One Mrs Mary Ike has brought a case to the Jikwoyi customary court, Abuja, saying that her husband, Augustine Ike, threatened her to take an oath of marital fidelity before a deity to ascertain her faithfulness him since she got married.
She made this known in a divorce suit she filed against her husband. In her words,
“My husband wants me to swear that I have never slept with any other man since we got married.
“My husband and members of his kindred say I must swear to show that I am innocent of the allegation, the kinsmen say that if I swear and the deity finds me guilty that I will run mad.They also said that if I don’t swear and I continue to make love with my husband, or even give him food or water to drink, that he will die.
“I don’t want to run mad or have my husband dead, I just want to end this marriage and swearing before any deity except God is against my religion,” she said.
She prays the court to bring the marriage to an end because she does not want to lose her husband or go mad.
Reacting to the case, her husband,Mr. Ike said he did not come to the court to listen to the case but to serve it with the pending motion at the appeal court.
He said,
“I did not come to court today for this sitting, I only came to serve this court with our pending motion at the appeal court.
“Untill we are done from the appeal court, I will not say anything in this case,” he said.
The presiding judge, Labaran Gusau, adjourned the case till September 21 for mention.
accept it if hm tu will swear dat he hasnt slipt wit a woman or ny yhung luk gal b4……if u r a true christian follow d bible dnt try it ooooo
….he may also wnt tu use u 4 ****….may God step into ur ome
He dat is asking u to swear can he swear,he’s claiming saint! holier dan thou! he shud go to hell
Wetin U Day Fear.
U don already confess jare, una no wan kolo. At least, what a man can do, a woman can do better.
Stick to your beliefs
Marying that type of husband it self is against your religion even though I don’t know the kind of religion you belief in.
Lol
What is funny, madam?
Ur husband sud b an idoma man….
Hahahaha??????????? how you carry know? Lol!
Lol na dem sabi dose kin tinz..
What part of the country are you from? And who told you it is only an Idoma man that always asks the wife to swear before a shrine? I need an answer.
dnt mind dem@stella,
Hahaha lwkm oooo hmmm
M frm Benue… And it apuns n idoma land cos of a spirit dey believe in…
Women and there infidelity
… Mtcheew
Men and their Lust! too bad #cheaters
If your mind is clear do what he asked you to do
For what?
If is u will u do it?
I wonder o
KOLOKOLO!
he wants to use her 4 ogun owo ni! d ogum owo will make her mad, but the man nids a reason 4 her madness. whether faithful or nt, she will run mad so d husband can say its was her unfaithfulness dat made her run mad after swearing. run 4 ur life woman
Dat’s just it sis
U have said it all?
No. that can only happen when she belief in traditional ascent.
Mr Ismail wat are u saying? did u hear abt soka ibadan? so u mean all those used 4 rituals believed in juju?
My you have said it all@ Ololade Islamiat Bibire
The man shld also swear dat he has neva cheated on his wife#dnt even trust him he might have made some sacrifices to the gods
Bibire again oo
I like ur comment.
I cnt even swear cos its against my believe
Bird of the same feather
Like ur comment
Mr Arinze, birds of d same feather how?
See, dat man want to dump u, so he will go for another one. Tel him to swear first before you.
Tell ur mumu husband make she swear also say she never fuck ashawo
But i knw sum people in Edo state do it. but its b4 d wedding dat d woman will swear. the man will nt swear o because of d stupid saying “men are naturally polygamous in nature”.
Can u imagine the nonsense
Where in Edo do they swear before wedding?? Abeg enlighten me!
i have 4gotten d name of d place, but its true! it happened to sumone really close to me. i guess its dia tradition of dia family. shebi u are from edo? ask elders around. am nt here to speak bad of anyones tribe.
Bibire is right, d pple of Auchi n Atteh n.other few places mk women swear n even perform rituals. Whether they still practice this in d 21stC i dont know. I’m from Edo nothing of such in my area oh, but there’s a belief that a woman committing adultery without immediate confession will lead to instant death of d husband. For d Muslims in my place nothing of such.
