazy and I told him. He kept laughing. It’s a matter of time before he meets and sleeps with karishika. Meanwhile, some STDs don’t know the face of condom o.

Moral lessons, please:
– stop raping children, or anyone at all
– don’t marry a person you don’t know, date please – don’t marry out of peer pressure
– be sexually attracted to your future partner before marriage (I did not say test run o, mbok)
– churches, add proper sex ed to your marriage counselling sessions
– don’t allow anyone pressure you into early sex, especially as a minor
– read up on vaginismus, many women experience painful sex and I believe it’s due to societal/ religious conditioning that associates shame/pain with female bodies and sex.”

Media personality, Iruefi shared how his friend proved the theory that people only helped those they can benefit from.

According to Iruefi, he introduced his friend to a big client to help with his business and the friend tried to form a solid relationship with the client by giving him a 250k gift for the birth of his child whilst he just got a congratulatory message from the friend.

In his words ;

“I introduced an old friend to a certain ‘big man’, about 2 weeks later, this my ‘big man’ friend and his wife got delivered of a baby, my old friend sent him 250k for ‘pampers and baby milk’. I and my wife got delivered of a baby just a week prior, I got ‘congratulations bro’.

Now this my ‘big man’ friend was an estate developer and my old friend was a cement and building materials dealer, I purposefully linked them with the intention that they’d do business sometime and I was happy when he told me that my old friend gifted his new baby some cash.

My only question was why tho? He’s only known this guy for just about 2 weeks, and I’ve known him for over 20 years, even though we weren’t all that chitty chatty, I considered him a friend. Now I don’t feel entitled, I wasn’t even expecting anything, I was just surprised.
This is the new trend. People now only help, celebrate or regard those who they can benefit from, it’s quite sad.”

Event planner @skusskus has shared the sad tale of how her aunt got suspended from work due to fraud committed by her assistant.

According to reports, the assistant embezzled the sum of 5.6 million naira to facilitate her plans to migrate to another country. Her boss and almost 60 other workers have been suspended because of this.

Read her tweet here:

“My aunt’s assistant at work stole N5.6m to japa. She and nearly 60 people she’s supervising have been suspended at work.

You’ve put so many families in distress because of your selfishness. This is so unfair.”

Read opinions from netizens here:

Ladi wrote “They should contact her people to tell her to contact the office asap with a payback plan else they contact the embassy with evidence of her theft.
Or they just do her strong thing and contact the embassy immediately.
What nonsense ”

Frank wrote “This shouldn’t be much of a big deal. She can be repatriated if there’s any proven evidence to validate your claim. She’s just a flight away from been nabbed. Take it to the Embassy she applied through and further escalate it.”

Gbk wrote “If your aunt knows the country she travelled to, her company can contact the embassy over here with evidence. I’m sure her visa will be revoked in weeks and Immigration over there will be looking for her to deport her back to this country to face charges.”

A woman identified only as Gift has been arrested for fatally stabbing her lover, Eghosa after he caught her cheating on him with another guy.

According to information obtained, the event occurred on Monday, October 24 at Imafidon Street in Egor, Benin, Edo State. According to a source, the terrible occurrence took place when the deceased confronted her over seeing her with another man at his house.

“The deceased is my uncle. She had visited his compound to see another man and she was caught. Eghosa accosted her and it led to an argument. Before eyewitnesses knew what was happening, she picked up a knife from his kitchen and stabbed him in the neck. He passed on and she was almost sent to hell’s gate by neighbors who saw what had happened.”

“The irate eyewitnesses handed her over to security personnel while the deceased’s corpse was moved to the morgue” a source said.

Watch the video here: