2. Involve your spouse

Having regular phone calls with someone you could get romantically involved with is a bad idea. If you like spending time with someone, do so with your spouse to make sure things stay platonic.

Even if you swear you are both just friends, you can’t hide any flirtatious messages if your spouse is involved.

Add your husband or wife to conversations to send a clear message you aren’t looking to start anything.

3. Don’t get too close

Your spouse is the only person you should be confiding in. Falling into the trap of thinking your husband won’t understand, or you can’t talk with your wife about something like that is wrong.

You should be sharing secrets with your spouse and no one else. Starting an emotional affair is just as hurtful as a physical one.

4. Reach out for help

If you feel tempted to spark up a relationship with someone else, tell someone. Don’t keep this to yourself. It will be a difficult conversation to have with your spouse and your family, but it needs to happen.

You have made a commitment to love one person; don’t betray that trust.

Talking with a professional privately and with your husband or wife can also help resolve what you are feeling.

Read4 key reasons why it matters to put your spouse before your children.

9 COMMENTS

  1. You have to understand that Cheating is pathological for many men,even if they were married to angel gabriel’s daughter with all her perfection,they’d still cheat. But few of us are honest sha.

  2. Why will you cheat on your spouse??? Women called them names,my sweetheart,..best,.ect,…..men called them names,Honey sugar ect..after all you still cheat, what about the love, even the oath that you took on the alter of God,….what about the promises,what do you have to tell your children,.. Many women few wife,…. Many men few husband

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