Hadiza, Dey still practice it o. infact, d person i knw wu did it got married in 2010. and she swore b4 getting married, if cheats, iku nio
Wow Men Re Polygamous In Nature But U Re Stil Praying God Give Me One Nonsense
Thats not nice i can never do it, it means they believe in a creature n not THE CREATOR. Both religions or all religions forbid adultery, so to me the FEAR of GOD is greater than d fear of Man or idols n statutes. I will take a walk not cos i will commit adultery but cos i would hv Committed the GREATEST SIN IN ISLAM. Believing in anoda god or associating partners with ALLAH, it is called SHIRK.
A Muslim can marry more than one wife, is it not through adultery that he will get another wife?
Ololade Islamiat Bibire u are so right they still do it in my village n my family
Gift Samuel, we are nt talking religion here please. wetin concern muslims in this matter? rubbish
tell him to swear first, n go mad. himself, rubbish
Some ppl comment will create more prb to d poster who is seeking for advice. Dat lady has already confess wut anybody will tell her is solution to that not to portion blame, coz d man is excising d tradition of their land which d lady agree knows very well b4 marrying him.issue of religion is story for d god’s.
Park well joor
For ur house abi
U just pick up ur ? and started writing nonsense on media bcoz others are commenting
Cheating is also against the religion
Dont……even if u have never slept with any other man they have their way of turning tins around to feel justified besides d scripture condemned it.not even in d name of Jesus should one swear
Tell him u slept with Mr john & musa only…but its long time ago…& allow the worst happen.
Ur hubby is a ritualist… Sorry wifey
You see is all about truthfulness if you you have done it tell him before is too late .Nowadays fidelity is a rare commodity
Don’t do it,pls
Even if you swore he won’t still believe you because love has departed your union. He’simply looking for excuse
Truth
Thank u jare
Short of words
If u re actually having extra marital life, that’s very bad and its a sin b4 God and ur husband. I will only advice that u repent, beg God for forgiveness and ask God for divine intervention. Then confess to ur husband and and seek for his forgiveness, once God forgive u and intervene am sure ur husband will forgive u. But pls never u do that again, and try as much as possible to build a solid truth btw u and ur husband. I know its not going to be easy, but with time things will be fine. God help you.
You preaching the Gospel ? You didn’t even address the issue here
Ebere Hopewell Eze. What issue again? And what do u expect me to preach? Do u want her to go and swear or what? I can never advice anyone to do that and I will never advice her to leave her husband. If she’s not guilty she wouldn’t be afraid in the first place, once she’s guilty isn’t it better she seek for forgiveness and desist from the act?
No she’s not preaching d gospel…… this is just the most honest truth, I ‘ve read pple’s comment but nobody address d lady’s side. D fact that men cheat shld not the lady right to do same
Uzoma Osamwanze. Abi ooo. That mentality that bcos men cheat women can cheat too is bad, d fact is that its not all men that cheat. Most of the comments are like they support the lady cheating habit. No man can just wake up and tell his wife to go and swear if not for a reason, so running away may not be the best option. If she’s guilty let her confess and beg for forgiveness with the promise of never do it again. If it warrant involving their pastor or any responsible elderly person, let her invite them. Any small thing people will be commenting run for ur live, leave ur husband as of its that easy to be married and be single again.
Many Married Men Cheat But If U See D Truth U Say Nt Because She Is A Woman In D Name Of Empowering Women Who Stil Dey Suffer M @ebere Eze
The fact is that the woman is guilty of infidelity but swearing before any kind of shrine is not the ultimate solution to their problem, the best thing is to divorce her as she wish
Rifkatu James. Divorce? Have u gotten another husband for her? That’s not d best option pls. So she should divorce now, remarry and commit the same offense and divorce again? Better she apologize, if need be let her involve their pastor or a responsible elder in d family.
