Obsession is a psychological disease that could prompt human beings to take very irrational decision.

That seems to be the case of a married man who is desperately seeking the hand of his secret lover in marriage and also threatening to divorce his wife and marry her officially against the lady’s will.

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“Have been having affair with this married man for 7 months. I like him. I don’t love him. He was there for me during my intern. we have an intelligence bond not always sex. but I still love my boyfriend any day anytime. My problem now is I ended things with him and he said I cant leave him that he will die.

That he wants to marry me. and he is going to chase his wife out. I said no. Ra rao. Mo gbe!! I don’t want to marry him O. now he stalks me. he said he has asked his wife for a divorce and she is moving out with his daughter soon. I told him I cant do that. He got upset and said he will tell my boyfriend and my parents that I ruin his house. That he must marry me. He threatened he has our Noods. I don’t know if he is lying. I cant lose my boyfriend of 6 years. I love my BF. Please can I call police for him? what can I do? I just want to wed my BF and Leave this mess.”

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  2. Yeye gal if e fit lose e wife n daughter wen b e blood for you y u no go leave ur boyfriend for d man na? After all if to say u really lik or love ur boyfriend you for no cheat am d guy . So I support am mak e release ur yeye nude pic if u say u no do again

  4. well only if u are telling the truth . go to that u man friend give him last sex . and talk about this issue with him . he will understand but if not ‘ try to contact me . i like to help ‘ :

  15. Don’t you know in the first place that Man your are having an affair is married?…This is Africa…it is not Europe where you will do something silly & go scot free…Just because of you someone Happiness has been Shattered…The Hope of One United Family is now Divided.Just Pray She doesn’t place a Curse upon you & your Generation..If you loose your Boyfriend..you can still find another one….if married woman in question places a curse upon you & your Generation……No be Small Matter oo….

    • My brother, that’s exactly what I said yesterday others were attacking me. U knew from the beginning that the man in question is married, but out of desperation and cheap cheap tins they wil all end up destroying their future and later push it to prayer prayer from one church to another.

    • How will she know, she will only be married but lonely, I really pity that woman ooo, if she tell u what she’s passing thru 4rm morning till night in her life cos of this girl & her husband. Girl don’t tell me that man ve not insulted his wife on phone cos ur with him at the moment. Girl u nearly killed someone ooo & u re talking about loosing ur boyfriend, loosing boyfriend my foot. U re a murderer. For that useless married man to want to marry u, he must ve created chaos in his home thereby making him uncomfortable to stay with his family again & u must ve supported him against his wife. U gave him hope to marry u & at the end of the day u want to disappoint him. U re wicked oooo.

  29. Go to hell. Idiot, let him release the photos so that people will see your foolishness. Haven’t you heard that dating a married man is an act of accumulating curses to yourself? Your cup don full. Ntoooorr

  32. Help you? Really? Where do you want the help to come from? What were you thinking when you put your fellow woman in misery for 7 months? You are afraid to loose your man but you were not afraid of ruining someone’s home. A woman was at the edge of loosing her husband and a girl was at edge of loosing her father, but you didn’t care. How much was he giving you? I might sound mean, but I hope it gets worse than just sharing nude photos and reporting you to your boyfriend. Next time, you will see a married man and run.

  41. Long throat na im go kill you…idiot!! You knew he was married and you went ahead to f..k him..collecting money from him to maintain yourself for selfish reasons…thereby making him fall in love with you and destroying his family..and you kept a steady boyfriend. Please let that young man be…you don’t deserve him atall… Dance the azonto music yourself.

  44. Why didn’t u think of that at d first place where busy sleeping with him, now his family is about to leave his house bcos you. If the blackmails you then it ur fault. Anyway marriage is not by force go and ur bf the truth if her breaksup then let him go, as for d man if he continue tell the police to scare him away

  49. nawa.ooooo ladies. God himself know that it is not our wish to cheat on our woman but ladies are very hot. they push us into that n for dat reason any man dat cheat shall be surely forgiving but for ladies will be punish. girls are wicked

  52. Really? when u started ur affair with the married man, did u tell us to advice u? carry ur cross ooo. i wish that man can just release the pics so that ur 6 yrs boyfriend can know that he has and he is wasting his precious time on u.

  54. Some girls r critizing her as if they r saints, Is that a threat he should go to hell and leak the pictures wat will happen now that has not happened before mtweeee rubbish but mind u dating a married Man is wrong Law of Karma awaits defaulters

  60. I don’t advised on this kind of rubbish! Its a lesson to all the ladies out there who is never contented with what they have….
    According to the scriptures, Let anyone of you who have not done similar thing cast its stone…

  62. Pretend u ar bak with him,tell him u love him and pretend u are for him,one night after a hot session take all his phones and scram…go to d lagoon and bury dem there…hahaha yeye de smell.

