A woman has shared how she realized that she had built in m!sogyny when she automatically wanted to make a boy the class monitor.

She was to appoint class representatives in a class and had a male and female pupil to make up the team.  While deliberating between the two pupils, she realized that she automatically wanted to appoint the boy as the class monitor and the girl as the assistant.

According to her, the girl was more intelligent, active, and punctual in comparison to the boy, yet she didn’t see her as a first choice. She immediately had to caution and asked herself why the girl couldn’t be the monitor and the boy the assistant.

This has taught her that a lot of people have built-in misogynistic tendencies they don’t even know about. People have been made to believe that men are superior to women, and it has become part of their psyche. It has pushed her to know that even as an advocate for women and the girl-child, she still has a lot of work to do on herself in regards to the mis0gyn!stic believes that has become part of most people’s daily lives.

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A video of a lady whose landlady locked her in because she allows visitors into the apartment is making the rounds online.

According to the young lady, her landlady had restricted her from bringing visitors to the apartment, despite paying rent. She recounted that when her siblings celebrated their birthday, she invited them over so she could cook for them. Her landlady turned off the water from getting upstairs, and they had to use sachet water to make the food. Her younger sister needed to take her bath, so she went to the landlady to complain about the water, and it turned into a quarrel. They now came to an agreement that the lady would pay be paying 4,000 naira for water.

She also noticed that the landlady gets rude and inflates prices each time she goes to her store to get provisions, so she stopped going there. One evening she stepped out to get something to eat at another store, and when she got back, the water upstairs was turned off again. She had to go and buy sachet water to take her bath.

The next morning she decided to go and complain to her about not having water, when she realized that the landlady had locked the gate, and warned that no other person should come in to meet her, and if she needs to go out she should call her. Two of them then got into a confrontation, that the girl reminded her that she is a tenant and not her kid.

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A lady is pleading with people to help her find the girl who stole her property after she helped her with a place to stay.

The strange girl was looking for a place to stay in Lagos, so the lady decided to give her a room in her apartment, which the girl paid for. Because she didn’t know the girl, she would lock her room each time she went out.

One day the girl needed to charge her phone, so she met the lady to ask if she could do that in her room, as the socket in the parlor was not working. She let the girl in, and fell asleep. When she woke up, she realized that the girl had taken her iPhone, perfumes, six wigs, and a power bank.

She showed the girl’s face on the video and pleaded bitt3rly that netizens should help her track the lady. “She took everything…you guys should help me, please! Why me?”, she lamented.

Netizens would get infur!ated after she added that the said girl had been threatening her for coming on the internet with the matter:

A woman has called out younger women for trying to avoid what her generation of women experienced in marriage.

The woman said she had realized that most of the young women of this generation have made up their minds not to get married. They would rather choose to give birth as single mothers than to be entangled under a man as his wife. In her response, she blatantly stated that any lady who is of marriageable age but refused to marry would be forced into it.

Her reasons for this are that they also have to experience what her generation of women experienced in the hands of their husbands. Adding that marriage was what exposed her to labor pa!n, stress, and the rise of her blood pressure. It will be unfair for women and men of this generation to back out, “na lie! All of us must collect….Them go che@t on all of us”, she added.

In address to people calling her of, that, the fact that her generation passed through such pa!n, doesn’t mean that they too must endure it, she rebuked and threatened them into f0rced marriage.

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In her desperation to get married, a lady has shared how she realized what God was actually trying to save her from.

She recounts how she would write down prayer requests for her future husband, unborn children, and other things. Place the papers in the Bible and prayed over them. She noticed that God answered most of her requests, but not that for a husband. She kept praying, kept asking, and it never came. She really wanted a baby, but didn’t want to have the child out of wedlock; she wanted to build a complete family with a man of substance, so she continued praying.

Over time, she got exhausted and @ngry at God for not answering that particular prayer, she felt he didn’t love her, so she stopped praying, stopped worshiping and all.

She concluded that God must have gotten tired of her n@gging and ang3r, and decided to just let her taste what she wanted. She would later get married, but the marriage didn’t last for long. She is now divorced and with a baby. She is back to the place she had been running away from. She realized that sometimes when God delays ones request, it is his own way of protecting that person from a future occurrence.

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A woman has taken to social media to advise on the kind of addict!ons in men that women should avoid.

First on her list was gambling. According to her, people who gamble are mostly alc0holics, l!ars, womaniz3rs and reckless with money. She likened gambling to a drug, and advised women who date men who are add!cted to it to abandon such relationships because they can’t even pray the man out of it.

Second is drug addiction. The problem with having a drug add!ct as a partner is that he will st3al from you, abus3 you, and sell properties just to be able to get money to buy the drugs. She adds that it’s like “jazz”, once it comes upon them, there’s absolutely nothing one can do about it.

Third is p0rnography. Dating a man who is add!cted to p0rn means that the woman would find it difficult to satisfy him in bed, he will be prone to ask for depraved things during s3x, and even after s3x, he would still go into the toilet and do what he has to do.

Another was fr@ud add!ction: this is a red flag because people that have tasted fr@ud money would find it difficult to grow money organically from scratch. It int0xicates them, and most times, people like that would do anything for money.

She cautioned women to avoid men who are at the extreme of certain add!ctions, because it would make that relationship less peaceful and bearable.

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A pastor’s wife who judged a lady over her indecent outfit reflected after she received similar judgment.

According to her story, prior to her wedding with her pastor-husband, they had driven to a particular junction when they came across “the most n@kedly dressed” lady she had ever seen in her life. The lady had a beach gown that exposed her back and revealed her undergarments. Seeing the lady like that p!ssed and disgusted her, that she rained !nsults on her while they drove home.

A couple of weeks later, while she stepped out in a pair of shorts to get foodstuffs, she met a certain woman who was wearing a turban over a long dress and holding a Bible at the shop. As she noticed the woman disgustingly staring at her, she realized it was because of the shorts she was wearing, and it made her piss3d and uncomfortable.

When she got home, and reflected on the incident and the lady she had judged, she became convicted. She realized that when people encounter others who are dressed in an “indecent” way, they get on their high horses to judge them. It dawned on her that it mostly not the person’s intent to s3duce people with their bodies, but the perception of the viewer. When she and her husband saw the half-dressed lady, her husband just laughed, but she insult3d the lady. She concluded that she was just projecting her insecurities; the girl had curves that could fit into the dress and she had the audacity to do it. She is not suggesting that indecency is okay dressing is okay, but whenever people critique others over their dressing, they should first ask where is that judgment is coming from.

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A woman took to social media to explain why she genuinely hates people who troll others over their humble achievements.

To reference how classists disgust the hell out of her, she shared how people looked down on a 19-year-old boy for buying a Camry car worth 10 Million naira, adding that they act oblivious to how hard the country is and how everyone is trying to survive. Again, if a girl wears a wig, opens a store that is not up to par with social media standards, people will go ahead and water down her hard work.

She lamented how much h@te she has for such people and urged them to respect people’s hustle and achievement even if it looked small, or if they are doing better than them. No matter what, it is still worth something, because they worked hard for it. This attitude she adds is one of the reasons the country would not grow.

Her video has moved netizens to share similar experiences,