Madam I respect you
The husband knew there is a pastor or elders in the family but he chooses shrine for her to swear. Please don’t try it madam.
Ada Onyekwere. Must a husband and wife sleep and face the same direction? Must they lack wisdom together? That’s why u re a woman and a wise woman should know the proper things to do. Bcos the husband refused to involve their pastor and chooses to go to the shrine doesn’t mean the wife should do as well, it may not necessary be a pastor but a godly elderly person that know how to settle marital problems. Proverb 14:1 said ” Every wise woman build her house: but the foolish pluck it down with her hands”. Every wise woman should know how to build her home in any way she could. I just wonder why most women just like the word divorce, they have turned marriage into what u can enter, wake up one day and decide to go out again. No wonder single mothers and single ladies are just too much. And at the end of the day, this same divorced woman will be troubling another woman’s home that’s sweet and peaceful.
Your mama train u well, best Comment so far. Sorry 4 our girls that is y single ladies is everywhere in Nigeria
Clear conscience fear no accusations, if u r guilty, beg for forgiveness but never ever u swear,bible condemned it,even if u r not guilty ,some wicked ones will manipulate it with evil spirits to pull u down,dnt swear l warn u
Are u scared
E mean sey u no be Virgin na
Have u slept with any other man
Don’t swear… guilty or not, stand ur ground
Tell him to swear first… 90% of married men this days cheats on their wives and den force d woman to swear to her innocence cuz dey think she does d same thing… Mtcheew
Wow Wise Girl Men Re Cheaters But U Will Still Marry One Brainless Goat
If Men Re Polygamous In Nature Pls Dont Marry Bikonu Stay Ur Fathers House
Who U Help
My txt was neva directed to u, don’t take it personal OK
Men cheat a lot… many are dogs
Gbam chisom
so you women cheat also, hahahaha women
Gabriel Uchechukwu Nwankwo pls u are taking this thing too personal, she is not referring to anyone in particular.
See the comments of all the women,does it mean most women this days do cheat.
@ Jude Yes I Hav Seen Them But They Pretend Too Much
Sylvia you just talked like some one I know using the excuse that men cheat to do rubbish in the name of getting back . U why u no sleep outside your marriage Abi you self Na member? No vex ooo Na ?
@ Nwachinemelu Fred Olisa English is simple but very hard
Read my txt very well, l neva wrote dat women should cheat on their husbands… I wonder where ur question is coming from
Men cheat a lot. The even make the women to cheat. That’s how nature created men, nothing may be wrong with that but all will be bad if a woman follows suit. Please women don’t equal yourselves with men. Please stay respected as being faithful even if that man is not.
Most men are dogs..lol
Nengi Sarah Ajienka T those it mean ur father, brother or boyfriend is also a dog? No vex I just want to know.
Akoji…some questions are meant for dead people u know?? Mtcheew..
If u are really serving d living God plz don’t swear b4 any shrine ,God is against it, By the way what kind of a husband would want a wife to swear b4 a shrine, woman, ,Run for ur dear life
She can’t run oh. Til death do them part. She needs to do alot of fasting and prayers.
Biko forget that till death do them part abeg,e no dy happen dis days
Let She Endure
People don’t bother to know what brought about swearing of a thing b4 condemning the husband. There’s no smoke without fire, no husband will just wake up and be talking about swearing without a reason. Running away is not the best option, instead let her address the issue that is causing the problem of sweaeing. If she is guilty she should confess and seek for forgiveness, if she’s not guilty let her involve her pastor to talk to him and let she should pray for God intervention. How long will she continue to run if she commit the same thing and she is ask to swear again?
That’s the problem with now adays nigerian women. always supporting nonsence.
Ur husband does not trust u. Any marriage without trust is dead. One of my neighbours did that to his wife, the woman actually agreed to swear but if only the husband will also swear that he is faithful to her. Guess what, the man refused and that was the end of the marriage.