  66. But sometimes lets pause and think.D bible says whatsoever a man soweth,he shall reap.Some married women today once dated married men when dey were single.So lets not start cursing those single girls dat are now dating their husbands,since dey are just reaping what dey sowed

    • The young gal will in turn reap what she has sown, simple! Just pray you don’t experience such in your marriage. Living a holy life doesn’t save you from this mess. Men will be men, and greedy gals will be greedy gals.

    • @ queen, hear urself what abt the man that lev his wife to go after the girl. Let’s call a spade a spade. Atless d girl realise her mistake n say no bcos she Dnt want him to abandon his family n u pple re here talking rubbish. Nobody is even blaming the man in question. Disgusting

    • Do you mean that the wifes of all these men that cheat slept with married men before? Wat of the Virgins, decent n God fearing women out there who still end up with infidels as husband, wat have u to say about that?

    • @Sancta i said some of dem,not all.lets take d case of dis lady now seeking for advice.tomorrow if she marries,she might start having same problem and wen she cries out people start cursing her tormentor not knowing she once did it.All i can say is if u never did and somebody is doing it to u,go to God,remind his word.tell him u didn’t do it becos u dnt want anybody to do it to u,he is a just God.Forget issues about Virginity stuff,dere are virgins dat did worse,only difference was dat dey refused to be penetrated

    • @Sancta i said some of dem,not all.lets take d case of dis lady now seeking for advice.tomorrow if she marries,she might start having same problem and wen she cries out people start cursing her tormentor not knowing she once did it.All i can say is if u never did and somebody is doing it to u,go to God,remind his word.tell him u didn’t do it becos u dnt want anybody to do it to u,he is a just God.Forget issues about Virginity stuff,dere are virgins dat did worse,only difference was dat dey refused to be penetrated

  73. Idiot, u r scared of losing ur boyfriend but u r not sorry for a woman whose marriage is been ruined by u. Why must u date a married man in d first place? U r very selfish n wicked. And u will go to church on Sunday. Pls Mr man, if u r reading this post d nude pictures online, she can’t eat her cake and have it, ur marriage is on d verge of ruin. I concur.

  77. y not think of d consequences before u start dating him?, if u do u wouldn’t have found yourself into this mess, I think this is d karma of ur sin, be strong n accept it.my advice is for u to take action before he does, go to ur guy n confess, beg him, if he loves u, he will forgive u, narrat ur story to ur elder sister or a trusted person who understand u well, preferably ur mum, two of u should go n confess n beg the woman, if she forgive u, u have no problem, also ask God to forgive u, be strong n don’t feel shy if he post ur nude pix n pls don’t ever go back to this dirty life style.Good Luck!

  79. U dey mad nii, na who Wan help u, who send u message? Wen u dey do wetin u dey do who u help? MUGU! See Admin I take God beg u make una dey post wetin go give person beta money for dis recession abeg.

  80. dear just tell your boyfriend de thruth if he forgives u go straight to de wife and apologized ler the man do his wish am sure is only a treat to make u go back don’t ever go back as u have accepted ur mistake my God will see u true

  81. Married man and boyfriend are the same thing pls come back to God and accept Jesus Christ in ur life,,,,,,Bible says anyone who is in Christ has become new creation, behold old things has gone and new things has com,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, Don’t worry about what the man said about telling ur boyfriend,,,,,Forget all these and put ur trust onto To the Lord,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,Amen

  86. how can u take nude pic with a man u know that is married, my sista u really risk ur life, but it has happened. let him go ahead, just go straight and explain everything to your boy friend, he might forgive u. but be wise

  92. She has made a mistake which no one is above , so throwing insults at her is not the issue I must confess they r both wrong i.e the man and the girl so let’s not judge her cos God sees our hearts and knows who is a saint and a sinner , so judge not let God be the judge. cos if our husbands can zip up then it wont happen just my opinion though .

  93. He need to release the photos not just to your boyfriend but to who ever cares to see.u are a disgrace to womanhood.and even if you eventually get married someone else will break your home because what goes around comes around.

  94. One od D worst things u can do as a young woman is to date a married man cos what goes around comes around u can’t eat ur cake n expect to have it back. As you sleep with another woman’s husband so shall another woman sleep with yours life is turn by turn

  101. The man too is a shameless idiot for saying he was going to xpose her, after all Na boyfriend, no he husband, the girl should not panic a bit, we will all expose ourselves to the fullest. Rubbish. That is a big treat from the man fucken idiot useless man. In fact am angry oh.

