Big Brother Naija star, Uriel Oputa, has highlighted some of the main causes of depression as she reacts to her colleague Kaisha’s alleged mental breakdown.
Reports recently made the rounds online that the Sokoto-born former Big Brother Naija housemate is battling a critical mental condition.
Controversial blogger, Gist Lover, had alleged that a former Big Brother Naija housemate is mentally unstable and roams around her estate in Lekki, Lagos, looking unkempt and barefoot. Read here.
In a post via her Instagram stories, Uriel, who seemed to be reacting to the news, shared some of the struggles that come with fame and how they can lead one into depression.
“When you have fame in abundance, endorsement deals flying, then bang it stops!!! This is a major trigger into depression. You cant mentally phantom why those brands have stopped calling you.
In 4 months you have gone from being ok with eating from local bukka’s to only 5 star restaurant. You went from buying a new wig every so often. To every week, because you can afford it doesn’t mean its financially liable. It’s a fast train don’t let the crowd allow you miss your rightful destination.” She wrote.
A South African woman has revealed why she turned down her baby daddy’s marriage proposal after dating him for eight years.
Taking to Twitter to give a lengthy explanation, @Zizipho_Majama said she rejected his proposal because she was considering his finances and capability to cater for their family,
The lady, who disclosed that her child’s father is an aspiring medical doctor who would return back to school for another 4-5 years, said he would not have a source of income during those years and she doesn’t want him to bear the burden of providing for their home.
The mother of one, who rejected his marriage proposal in the first quarter of the year, however said she feels hurt because he has since moved on with his life.
“I dated my baby dad for 8years. Best relationship of my life🥺. NEVER cheated. He proposed marriage early this year. I declined. Guy moved on🤡it hurts, it hurts so bad. I did communicate my reasons nd I thought he understood kanti
Reasons:He’s a breadwinner. Still in a process of finishing his home, he’s going to varsity next year for 5-6yrs, next year there wont be an income, I asked him to atleast wait till I work. Our baby was 5months then. I was only thinking for HIM😒. It was how I saw things🌚
Let me break this 8yrs. 4yrs we were both in varsity, next 4 it was home building+ a baby. If It was all about the money I would have left when he was building his home nd broke. Or I would have accepted the proposal because we talking about a whole Dr to be here.
Its about his mental health. How are you to juggle varsity, kid,wife,family? Nd the cost of living in varsity is way high. I wasn’t going to put him through that. If he had said “I got this” And explain how I wouldn’t have declined.
I do have a degree nd honors in psychology plz let’s not make this about me being a potential gold digger. Lets plan together. Let me work first nd lift the financial burden. Crazy how men in the tweet are all mad but you would be still mad when he hangs him self in Rez.
I was not wrong for thinking for him, he was my man who often helped me through my decisions aswell. We cnt all succumb to social pressure on getting married when we dnt have our finances right. He is wrong for not communicating and not living the relationship when he saw
It wasn’t what he wanted. He dows have every right to move on. Given another chance I would still say NO, give me time to work or show me a solid plan on how you see this working. We struggled together and I was still willing to but not as a wife. U have a duty towards a wife, But you Dnt towards a gf. I stay home, I eat home, my baby can get assistance at home but as a wife we wont get that luxury, it will be all on him, why y’all dnt get this 😂”
See her tweet below,
I dated my baby dad for 8years. Best relationship of my life🥺. NEVER cheated. He proposed marriage early this year. I declined. Guy moved on🤡it hurts, it hurts so bad. I did communicate my reasons nd I thought he understood kanti….😬
Popular Nollywood actress,Peggy Ovire-Leonard has revealed an interesting fact about her elder sisters’ marriages and it has sparked loads of prayers and comforting messages from her fans.
The actress, who got married to her husband, actor Freddie Leonard, over the weekend, disclosed that her two sisters have been married for 30 and 21 years respectively.
She said the highlight of her traditional wedding was when her sisters laid their hands on her and her husband and blessed their marriage.