Esther Remy Okenwa. Am sure that ur neighbor will understand better now what it means to stay married and to be ex married woman. Besides, trust is what u build as a woman, if u want ur husband to trust its ur choice and u ve to do ur home work perfectly. Same goes to men. U cannot be wayward and expect ur husband or ur wife to trust u always, God knows how to open the secret. If u re a faithful woman, ur man will surely know and trust u. Some women are not really flirting but their movement is so suspicious, maybe bcos of the kind of friends they move with or the way they relate with guys anyhow. That’s why as a married woman u make ur ways clean, don’t leave carelessly as if u re still single. Above all, u cannot be living a godly life and have problem in ur marriage. U may pass through some challenges but God will be always there to see u through.
@Queen God bless u for me. If dem like make dem hear..
When you listen to words of wisdom you will know Queen Ayanfe-Oladeji you have said it all may God bless you and your family chaii you entered my heart
Don’t
Let your husband start the swearing himself.
Swear keh?….. Thief know thief… He should swear 1st as the head of the family… He need to show a good example… Ogun kor!…..
HAS HE SLEPT WITH ANY OTHER EXCEPT HIS WIFE SINCE HE GOT MARRIED TO HER? IT IS VERY WRONG FOR A WOMAN TO B UNFAITHFUL TO HER HUBBY BUT FROWN AT LAWS AGAINST ONLY WOMEN.
Nothing to be scared of…in life you get what you give
Don’t ever accept that deadly antiquity of his.. Stand on your ground and tell him that Christianity forbids it. Besides is he perfect himself? Some men sef.
Do am na
No b only deity
See u see money ritual .madam no swear o
abeg no swear…he’s a ritualist and has other reasons for thats…evil man
Glory you are right
Stupid man
Your husband doesn’t love you. He wants to use you for rituals
U are a liar, if true ur hand clean why can’t u go there and prove that u are a righteous woman. asewo
Haba sir
Make himself swear before the shrine first that he has never slept with another woman since y’all got married, after all he who comes to equity must come with clean hands. A true Christian has no business with a wannabe shrine not even to calm an insecure and suspicious husband, if you have done something warranting this demand then confess and ask for forgiveness but never go near a shrine, if he likes he can go and swear before a shrine
because nobody is perfect, just confess
Support her becs that is what u do
You sef na him you dey do Mr. Epensive
Strange
Don’t swear anything…most men are very stupid, they cheat like its no man’s business…check that ur stupid husband nw, he has cheated on you with so many women he can’t even count… If he say u sud swear,tell him he sud swear too…make una run mad together, very simple… Rubbish men with their stupid foolish flimsy excuses to end a relationship…. What rubbish!!!
Wow Ur Father Might Be One Of D Rubbish Men
Smiles, common sense is really not common jst like common English… I said “most men”…so obviously ur part of d most men…awwww,how tragic…
Nonsense…
If U Re Nt Comfortable With D Smoke Stay Out Of D Kitchen If U Cant Endure D So Called Rubbish Men Pls Dont Marry
I guess Yung B Bethla is speaking from experience, she might not be faithful u knw. any where belle face
Gabriel Uchechukwu Nwankwo, she never referred to u, y re u taking it personal??
@ Oraka Judah & he is obviously displaying his folly to every comments here
No b small folly oo
Ah wonder y he should involve her father
Datz d mentality of stupid people
Judith U Re A Big Fool
If Men Re Polygamous In Nature Pls Dont Marry Stay Ur Fathers House Nonsense Who Do U Think U Re Helping Foolish
Nigerian men very arrogant
According to the law governing marriage after a woman is marry to a man she don’t suppose to sleep with another man,but if u feel like the once u slept with b4 getting marry is not enough u are free to sleep with gate man.