  107. If half or all the ladies are saying “Good for you” why did you date him since he was married ” I want to ask, who then are the ladies dating the married Men???? Everybody don turn Saint dey throw tantrum…. I’m not saying she’s right BUT most of the comments na from ladies, so my question again is, if so many ladies are speaking against it here, who then are the ones dating the married men in secret????? You wey dey do clean mouth, your own go soon come to limelight, repent and give your life to Christ ”

    Advice : Young lady you need Jesus….. After that, confess to ur bf… If he loves you he will forgive, if not move on……. If he forgives, both of you should go and Apologize to the wife and tell her the situation of things……

  117. Some girls really don’t have any shame because of stupid money they collect from so called sugar Daddy they make up their mind to tear her fellow woman’s home apart but I have one advice for you what goes around turns around, I swear to Almighty God any girl or Lady that will try to tear my home apart so shall your remaining miserable life will tear apart.

  126. When you were sleeping with the man you take it as pleasure but now it have turned into pressure. You just better repent and turn back from your evil ways. Be prayerful for GOD to intervene.

  127. Hahaha,The girl in question is very funny
    1)You are in a relationship of six years and you are depriving a woman that is married of her right.The thunder that will fire you is still doing press-up

  133. May devil punish u, going after pples husband nd now u want to save ur own relationship boy friend for Dat Mata. D bomb Dat will fire u is still in sambisa forest during pressup.

  134. I cannot judge you my dear… going out with a married men or women is not the only sin in the eye of the most high God…we have all sin at some point in time… Please pray and ask God to forgive you…and stick to your break up with him..he cannot do anything to you nor send your nude pictures in public… avoid him completely…God has a great things for…to those who are insulting her…???I guess you don’t even know what you are doing….she has realized her mistake…that is why God came to die for us. You may not be a husband snatcher,,,but you have your own sin…stop being hypocrite…Only God can judge us. God love us all..good morning.

  135. help you? did u ask for help when you were double dating? u are so selfish sleeping with another woman’s husband to break her marriage but you don’t want your boyfriend to know and leave u abi? let him leak d pictures dat serves u right

  136. Nawa 4 we girls ooo look at how we are evening destroying her heart the me, our fellow gul need an advice to knw wat she will do not to lose her guy,instead of we helping her we are here given her more pain. Let’s be sincere how of u have not done more than this, how many of u have done such thing and post it on Facebook to sick 4 advice, no we can not, but this girl has d courage to post this about her life instead of we helping her out, we are here opening our silly mouth vomiting rubbish, who are u to judge someone’s life, we don’t have any right in judging ppls life cs u don’t knw d reason y d person is in dat conditions.Mmtcheeeeeew

  137. I know it must be married woman dat will sully take back at her, u will not talk abt the man dat went after her, Bessie the man is a foolish man, just cos of a girl u let ur family go….let him go ahead and show the pix, after all is just of 7 months, as for ur boyfriend let him be if he truly luvs u he will forgive u and if he don’t let him go dats nt the end of ur live..

  140. These can’t be true,hmmmm married man, Wetin him give, u so foolish that u don’t know that he is transferring expired blood n water into ur body, babe take am ooo na physical consequences, d spiritual r yet to come,

  146. The measure you used for another person have been used to measure for you.Any evil done by any man to other must surely be redressed either now or later. The same thing is waiting for adulterous home breakers.

  149. My dear only way u need to end dis madness is to allow him do his wish, don’t be pernicious abut it,so u don’t give room to do the worst, if doing dat will justify his conscience den let him do his worst KKK, u are not a saint,u ha confess for God to Redeemed u. Be calm

  162. Oya all this married women dat is insulting her let’s clap 4 them kpam kpam kpamkpamkpam 4 u ppl tell me in ur youth age u don’t do more than this, instead of u mother’s to help a gul like ur daughter u are here coursing the gul all this ur daughters dat is in school do u knw wat dey are doing there knw u ppl don’t u are here coursing sm1s daughter.Mmtcheeeeeeeew

  163. So you even have a boyfriend and you’re messing around now you need an advice? ok first of all girl what you did is very bad secondly you are so doomed because you committed double sin just start praying for forgiveness first and then go and tell your boyfriend what you did and beg him to forgive you as well. Good luck.

  167. Call him to come and meet you and then set him up or even cut off his manhood, this is for a start and when he comes back again, i will tell you what to do if he is still alive .

