I am fed up to the teeth with my boyfriend’s unreasonable behaviour. I knew he was married when we met and all I wanted was a fair share of his time, not marriage.

Instead, all I get are snatched moments with him, all the time telling me he had to lie to his wife to be with me. This has really pissed me off.

He always tells me he loves me, but I suspect he tells me that so as to get me into bed. Unknown to him, I once used my phone to record us having sex. If I forward this to his wife, she’s bound to hit the roof and maybe end the marriage.

This way, he would have more time for me, or what do you think?

Anna,

By e-mail.

Response:

Dear Anna,

Even if your man’s wife ends her marriage because of this nasty video of yours, it doesn’t mean he’s going to come running to you.

He is likely to be so angry that he could end your relationship. Besides, wives seldom pack their bags these days just because of an affair.

They prefer to give their marriage all the chances it deserves. If your lover were to leave his wife, he would have done that without your help. So, the chances are he is only interested in you as a bit on the side.

Seriously though, why would you want to be with a man who lies and deceives his wife? He could easily lie and deceive you too.

Don’t waste any more time on him. Instead, look for a decent man to share your life with.

25 COMMENTS

  1. Remember that d same technique u are about to use to destroy his marriage another girl is out there who knows how to do it better than u,be ready to be kicked out also at any moment…Thank u.

  2. I hope some of these girls n ladies destroying people’s home and marriage now, will not come up here one day telling us that her husband did this or that, and expecting people to advice her because what goes around must surely comes around..

  3. Toh she never see anything, if NA me I go hide the video and use it to destroy ur marriage oneday . NA when u self wan marry u go hear am. I go make money for ur hand self

  4. If you must hear the real truth, put yourself in the Wife’ position who really love her Husband, she will take you for a “Jezebel” who setup her Husband, just to destroy her peaceful home.
    Don’t you know he is a married man before messing your life with him, don’t be a “Jezebel”.
    Just let him alone, and look for an unmarried decent young man, and start a new fresh love life that will bring you Peace and Joy.
    GOD BLESS YOU, AMEN.

  5. Hahahahaha u should meet a wife like me and I swear I will make sure I will keep my husband. U were just his fun get it into your head. He loves his wife and will never leave her for u. Do u think Sending the video will help by breaking his marriage. Be the woman’s guest and trust me when u break them these man will go heaven and earth to gain the forgiveness of the wife. And u am so glad after karma will do same thing to u just as u thought u are enjoying ur marital life.

  6. Look at you,just take s gud look at your worthless self,if I’m the wife and you send such to me ,I bet you I will broadcast it on all the social networks then seek you out and beat the living daylight out of you and give you a permanent scar still gidigba in my husbands house Madam asunder mtcheww

  7. Reading comments Naija women are superb they are all in support of their husband and planing to deal with u even without knowing u,anyways if I wr to be a woman and a wife and u send my husbands sex tape with u mmmmm? I would have my husbands test of HIV and others indirectly if he test positively I wil give him the greatest fuck of his life even if it means sucking his asshole and find a way to appreciate u with acid just one touch

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