My Dear If U Are Guilty Go Beg Ur Husband Nonsense
And pls also tell ur hubby to swear before ur village juju, to also prove that he has not cheated on u,.. Smh (MONKEY)
Dont mind de stupid man! He is an idiot! I will prefer you divorce him instead of swearing. I can never swear no mather what .happen. Cos its like carrying a course.
that means you are not faithful
Thief
Okey! No wonder! So you be thief? Na it make you conclude say every body be thief!
Are you sure
Then tell him you have been sleeping around.
Don’t try it pls you will go mad and he will get another woman
Haba.. Wetin dey happen now na adays with couples, why would d husband say such when he got married to her did he marry her in front if the gods he want her to swear? That husband is up to something. Run for your life
Nigeria Nollywood story lines. Please try and lie, because this particular lies it too obvious
My dear there is a picture of truth in this your response,you don’t want to get mad and also don’t want to swell to any deity Hmmmm judging from it you are guilty already so no need to swell
Wait o,there is a hidden fact behind her statement”that she dosen’t want to run mad”this really means dat she was indeed unfaithful.
Did you do such in your marriage ?
Some Women Re Saying Men Re Stupid-men Re Polygamous In Nature Pls If U Cant Endure Dont Marry Marriage Is Nt For EveryOne
Dnt do it plz
I just dey watch d way girls dey turn the story to preaching, dis is where u will know dat ladies are good at preaching. lols
Women Of Dis Days Re Polygamous In Nature
Women Of These Days Re Using Their Hands To Break Their Marriages In D Name Of Gender Equality Who Dey Suffer M
O girl make u no try am o if you like your life o
But why do men v right to cheat?……Guilty or not don’t swear,maybe he has already bribed the native doctor to kill you so that pple will think you cheat
Nne I Think U Went To Secondary Sch Pls Read D Post Wel Before U Comment Bikonu Oo
And you that went to University try and get the meaning of my comment nna……why do men v d right to cheat?….If women cheat its something else…..why must she swear?
If U Called Us Cheaters Good But Tommorow U Wil Pray To God I Need One Nonsense Who U Women Epp
If U Called Us Cheaters Good But Tommorow U Wil Pray To God I Need One Nonsense Who U Girls Dis Days Help
Abeg u self Gabriel Uchechukwu Nwankwo no marry again….. No pray for wife….. Stay like that for the rest of ur life ad see…..
Lolz mugu Gabriel Uchechukwu Nwankwo go sleep na
Unto wat nah,,,,,,,,dnt try it
Lol I pray oooooo
U are not sure of ur self
boe you put olosho for houses you want her swear before god say she don t meet her client againt…..fool
Don’t swear, it is against the scriptures….. Mk eim carry eim mumu and uncultured lifestyle go nyash 4 gutter
And many people ranting shit as if women don’t cheat___well,one thing u all gotta know is “men cheat the most but women cheat the best” #kaskia
Ar u really not seeing another man aside ur husband
What a wicked husband
Something must have brought about that.
Approach some campuses around you then you will see how married women are messing around.
One abandoned her 2months baby at home and came back to school and I asked her she said she left it with her mother at home. But she hardly sleep in her lodge, meeting different men.
What a wicked mother.
But when she gets home she will pretend as if nothing happens.
He who is without a sin let be the first to a stone. Let him swear first. He is tired of the marriage. Period
It is completely unnecessary.
That’s the latest traditon trend oh…even the once that speak in tongue are demanding it during their traditional marriage.
Y must she run if she is nt guilty.
If he go follow swear no problem
If care is not may be he has had it severally with your friends, no mind am jare!
Dn’t my dear
Na juju priest son you marry?
Are you guilty or not guilty?
Will your husband also swear?
Don’t mind him sorry to say this ur hubby is a stupid man
Are you guilty if not go and swear
Naawaa ooooooh people self, I tink the woman should do it, if she is not have extra affair outside her home.
December is fast aproching so he want,s to use you for rituals money searcrifice…. run
U married a juju man for a husband…. But wait oh, wat makes him reason u this trash
Pls don’t swear on . for me I will not swear oo
If u never cheat on him noting will happen to u if u swear,but if u ever jogodo outside ur matrimonial dont try to swear even by the name of merciful God
Let the two of you swear nah
Don’t swear.