  183. Long throat na im go kill you…idiot!! You knew he was married and you went ahead to f..k him..collecting money from him to maintain yourself for selfish reasons…thereby making him fall in love with you and destroying his family..and you kept a steady boyfriend. Please let that young man be…you don’t deserve him at all… What u did to others will come back to you 10x

  185. Face the music. God has answered the man’s wife prayer. Confusion in the paradise. Seek the face of God because he is the only one who can give you peace and forgive your sin. Mind you life na turn by turn nothing is permanent

  189. My dear you don’t expect to have a good relationship with your boyfriend not after you have destroyed someone’s home if you want to be happy again dat home you have destroyed you better do something to bring it back

  192. My dear,u have to use refusal and
    negotiation stills, give him the implication on his side too,and don’t sit there crying .and u have to repent and also tell Ur boyfriend the truth, if he loves u he will help u fight cos from Ur massage Ur are only concern about him and not really u.

  198. Nudes?? Y will u wanna have nude selfies wit anyone?? Wats ur business dating a married man when u already av a bf?? And my final question is dis… When last did u go for psychiatric evaluation?? Yeye girl

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  203. Uwalk around destroyn homes!!!!!n CME up hre to vomit rubish deal wid ya rubish!!wen uget married a young girl will do same to u!wat goes around comes around!

  208. To tell u the truth i hart ladies who goes out with men so they z nothing I can tell apart saying that u r a big fool u should v thought of that before u opened your legs to him may u leap what u soul

  212. Don’t worry,let him do it,u can only loose ur boyfriend,but he will loose his wife and daughter,even loose respect from his family,I just pity the poor wife,but for u,u will surely reap what u are sowing,when u marry too one small girl go dey run follow ur husband,and the girl go tell ur husband to send u away from the house, u love ur boyfriend na u dey cheat on him with marriage man? Kerma no dey fear anybody

  215. She is even a nice girl to have stopped the idiot from sending her wife and daughter packing. Some girls will allow the foolish man to divorce the wife before they dump him for another man…I think you should try and confess to the woman’s pastor if you know their church, he may help settle this, even though it wouldn’t be that easy. God will help you okay.

  216. did ur boyfrnd nt hv aphone or he is nt on facebok or whaup if he does he shouls avice him cos he has already read this ur al sin u hv conmit. if is me i ll only 4gv u so dat my life ll go on but ntin on this earth ll eva bring me n u 2gether no as frd non love once

  221. Good thing u have come to kn your mistake just ask God for 4giveness and he well set u free from all your sin for we all have sin and fall short of his glory don’t worry he can not do what he said he intend doing as even he shall be affected d lord is your strength dear.

  224. You were busy dating a married man, with considering his family, now the whole thing is about falling back on you and you want advice. My dear at the beginning you forgot that Karma is a bitch. Pay back time inugo? Enjoy it

  227. Y are we Nigerians always criticizing each other, she only asked for an advice if u can’t give her one just ignore it and stop adding to her problem. And to u lady, I don’t want to know d reason u dated a married man but no lady is a saint in this world cos we all are sinners in the sight of God. I want you to just let him be Bcos if u tell him not to leak it he will ask for u to continue the relationship with him which u don’t want. Let him leak it, Pple will just talk about it for some time and forget about it. And pls don’t make another mistake of sending nude pictures to guys again. That’s my advice to u.

  241. Why should we help you? Did you seek our help when you were doing your thing with a married man. Anyway also look for something to blackmail him too, he still has his own pride that he won’t want to loose.

  242. Rubbish go and finish what you started when you were dating a married man did you thought of the relationship you with your boyfriend it because you do not value what you have that’s you went after a married man

  244. God punish devil!!!! U even have a boyfriend of six years n u were with him. Money doubler,I guess u are happy now. My advice wont count but I will try. U realized ur mistakes just because the man is now too mean to marry you by all means, if not u won’t. U dont want to loose ur ordinary bf but a family is in shamble here.U know ur root, go back n make peace with God wholeheartedly. If possible go look for the man’s wife if she is a lover of God n beg her for forgiveness. Keep reminding the man that he needs Christ n how important it is for him to reunite with his family.

  250. I hate ladies who flirt around with married men. Why destroy the homes of women like u. After u will be praying for your home. Mtcheeew did u come to ask for advice when u started dating him? Go nd advice urself again.

  253. Dating a married man ! I will say it depends on d condition….if d fault is from the woman d man might be looking for alternative, but if d fault is nt from d wife nd u break another woman’s home your life nd d kids u bear for d man can never knw peace(it is not a course but sure). so pls dear think twice.

  260. Nollywood……
    Thunder that will fire you eeeeh
    It will come like the vibration from walls of jericho when it was crashing…..
    What kind of story is dis…….lemmi not vex…..v not eaten….