Sharing a photo of the priceless moment on her Instagram page, Peggy said she prays to follow in their footsteps and have a long-lasting marriage as well.
She wrote:
“This right here was the Highlight of the Night for me, I was Raised in a family who puts God First in Everything & Grew up seeing my 2 big sisters Love God Fervently. The eldest ,(left ) have been Married for 30yrs & my other sister Gifty (right )Married for 21yrs & still Counting……. I don’t know how they do it but having them Cover us under Gods guidance, protection and Me following in their footsteps is a Blessing I’ll Never forget 🙏❤️”
See below,
After she revealed this heartwarming information, fans trooped to her comment section to pray that her marriage would also stand the test of time.
Controversial Nollywood actor, Uche Maduagwu, has encouraged his fans to focus on doing whatever brings them money while hinting that he makes millions from wearing a bra.
The actor known for making Instagram content with a bra revealed that it pays his bills despite the jeers he receives from haters.
Uche urged his fans to stick to whatever brings them a legitimate source of livelihood regardless of how shameful the world makes it look to the world.
In his words;
“I have made more MONEY with my RED BRA than my University Degree has ever given me, my Management said I should not say this, but I make millions wearing this Red Bra, some of you are busy #Laughing and criticizing me while I smile to the BANK every week. Dear FANS, whatever you do that brings you money Legitimately, Abeg don’t let anyone distract or ridicule you, because as E Dey #SWEET you, Na so E Dey Pain Dem”
A Nigerian woman has allegedly bailed out her husband after he was detained for beating her up mercilessly.
The woman who was rescued from her abusive husband by a family law clinic went behind them to secure his bail when his family did not show up for him.
The clinic posted her reason for this decision on their Facebook page and expressed shock because when she came to them for help she claimed she could not afford the registration fee.
According to her, she had to bail him out because she could not stand for her husband to go to jail.
Read the post here;
“DO YOU REMEMBER THIS WOMAN?
We got her husband arrested and detained for doing this to her. His kinsmen refused to come to bail him out. They said he should die there. Guess who went behind us to bail him out? This is how the woman’s sister narrated it to us:
“My sister paid 10k to bail the husband because his people refused to come. She said that even if they take man to court that he will still end up in prison and she can’t bear it. She had been the one paying all bills including rent because he’s not working.”
OH GUESS WHAT!
The man nearly killed his wife in domestic violence. The wife came to DPA for help, but she had no 10k for her registrstion. So, we waived the 10k registration fee for her.
We then had her husband arrested and detained by the police. The man’s kinsmen refused to bail him. They thanked DPA and told us to deal ruthlessly with the bastard
But guess what! The lady sneaked behind us and bailed the man. The police asked her to pay money to bail him. And she begged the police before they accepted 10k from her. If she had gone about it through us, we would have gotten an undertaking from the man and we would not have paid for bail.
Do you see how complicated human beings can be? No money for DPA, but there is money for the police. Lol”
Nollywood actor, Deyemi Okanlawon has shared his terrible encounter with some area boys in Lagos state.
Deyemi took to microblogging platform, Twitter to explain how a driver dented his car and raised a false alarm that almost implicated his assistant.
According to the actor, his assistant followed the motorist to talk about the incident but he was tagged as a thief instead and area boys pounced on him without question.
Deyemi said he almost lost his cool and hurt the individual but he was able to maintain his calm.
In his words;
“Never been so livid! Guy scratches my car and my assistant went with him so we could settle the matter down the road. Guy drives another way, gets out of his car then starts shouting “THIEF”! Before I cld figure what was going on area boys gathered & started beating my assistant!
Omo we were raised to value peace but have the training to really cause damage… still shaken up by how close I came to physically hurting another human being this morning! God o me that my career is just starting to make sense pls deliver me from evil!
He was really going to let area boys injure my assistant! A part of me actually wished he had tried to fight instead of pleading… I just know someone would have bled!