No body holy pass so let him swear 1st 2 purify himself else no try it if he doesn’t want u again better he divorce than 2 swear rubbish just run b4 it too late
Let him swear first…wicked man
Dont do it,did he swear that he had never slept with another woman?
Are you still in that house? Nawa for you o
Don’t swear
Love is wicked. It’s obvious that the foundation wasn’t built on Christ. If u sure u r innocent go down on ur knees and start praying for ur husband and marriage before e late
I don’t understand, almost all d women reacted in d same direction pls does dat mean u guys share d same guilt with her or u want to tell d world dat ur husband re cheating on u dats why u guys re transferring aggression on her husband pls she said Advice but u guys re taking panadol on her headache. The point is dat cheating is bad wether man or woman But who do pay d highest price when caught wisdom is profitable to direct.
Yes it’s bad but since it has to do with idol it’s totally wrong.
The man can use other means apart from Idol biko, call a spade a spade!!!
Which religion do they believe in?
Yes i like what the man said if she is innocent go to the idol is the best way cos it works fast
Bro , she is guilty without been told. I tell my woman to swear and after much deliberation she agrees to swear I would never take her there cos a man knows when a woman I lying or telling the truth . But she saying she does not want to swear means she is guilty to the core
Nwachinemelu Fred Olisa I disagree with u ooo. Its not bcos she is guilty or not dat made her to seek advise ooo. And let me tell u, if d woman is cheating on d man and d man av proof, its better he send her away than taking her to a shrine to swear. This shrine of a thing is not always genuine. That’s ma point. Am not after if d woman dis it or not .
Is like now nice to prove
She want ha to be with you?**
And he want you nice
Can the man also swear dat he has neva cheated on the wife ever since they got married…nne borrow person leg join ur own run#change don affect the man
Swear and prove your faithfulness to him or are you guity? ?
U better stop liying
On one condition babe he must also swear if he agrees to swear them y won’t u
Don’t ever swear anything,his not the one that gave birth to u
oga we no like dis kind news abeg, we don tire..
A beg don’t mind him o. Tell him dat d two of u shld use Bible 2 swear, not u alone o, plus ur hubby ni o. Criminal
My dear for him to tell you about juju he is up to something so better use your head if not you will find your self in the street as mad woman why another woman will replace you.
Hahaha
Pls don’t risk ur destiny, u at too pretty to be mad, run as far as ur leg can carry u ooo. He myth be a richuallist ooo
Based on her statement that she don’t want to run mad,means she know her self as a marketer.
It’s a simple solution. If you’re guilty, then confess quietly to him and let the worst happen rather than waste ur life.
The man want to marry another wife that’s y he brought this topic of swearing,,,,, he want to use it as a reason.
that means the woman is not faithful
Chudi Nelson Uzuanu ask the woman na abi na she be the woman
Swear if not
Godfobid…let him swear first nd make you go your own village to bring your village deity..after he finish swearing u run for your life…swear fire
Your husband doesn’t trust you dats why e wants u 2 swear and secondly e is not a believer
woman my advice to you is confess to him and ask for forgiveness, I believe. something good will happen
He mst also do de same,aaa mxm
Best way to swear is ds:
If my husband is guilty of me not bn the only woman he had slept with then am also guilty but if he is innocent then iam also innocent. (Don’t specify after marrying u,just use guilty of sleeping with any woman aside from u).
Simple!, case close#
I guess u both wasn’t a virgin wen u met so both parties are guilty, marriage or no marriage.
That ur husband felt he’s wise,he hasn’t met yet.
Ha ha ha ha haahahahahha sure say you the faithful?