  268. This Buhari season dey bring up many things… Now you want advice right ??? Okay you dont want to loose your boyfriend not husband oooo…… but am sure you know very well that this your selfish and stupid act has already made another woman loose her husband and a daughter her father. i will be candid with you, Hope you remember that saying that goes what ever you sow ??? if you dont get your reward now by loosing your boyfriend as you claim you would in future loose your husband to another woman . i Would advice to start confessing to either your boyfriend or to the man’s wife . Nobody says it would be easy .. but would be better than him sending your nude viral….

  271. Don’t mind him. U have made up ur mind not to continue, pls don’t. U made DAT mistake already pls don’t repeat it again.

    Pray ask God to forgive u n then confess to ur boy friend.
    If he love s u, he will b angry but he will stay n may even help u to fight that beast . if he leaves u, take it in gud faith n blive God for another.

  275. All these tinz are caused by we guyz, I do tell young guyz dat if ure yet to have money stop wasting ur time with ghel, once u cannot meet her financial needs, she will port to a sugar daddy, dos few ghels ain’t like dat o. Now to d lady, u love ur bf n u were cheating on him for d past 7months haba, its unfair . I hope d guy can 4give u oh ,dnt worry d nan can’t blackmail u cos he’s involved.

  276. You were having an affair with a married man yet you have a boyfriend, 1stly, is your relationship with your boyfriend mean to lead to marriage? If yes, then he is not your boyfriend but your fiancé( except the relation is for fornication). How could you have a fiancé and be dating a married man, what exactly were you looking for?

  279. Bibe said we should not judge,so that we will no be judge,let us live the judgement for GOD to jurdge both off dem,young lady ask for forgiveness of sin, and dont go back to dat sin again,our God Almighty is a merciful God,he wil forgive you,no body is perfect before God,Except GOD ALMIGHTY Him alone is perfect,Glory be God,

  280. What goes around comes around. D evil that men do lives with them, it no longer lives after them. U’re at the verge of breaking another woman’s marriage and u say u cannot afford to lose ur ordinary boyfriend? U didn’t believe karma in karma huh? No help for u girlfriend. The market when u order for don come, u must buy am, no going back. Deal with the outcome.

  281. I don’t support nor in any way defend girls that sleep with married men. However, yours is different in the sense that you have realized your deeds, and now you know how his wife must have felt when she noticed her husband slipping away from her. We all have sinned and come short of the glory of God. We all may not commit that one particular sin, but we are sinners in our thoughts and ways. Go to God in prayers, and confess you sins to him. Always tell your boyfriend the truth before someone else does. He may or may not forgive you. If he breaks up with you, then you must take it in good faith. Ask of any female NGO (WACOL, etc) and discuss your issue with them. There are legal means to stop a black mailer. You realize that the issue at hand, is beyond your bf leaving you. Don’t be hostile to the man. If you still have his messages and current threat messages, give it to your lawyer and keep on praying. I for one hate any married man that even takes notice of me because it’s such behaviour from these men that made their wives frustrated (as a child then, I saw these effects and it makes me really hate flirtatious people: esp married ones) I will not judge you even though that I am so tempted to do so. All I want to tell you is that Jesus loves you because while we were yet sinners, He died for us. He still loves us. If you know a responsible spiritual head (Rev Fr, Pastor, etc) do start from there to share it with the person for spiritual guidance and counselling too. These are what we bring upon ourselves when we are not careful.

    For others sharing or taking nude images with someone, please stop sharing your nude photos with anyone whether he or she is your fiance(e) or even if you are married to that person, because you don’t know what will happen tomorrow and who will be so embittered to want to ruin your image. For a second, forget that she committed adultery, which some of you are doing or might have done before entering marriage. While some married women are still doing it. If you have no hideous sin (past or present) then, you must be an angel .

  286. It is your own cup of tea. Therefore, continue to enjoy drinking it. You don’t know that there are consequences in every step you take in life? When you were enjoying it, facebook users were not there. Now, you are begging for advise from us. My own advise for you is to allow the married man to release the nudity so that his wife and your boy friend can see what was going on on their back. So tigbo. Enjoyment in Calvary.