Of course the area boys, after one of them chopped slap for the stupidity of laying hands on my guy, turned on the guy once I showed up. I now had to choose between payback and deescalating the situation!”
Veteran Nollywood actress, Uche Ebere has taken to social media to advise women against waiting till they have a job before getting married.
The thespian gave this advise while reacting to a video of a pastor advising women not to get married till they have a source of income.
The pastor had told women that they have no business with marriage until they have a job so they won’t be completely dependent on their husbands.
Reacting, Uche told women to get married if they find an interested suitor because it might be their last chance at marriage.
According to her, they can still get a job or start a business when they are married.
She wrote,
“Everybody now trying to be teaching things about marriage with the little or no knowledge at all, my dear even if you don’t have money or have something doing as a lady and marriage comes Knocking, marry
00. A cos it might be your last chance, you will still have something doing in your husband’s home and be getting your own money too, that you’re married as a woman doesn’t stop you from getting something doing and getting your own money”
A viral video has captured the moment a young man who lodged in an hotel with two women and bought items worth N85K was nabbed while attempting to flee without paying his bills.
It was gathered that the good-looking young man had lodged in the hotel in Benin City with two ladies and bought items totaling eight thousand five hundred naira (N85,000).
However, to evade paying the bill, he tried to leave the premises by scaling the hotel’s fence but was caught by the security guard on duty.
The man, while being interrogated after he was nabbed, just looked on as onlookers hurled insults at him.
Watch video below,
In other news, the WhatsApp conversation between a man and his girlfriend has gone viral online and has sparked a barrage of reactions from netizens.
The young man had warned his girlfriend not to attend a party because it would take place at a man’s house.
A day to the party, he asked his girlfriend to come and spend the day in his house to possibly enforce his previous command.
However, the lady reminded him about the party she already planned to attend, but the man maintained that she shouldn’t go.
The lady wasn’t having it at all and told him to give her a valid reason to shun the party, and he explained that it’s because it would be in another man’s house.
The lady, who was pissed at her boyfriend at this point, asserted that she won’t be the only woman at the party as other ladies, including her friends, would also be there but the man gave his final word that she shouldn’t go.
Big Brother Naija star, Angel JB Smith has joined the league of international brand ambassadors as she bags a new deal with PUMA.
The famous brand influencer was thrilled as she announced her recent ambassadorial deal with the German multinational corporation.
Angel shared the news with her one million-plus followers on Instagram with an unveiling video.
She wrote;
“Puma called and I answered, so keep your eyes on the cat 🕺🏿”
Her colleagues, fans, and followers have flooded her comment section with congratulatory messages.
Watch the video below,
In other news, recently revealed why she can’t have only one boyfriend.
Angel, in a sarcastic tweet shared via her handle, said she can’t date only one man because she doesn’t want to leave other single men hanging.
According to her, she wants to reduce the population of single, lonely men by dating multiple men.
“Sometimes I want to have only one boyfriend and then I think about all the single men that are lonely and I feel sad for them 😔👍🏿”, she tweeted.
A young Nigerian man’s incredibly thoughtful gesture to his girlfriend’s family has warmed hearts online.
A video he shared online that has now gone viral showed the beautiful moment he moved his girlfriend and her mother from their old, dilapidated house to a new apartment.
He had previously taken to social media to beg his followers to help him get his girlfriend’s elderly mother a decent home.
Fortunately for him, he received assistance from kindhearted people who donated money, and he was able to use it to rent an apartment for his babe’s family.
This came as a big surprise to the girlfriend and her family, as he didn’t inform them about the house until they got to the location.
In the clip, he could be seen leading his girlfriend, her mother, and her younger brother to the new apartment, and after he revealed that he got it for them with the help of good Samaritans online, their reactions were priceless.
The elderly mother, who was delighted by the surprise, first danced happily around the new flat and then rolled on the floor as she expressed gratitude to God for blessing her through her daughter’s lover.
Makeup artist and the ex-wife of actor Emmanuel Ikubese, Anita Adetoye, better known as Anita Brows, has stated that she can no longer date someone below her tax bracket.