Guilty or not don’t swear,a man that want you to go and swear is not a man of God,becareful
But the woman that will leave her husband to go flirting with other men, to you, is the “Deborah” in the Bible (A WOMAN OF GOD)?. If the husband can prove his innocence, and she knows that she guilty, I she just go and confess to him and God, then seek forgiveness, instead of coming here on line to weep up unnecessary sentiment.
If your heart is clean .use your bible or Quran to swear to him that one is ok. but if he is not satisfy don’t do anything stupid
My dear swearing before a shrine is Sin before God,dont swear even if you are guilty of such is only in the hands of God to forgive.talk to God in prayers.if you swear you might be used for another sacrifice this is just a cover up.if you swear to prove your innocence definitely you will run mad .the so called husband don’t Love you he is lusting after you.
My dear don’t even try it, whether faithful or unfaithful don’t do it, even if you’ve cheated him and he demand to know, tell him and ask for forgiveness, nobody is perfect, we have our shortcomings, we are not saints, God is the only one that can forgive you in truth and in spirit, shrine or whatsoever will take revenge on you, and you must go mad whether you did that or not…. However, for a man to tell his wife to swear before a shrine, hmmmmmmm that man is deadly. I won’t do that, I’ll rather leave the marriage.
hahaha lolz kum n swear before me pls i can help issues
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Don’t
U don’t have to do that is evil before God. But Can ur husband do dat I mean swear before you there? But my sister if you trust urslf an is forcing do for him
hahaha no swear.oooo.make u no.die
Nothing bad if he will also swear the same oath to the same deity.
Lies that means you had been sleeping around, if not do it
My dear please. See am begin don’t even try such thing. U know in u dat u have not Chet on him so don’t worry yourself. Dat yur husband will he be able to come out stand dat he has not Chet on you before. De only tin u will do is to pray about it. Put it in prayers tell god about it OK tinx
Let him swear first and can if you want
No go oooo
True
Ur husband should also swear that he has never slept with any woman since he was born…. #Stupidity
Don’t try it,I don’t know why some men are very wicked,he knew very well he was cheating buh wanted to frustrate d woman life.by tie u down,he now start to do travel every weeknd.Nuisance
No woman is faithful to her husband
Like seriously I don’t believe this…. But all men are faithful abi
Run mad ke? Odika very riski.
I want to be clear, is it that u did it or u didn’t because using the deity as an excuse won’t work. If u didn’t do it, tell him that u two should go to church but wait ooooo! Y will he accuse u if he didn’t c or suspect u? Hmmmmmm! If u are innocent don’t be afraid but if he loves u, he won’t put u in danger. The choice is urs
GOD bless you jare
He should go to hell
Can he do the same?
Just watch all those woman dat saying she did not swear dey will good on cheating
if you are not married yet and you cheat that is another story entirely. but a married woman that is not a good story. we are in a world where if a man does the cheating no issue because he is the man but my God for a married lady that is hmmm not acceptable. whether you are guilty of the act or not just don’t swear abeg.
When women go to church’s praying for a man or husband, they are humble and pretend to be good, just let them in,you will see a different person. They want to rule over the man, regardless of where the Bible place them as Christians
Don’t
If you are innocent go, there nothing bad
Let your yes be your yes and your no be your no. Don’t swear
No try am ooo. Let ur “yes” b “yes” nd “no” b “no”. Dat 1 he is saying is story 4 d gods ooo
Say no to idol worship, but if you cheated on him. Then, kneel down, confess and apologize. Better to face the punishment for infidelity than the wrath of God for swearing at all, talk more of swearing in a shrine. If you didn’t cheat on him, kneel down and pray to God to come into your home while you remain still. God’s grace.
Y are the ladies taking this serious they non they see man as prostitute ooooo if u are doing it beg the elders 4 forgiveness or else
Don’t swear let him swear first
Asewo
Oh marriage Oh marriage, a perfect gift from God, but many misuse it
Why?
He should go to hell am sure he’s not faithful as well
D woman just said she did it, and doesn’t want to run mad. I suppose what u guys shld b doing is to advice her on how to appease the husband
She said “I don’t want to run mad” the fuck she afraid of?