  291. If you don’t want your boyfriend to see all those pics and rubbish time you spent with the man….I don’t want to believe you’re saying everything to him by yourself..(boyfriend) by unloading your pics and the man’s pics with face covered and this writeups…..my dear you have already done the publication yourself. Think

  295. The man should have released her pic on time instead of threatening her…… Let the whole world see what she has done…… She broke someone’s home and she wants to have a home…… Hell No

    • But bro how is stupid among dem, d man or the lady, did d lady ask de man 4 a date? d man destroyed his home with his own hands, did d lady ask her to love her more than d wife and family, oh come lets have some brain ….Let God judge

  300. actually,my dear i think that had been your goal an now it has matured ,are you trying to post it on social media to tell us your susess ? well my dear the only advice i have for you is that that man have no value to any woman at all be it you or whomever he has already sold hi dignity as a man for him to even utter a word of abandoning hi fanmily for you infact by next year or so he’s going to fling you too for another watch out for part 3

  303. I have sampled many opinions here, some of you have already killed the poster by words. In your heart now, ur a saint. You have never been involved in any shit. Come to think of, if he releases those pictures, will he totally dissociate himself from the act? How possible is that… Then he looses a wife and a daughter and the girlfriend. Then the girl looses just a boyf. If u ask me, that man is more unreasonable.

  309. We are not meant to judge others but sometimes we women act so foolishly how can you allow are married man to be sleeping with you for good 7months a man with a family for that matter what is it de man is offering you that will make u cheat on someone you have been dating for good 6years intead of planning on how to build your own home remember what God have join together let no man or woman come between them……now you are afraid to loss de love of your life just have hope in God and ask for mercy bcoz he will 4give you and what is meant to be will be so if you and your boo are meant for each other he will forgive you despite all odd and women we should always protect our dignity as future mothers and create great legacy for our own good and for our own children……and sis I hope u ave learnt your lesson so try and make amend while is still early…stay bless

  310. If in your wildest imagination, you thought he was going to divorce his wife for real then you fooled yourself. You are still a small girl and so you still don’t know that men are wise. In the first place he just wanted to use you as a sex thing, while he keeps his marriage intact. Hope you have learnt your lesson anyway, even though the hard way. I pray God have mercy on you and see you through this mess you put your self in. And I hope you won’t even dare try such again and finally I advice you to use your youthful age to serve God and in due time He will give you your own husband. You girls should stop trying to reap where you did not sow, it’s dangerous

  314. After all said and done what’s d advice? At least she came to her senses that she was doing wrong n had repented of it, we’ve scolded her enough, she came to us for help. Think of her as a naive little sister or ur best friend n advice on what next to do before she go commit suicide oh my hand no dey

  325. My sister go ur way, don’t do it with him again. Ur free from ur past , just pick up ur future and keep the man far from your life. Don’t be afraid of useless treat, God has forgiven u. Just walk away from him. And if ur boy friend really love u, he forgive u, but if not don’t kill yourself, read psalm 51: 1 to end. Don’t date a married man again, God will give you a good husband. God bless my sister. Amen.

  326. The solution is simple, I can’t judge or curse you. So firstly,tell your boyfriend the truth, if he stays fine, if he doesn’t, fine. Count your loss and begin a new page of your life, then go to God in prayers and allow an elderly person accompany you to the man’s house where you will kneel down and apologize to the wife sincerely. Finally, go to God in prayers and all will be well.

  329. I no blame u jare na the wife sleep come dey pour spit for mouth I guess urs is juicier and more pleasant than hers since she open her eyes and allow sand to enter abeg offer valid while stock last meaning enjoy as long as u can before he dumps u for the next victim

  333. If h expose d nude pictures, u expose him fully clothed & tell d whole world dat u were in d act with him. Someone sin, realized she has sinned & wants out & u are forcing her to d extent of exposing her, go ahead, may u mistakenly send d one with ur face, stupid man, didn’t u kno u were married wen u went after d small girl with possibility wot she can’t resist. All those callin her names are worst dan her, some of u are even in ur husband’s houses & still havin affairs, wait till u are caught, my dear poster, go to ur God in prayers, all is well

  338. What type of help are you talking about? Let me ask u,do u love ur so called boy friend? Continue to destroy that home u’ve already succeeded in destroying and wait for your turn.Forget about dt ur boy friend. Allow him to go for a more sincere girl if not u’ll break his heart. Good luck in ur new relationship.

  339. Explain to your boyfriend before he hears it somewhere else….pray to God for forgiveness and then let anything that want to happen to happen but never make a second mistake by marrying that man

  343. OK, love, one last comment ok lol. Well, what we must all know is, when you apply the word, there are other scriptures that cannot be overlook, therefore you have to go into it well to know all what the Bible talks about that particular subject or topic, to be able to give the perfect advice! First of all, what is sin? What are the various kind of sin? What are the punishment for each sin? If God made it known what sin is, then you should know sin defined and he alone has the punishment for sin as well as forgiveness, although we are also asked to forgive! The bible has made it known that, there are sins that leads to death, and one does not lead to death. There are also some sins that will not be forgiven, like blaspheming against the holy spirit. The bible says the one who pulls a sword will die by a sword and the one digs a pit will fall into it, the list goes on and on, even in our country here and any other place there are laws that governs, and when you go against the law and you are caught you will pay for it, but there are other unaccepted way of life, like what this lady did, but will never be brought under any form of punishment because the law didn’t add that to The constitution or see it as a crime. So all I’m saying is, the fact that we all have something we do that is not right, does not mean you can’t tell someone that what he did is not right! Except you are doing the same thing. And also, we should know, that, there are a lot of scriptures in the bible that permits Christians to judge, depending on the spirit leading, so we shouldn’t base our judgements on one scripture. If not, then don’t tell the murderer that what he did was bad or worse, because we all have some form of sin.

