A content creator has taken to social media to share her father’s comment after she shared a video in which she talked about how she didn’t want a man like him.

In the video she shared that her father went from being the sweetest person she had ever known, to someone that she barely knew.  She hesitated on spilling so much on the matter because she considered the issue sensitive, but then, made it clear that for the longest of time, she didn’t want to be with a man like her father. But whilst she avoided such kind of men, she was also looking for men that would lover her in a way that would fill the vacuum which her father had created. Yet, while she critiqued her father, she added that as the first daughter, she is his female version, and any man who would want to approach her should make sure he comes “correct”.

She reshared the video on Facebook and her father saw it. In his words he commented, “You are a big f00l b@stard”, the daughter replied, “Thank you for your opinion”.

In the video in which she revealed his reply, she states that she is aware that the incident would warrant that she starts explaining herself, which will lead her to go deep into her family matters, but she would not. Obviously what she said stroke a nerve, but she would not be found trying to defend her actions: “I said what I said”, she concluded.

Her video has stirred different reactions from netizens: some critiqued her father’s reaction while a few advised that she gives him the benefit of doubt so they would resolve their differences.

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A young lady has taken to social media to share her opinion on the cr@zy thing that Nigerians have come to normalize.

According to her, having three jobs and calling it normal is one of them; questioning if one would not be burned out. Secondly, working from morning until night and not be able to afford basic things. Third is the fact that parents expect their children to be financially independent immediately after school. Fourth is spending hours on the road while going to work every single day, not being able to go on a vacation because you are sc@red that something might go wrong, young people feeling guilty for resting, knowing somebody before the person is able to access certain opportunities, needing a skill or experience to be employed despite spending years in higher institution to obtain a degree.

She critiqued Nigerians for not only normalizing these survival mentality but for embracing it without questions. The comment sections across social medias were followed by concurring and different opinions and experiences:

ademola_majesty As a fresh graduate in 2020, I was asked to bring ₦500,000 just so I could become a staff at the commission where I served. 💔

iamdhannyfrosh 3 jobs ,for which country abeg,Omo you guys should be factual,an average job is already 9-5 ,so where do you want to see the other time to do 3 jobs,you have to be realistic and specific,if you’re into freelancing ehn ehn,you work for international companies ehnn ehnn.

tenovertenautos I tried explaining to a 25yr old Nigeria the quality of life Nigeria is depriving him of and he still couldn’t understand it. Like how do you think spending 3hrs in traffic is normal and paying light bill, but still putting budget for fuel for generator and its repairs.

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@debiichris_ We’ve normalized surviving, not living. 😭🇳🇬 Some things Nigerians call “normal” deserve to be questioned. #naija #nigerianyouth ♬ original sound – Debiichris

A lady has stirred various reactions after she asked if people would still seek luxury if they were the only ones who could see it.

The lady known as @Rena on Tiktok took to her page to share that she had always felt like people build their lives based off how people see and validate them. This for her has raised existential questions on affordance: she asked netizens if they would still want luxury, if they would still want to buy the expensive bags, the cars and do the luxurious things, if they knew that no one else but they could see it?

The response varied across the comment section. Some said that the essence of acquiring a luxury item is so people would see it, and if no one could then there was no need getting them. Others said that if they were the last and only persons on earth they would still want luxury because while they suffered no one saw them.

A most tricking reaction were the ones who claimed that luxury for them was comfort: it is being able to afford what they needed and want, being able to help and uplift their families. A minority said luxury is being able to travel around the world to experience the beauty of it.

According to the lady, this has opened her eyes to the fact that people view life differently; that what might be your destination might just be another persons starting point. What would matter to you, can possible mean less to another person.

Watch her video below,

@therenaera Would you still want luxury if no one else could see it ? What does luxury mean to you ? #growth #lifeadvice #luxury #selfgrowth #selfimprovement ♬ Everything Works Out in the end instrumental – scars

A feminist has come out to publicly denounce the course as she confesses @anger led her into it.

According to her, she is denouncing feminism because it has led to a t0xic time when women and men are constantly h@ting and f!ghting each other.  She is withdrawing because she believes that most feminist are f!ghting from a place of pa!n because she is f!ghting out of @ngry for her Dad.  And despite what her experience was with him was, she has some to realize that there are a million and one good and kind men in the world.