Pls my dear to swear before a shrine is a sin so don’t swear but if u are guilty pls ask for his forgiveness nd also pray to God to forgive you it is well
Women women women, nawao for una o.
Pls my dear don’t ever swear with anything for any man expect God no matter how much u love him. If u believe in ur self ur God ll do his way for u.Tnks
That’s stupidity of the highest degree
Since is against ur religion don’t do it because it means serving another god
It is wrong for a woman to have exrtramarital affairs. From the look of things..your hubby should have a very good reason to want to take you to a shrine..maybe your behaviour has changed a lot towards him…so he is suspicious of you. If you are guilty,pls stop it bcos you are bringing a curse upon you,your hubby and your children. It is a big curse. But don’t you ever go to a shrine to swear before a deity.. NEVER!
My dear don’t try it, whether guilty or not guilty don’t do it, besides his not d only man on earth and marriage is not a do or die stuff, who knows what is in his evil mind, maybe to use u for ritual and when runs mad, he will say its ur unfaithfulness that cause it. Pls stand firm on wat u believe, God will help us women.
don’t swear dear
Just swear wt bible if u are clean ,don’t go to shrine
D word of God say u should not swear by any thing not by his name or Bible, but let ur yes be yes and your no be no.
Dont is roang
Pls don’t swears bible said thou shall not swear
Men are always inquisitive to get d best .but there d are worst sinner. to me ,I want to let them know that the measure give u give out will Certainly return back to u in Jesus name Amen
He has to sweat too
Is marriage by force? I no marry again na crime. They there they blow grammar
Pls dont do dat except wit bibile
Not even with Bible
Can he swear too
Nonesense,tell him that All mighty GOD in heaven will vindicate u.
Don’t even try to swear metchewww
Even if u sleep with another man,don’t agree with him but settle it with God and desist completely from such act he is a merciful God .A man who has d heart of saying d wife should swear in a shrine is not a Christian secondly his heart is been controlled by d devil,a responsible man would not do that.please go to God and have ur peace.
Pls don swear cos he want t use u 4 (ogwu ego) or let him swear if he ddnt av sex wit anoda woman
Dont mind him
Going to a diety to swear is idol worship,if u good christian u wnt do that.
This is what fit ladies of now days! If e sure for you say u’re not guilty go and swear nah.
Tell him to get lost.
He should first of all swear to his diety that he hasnt had sex with oda ladies bfo dragging u along. Monkey
Rubbish
He is a goat
That’s nonsense. Let him swear first. He must trust you. Marriage is about trust not mistrust.
my.friend you.better swear.oh else we assume you are cheating him big time
Swear fire
Then keep to your faith God never sleeps nor slumber
But have kept urself as ur God love it
Di gi Abu onye NSUKKA ?
So don’t do it….if you know you have cheated on him too, confess and let him do his worse….
Let ur yes be yes n ur no be no never swear at all bcos it’s against Gods’ commandment.
hahahaha i cant laugh oo
Men cheat a lot. The even make the women to cheat. That’s how nature created men, nothing may be wrong with that but all will be bad if a woman follows suit. Please women don’t equal yourselves with men. Please stay respected as being faithful even if that man is not.
Don’t swear, but please remain faithful. If you have sinned you need to repent, l say again don’t swear see Mathew 5:34-37
The way you sound show say you no pure ,d no swear no consine your belief but your conscience
Dont do it
Even if ur husband swear, don’t Swear cos u don’t no if thy av mention ur name at d shrine and not his. But never the less don’t cheat even if u no very well that he’s cheating on u, is better u pray for him to change or divorce him.
If u wl swear,let him too swear first cos a man like might hv slept wt too many girls out there or mayb he had a plan wt deity to kill u and marry his girlfriend .
Don’t swear
That husband of urs should go and hug a tranformer
Common go and swear, you women tire person. Make him dey sure say him don marry you.