  348. Tell him you accept to marry him. Allow him do his divorce, while on it try to get hold of the nudies to delete them. If you can, open up to your bf, if he truly loves you, he will understand. Just take the risk, if you don’t , you will not only loose your 6 years relationship, you will loose any other prospective suitor .

  349. U scattered a woman like u home and u tink ur own can stand haba God dey na if u love ur 6yrs boyfrd as u claim nothing on earth will make u cheat on him abi na sex ir money e nor fit give u den y coming back again u deserve wot d man will do to u bicos u cannot spoil his own and want to amend ur own na dat woman tear will not give u peace ooo

  363. Is that your boyfriend your God ? Just go a heard and live that man because he is killing ur ambition,and also ur career, welder he tell ur guy or not if God destined two of as husband and wife u two must be together okay. But my adverse gos this way live him alone unless u don’t have a bright feature , by the way at ur age u still talk of boyfriend instead of u talking of ur husband u are here talking about ur boyfriend .

  368. There is no two ways about the consequence of what you have done, for the fact you knew him as a married man yet went ahead in subjecting another woman with probably children into serious pains, expect the recompense of your idiotic attitude for seven months. Seven months is too much na sister you’re only trying to play justification when you have intentionally committed evil. God will help you, just look for a way to meet this man’s wife and plead for leniency am sure she will forgive you after after much blabbering. And for the exposure of your nude pictures on net is never a serous issue at this time. It will only serve as a warning to you and other husband snatchers out there. Embrace a genuine repentance today.

  377. niger pipu!!!! chai. if any female here insulting dis girl hv not sin in any way; pls cast ur stone on her. if men were to be God tarrible tin wud hv apn to dis young girl. wat if she has not spoken will u see here post to tro hash word on her? Jesus. my dear let him go ahead and show d nude hes a stupid man for even making such comment. let dat man go to hell jor.wati… ?

  381. MOST U SINGLE GIRL GO FOR MARRIAGE MAN? Wen single guys r so many outside dere… We kwn dat some men r very bad bt wen u r good God will surely locate u to the good once… Stop going after someone husband bcos if dey did dat to u, u will never be happy. Pls if u r still doing it now no time is too late pls stop it now… God will Bles u all

  384. It said…… Don’t start what you can not finish. U should no der is a prize u have to pay for dating a married man not to talk of a man old enough to be ur father for 7years, ure a disgrace to woman hood.

  403. Help u do gini? Se na we help u open ur legs for d married man ni? U should have tot of all this shits b4 having sex with him, sending him ur nude pix or d ones u took with him.Try beg am well if he insist on showing ur bf u sef go him house go report ur sef to him wife na draw draw God no go vex, after all no be person push u go meet am na ur longer throat land u for this mess omo asiwerey jati jati

  408. So you can now remember that I have a boyfriend, am really ashamed of u,u don’t even see that the man is old enough to be ur father, the man is even delaying he would have done that since ,peradventure u are married now and someone does it to you u will curse the person SHEA (u are nothing but a whore, long live u with ur sexy life FOOL

  411. Oloriburuku that is wat u are foolish gals like u dat go abt luking for men that has wife at home u are only destroying other plp home all bcos of money and material tins idiot go and marry him after all he has divorce his wife for u

  416. she posted her story on FB for u guys to be in her shoes not to fire
    Insults and curses at her. Everyone makes mistakes we should remember dat. I think she finally realized her mistake so there is no use for the insults .how about u dat haven’t realized ur mistakes in some areas of ur life.

  421. Juliet Oliver, I’m sure you’re with your third husband boyfriend, keep it up so that one day you will look for our advice cuz we’re always there for you. And for you young husband lover if it’s true your boyfriend also has a married woman he is also taking k of, go back to him if not you’re not birds of same feathers so u can’t flock together.

  422. Plz dont condem her every sin is equall in the eyes of God all of us are sinners plz mind ur tongue.my dear stick to ur mind say the No with capital letter if he want to expose ur nude pix let him go ahead.if ur boyfriend say No let him also go ,then turn ur ways give ur life totally to God nd u will see the surprise package which he kept for u.when the adulteres in the bible commited adultery what did jesus do to those condeming her so u that is opening ur mouth anyhow search ur own mind too.my dear go nd sin no more.