She goes ahead to make mention of men in her life whom she regarded as good men. Her husband, she claimed is a kind man despite his flaws (and hers), the Taxi man that drove her yesterday, her uncle, her foster father and others.

In retrospect, she shared how she almost d!3d from appendicitis and men were the ones who helped pay her hospital bills. The doctor that operated her was a man, and the hospital Managing Director (a man) waved off some of her bills when she cri3d that her biological father has refused to show up as he promised. And despite being abandoned by her father it was a man who carried her on his back when she couldn’t work, stayed with her while she was at the hospital and took her home after she got discharged. She confessed that while she was @ngry with men following what her father did, she forgot that when she was s!ck and dy!ng, so many men where there for her too.

She called on her fellow women to seize f!ghting men but b@d people as ev!l has no gender; she mentioned that women have also been culpable in murd3r, k!dnap, r@pe, robb3ry and child trafficking. She encouraged a f!ght against people causing c0rruption, hung3r, and insecurity.

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A lady has taken to social media to share why people should limit how kind they get with strangers.

According to her, when she worked as a sales representative at a frozen food store where they sold food stuffs, a woman walked in one day and begged to work for pay, so she and her children could feed. The lady explained that she was just a sales rep and couldn’t help her in that regard.

The woman pleaded for any form of assistance, for which the lady dipped her hand into her bag and gave her some cash. Two days later, the woman came again and the lady gave her cash again. After that, it became a routine habit for the woman to stop by for money or food.

On one of her visits, she pleaded with the lady to always keep the heads of fish that her costumers don’t eat – which the lady obliged. But the woman came one day and complained that the head of fish the lady usually gives to her had nothing in them, and if the lady would be kind enough to always add some fish to it, she would appreciate it.

The lady perceived that as an act of ingratitude and stopped giving her the heads anytime she came for them. She returned a week later, and after the lady said she didn’t keep any fish-head, she critiqued her for not offering to give her money instead.

The lady confessed that she felt irritated and wondered if she made a mistake assisting the woman in the first place. She concluded by encouraging people to draw the line when helping strangers, because it comes with a certain sense of entitlement.

Watch her speak,

@morenii1 #fyppppppppppppppppppppppp ♬ original sound – UnscriptedbyMoh✨⭐️

A man has come out to call off the bluff of people who praised their boarding schooling experiences for shaping them.  According to him parents should not send their kids there because the downsides are way more than the upside; highlighting that decades after, he still dreams about his boarding house, still eats so fast, and finds it difficult to miss his family or friends.

Siting the culture of bullying that comes with the experience, he critiqued how it becomes the “normal” of the students, and the never-ending viscous circle of bullied juniors aiming to unleash vendetta when they become seniors. Adding that teenagers were made to wake up by 5:30 am with the knowing that no matter how well-behaved they get, there is always one punishment, cutlass, cane, belt, hanger or chain lurking somewhere.  A student is either sitting on his/her head, hanging on the wall, frog-jumping, rolling in the mud, giving up your provisions to seniors, and being given ₦100 to get something of ₦500 and return a balance of ₦200

He added that those who share the sentiment that boarding schooling was one of the best years of their lives are the minority in the large ethos. Not to downplay their experiences, he asserted that the upsides of the institution don’t beat the downside. And if parents do not wish to raise children with traumas, they should avoid sending them to boarding houses.

He called himself anti-boarding school and concluded that he would continue to advocate against it for those who care to listen.

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A young lady has taken to social media to tearfully share why she feels h@tred towards the nation. According to her, minute things that shouldn’t be an issue, are serious mountains. She confessed that she is not a person that would come online to rant, but the issue of electricity is seriously me$$ing with her mental health.

Her frustration had stemmed from the power supply she experienced in the midst of making a makeup video for an online contest. While making the video, her light went out half way through. She waited through the night for power to charge it, but it never came through. She continued filming the next day but their was no light to power her fan so her make up would dry.

The issue of the fan had been why she didn’t put out much makeup videos, because she didn’t like that she sweated heavily while making them. She resulted to cleaning the makeup so she would start all over again.

She frustratingly states that her area barely gets power for more than five days in a month, and even when they do, the voltage is always too low to power much. This experience have caused a lot of people their sources of livelihood; adding that when she used to write for foreign clients, she would have to go to a friend’s house in order to power her computer so she would meet up with deadlines. This experience, she stated, has made her h@te the country with every ounce of her being.

Watch her video below:

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