  429. You are going to be responsible for any inconvenience or regrettable circumstances that family has and are going to and the Nemesis is grievous bod injurious so start your unfortunate separation race now or what happened to her will for sure happen to you because men are like dog’s as you will not remain sweet for him.

  431. Your boyfriend for six years? Did you think about his feelings before embarking on this death journey? What is it that you want from this old man that your bf can’t give you? Is it money or what? For goodness sake you are talking about a married man who you have destroyed his marriage. What more advice are you looking for? When everything has gone wrong already?

  443. Ppl make mistakes, she has regrate wat she has done…let God be d judge here most of u girls dt r insulting her only God knws how many married men ve u slept with,….or things that u r doing dt is worst then this…my dear sister talk to ur boyfriend tell him everything before doing dt pray n ask God for forgiveness, He is a merciful God if he is meant for u he will be angry bt still come back bt if not God will send d rite man for u…God bless u…

  448. U dnt want to loose ur boyfriend? BT u ave been sliping with a married man for 7month? U are a very stupid gal, u lost ur memory, let me ask u, wat did you see in dat married man? Why did u choose to slip with him wen ur boyfriend is around? Why did u choose to be a prostitute, and u want to marry De guy at last? U need a serious pastor to pray for u

  454. Am sorry for u dis girl, u lack home training, for ur own interest, better go and marry and leave that man wit his wife, u hear, and am sure u no that, that man is marraid befor carry ur selve to him. And after, run to-. God and confence and pray for fogivenes.

  458. My dear we r all sinners, I thank God that u hav realize urself…ask for God’s forgiveness and make sure u don’t go back again..As for the man,if he releases d camera, he is there as well and am sure he can’t face d shame as well, so he can’t do that..make sure u go back,God will see u through

  459. Well just pray nd ask God for forgiveness nd as for dat man. Him no fit chop food remain for his son? He should understand nd settle with d wife nd why u settled with ur guy . But u dis girl u kno say it guy dey important nd he left him Abi u runs paparazzi? Nd u don make d old man fall in love. Just beg him nd pray hard. Wen dey go tell ona wey b girls keep ur toto one place. U go say joint accounts better pass fixed account. Dat tin wey carry u go met dat old man, weda na penis or money Shebi u don tire now. Pray hard u hear, God will help u out Amen.

  461. God go punish u idiot girl nah so many of una De deeceive us say una love us but una still De fuck married men up and down nah so my idiot ex self De fuck married men …. So I gat no choice than to free her ….. Most of u girls are just useless

  466. In my own opinion, the man and the girl both deceive and lied to their spouses and they don’t deserve happiness. the man is no longer interested in his marriage and his home is broken…the girl should also go through the same thing…she doesn’t deserve to be happy…they both don’t.

  471. Our sins varies but before God sin is sin. For the fact hers is exposed doesn’t make ours dat is hidden better. Atleast she still tot of not marrying him which is still better. Judge not and criticize not so that so DAT you won’t also be judged. This is my take on the issue

  474. You need Jesus my dear
    sister

    just leave dat man
    b4 you resive holy ghost slap

    and de man self de foolish himself
    how can he do such a wicked act to his wife

    aunty and broda una two need
    Jesussssssssssssssssssssssssssss

  477. In this world tht we are nw no woman we come out and sayed she has never dated a marred man but once women hear anything like I am dating married man or I want to break up thy we be insulting her can any of you talk about your past relationship the answer is no so don’t judge so you we not be judge

  481. Relationship built in lies and cheat is meaningless
    If he wants to do DAT allow him,if your boyfrnd loves u he will be by your side
    If u allow him to divorce his wife 2 life’s will be ruin and u will face GOD’S wrath cuz u have separated a family….

  489. Go to hell indeed, hu send u, fool, having an affair wt a married man to d extent of having sex and taking naked pics, idiot, to hell wt u and and the fool who threatens to release nude pics. Mtcheew

  491. Did you seek counsel from us before sleeping with a married man? What kinda nonsense question and post is this;. Just look at how tiny both of dem are. Disgusting pictures. And besides, u didn’t value ur relationship wit ur bf, that’s y u were sleeping wit a married man. Mtcheeeeeeew…
    If this is true, my dear sister all I can tell you is to ask God for a total forgiveness because you have ruined someone’s home. And it will only take d grace of God for you not to loose ur bf.
    Mtcheeeeeeeeew *this post is making me angry* yabaleft abeg nor dey post this kind thing again.

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