Anita stated in a recent interview that most Nigerian guys target women who seem to be successful in their own lives. She claimed that many Nigerian guys are skilled at “pad things up” to the point that a woman can start dating them after becoming involved with them.
According to her, love alone was not enough reason to enter a relationship.
“You can’t really use love to enter a relationship. I guess I am speaking from experience” she said
When asked if she could date a man in a lower tax bracket, she said she could not do that anymore.
In her words;
“Anything below, I can’t really do that anymore. I feel like I have dated someone because they were levelling up in their life but it was just facade. Yea, I cannot”
A 21-year-old Kenyan lady who is married to a 61-year-old American man, Vanessa popularly known as Vannybrad on TikTok, has said age doesn’t matter when one is in love.
Vanessa, who has been married to her husband, Brad, for over a year, stated this during a Question and Answer session with her Instagram followers on Thursday, November 24.
A curious follower had asked how she landed her husband and if she used anything ‘extra’ to make him serious about their relationship-turned-marriage.
In response, Vanessa wrote,
“Nothing, it just happened because we love eachother.
When you love someone, age doesn’t matter. Love is love.”
When asked if it was difficult for her to inform her family about her older lover, Vanessa said it wasn’t hard and her family were very happy to receive the news.
“Nope it wasn’t hard and my family took it very positively and knowing that I’m old enough to make my decisions”, she responded.
Watch a lovely video of the interracial couple below,
In other news, a Nigerian lady, Blessing Chubiyojo Ukwela, has taken to Facebook to reveal that she and her husband didn’t have sex before marriage.
The excited bride, who dated her husband briefly in 2016 and reconnected with him in 2021, made this revelation while sharing their unique love story on Facebook on Wednesday, November 23.
According to Blessing, she didn’t know a relationship could thrive without sex but they were able to abstain from sex till marriage. Read her full story here
Popular Nigerian singer, Iyanya, has bemoaned the level of “hate” in the Nigerian music industry.
Taking to his Twitter handle on Wednesday, November 23, the “Kukere” hitmaker said a lot of his colleagues pretend to care, but it’s all “fake”.
His words,
“If anybody calls you “my blood” in this industry, ask him red or white blood lol. Y’all say what you don’t mean. Too many fake people in this game.”
In other news, a serious altercation ensued between popular Afrobeat singer, Yemi Alade, and a troll who berated her music on microblogging platform, Twitter.
The drama started after her junior colleagues, Buju BNXN and Ruger, fought for the umpteenth time over who has more hit songs.
During the fight, Ruger seemingly accused BNXN of paying huge sum of monies to promote his songs even though people don’t like them.
This infuriated BNXN and he in turn accused Ruger’s record label boss of using ‘streaming farms’ to increase his numbers on music streaming platforms.
Reacting, another singer, Blaq Bones, jumped on the conversation and said, “all of you using streaming farms would be exposed soon. awon hushpuppi”.
It was at this point Yemi Alade waded into the controversial discourse, saying, “Never saw a ” realler ” tweet! Somebody pls frame this tweet for me. I want to hang it on my wall”
However, the self-styled ‘Mama Africa’ got caught in a serious clash with a troll who criticized her songs, calling them ‘nursery rhymes’.
“You can try writing good hit songs and not your nursery rhymes”, the troll wrote.
In response, she said, “Sing your own abeg. Make you see say eh dey easy. Poet”
The troll didn’t back down and fired back at Yemi Alade saying,
“I can show you music that is way better than yours, it just because you have the right platform. So dont feel you are too good”
Yemi Alade felt offended by the fan’s statement and lambasted him for berating her years of hardwork.
“Thunder go locate you if you don’t stop this rubbish. I have been on the Road for 7 years. I REPEAT GET YOUR FACTS RIGHTS. THIS IS MY JOB. IT IS NOT A GAME,” the angry star wrote.
Godwin Madu, the brother of late gospel singer, Osinachi Nwachukwu, has given a heartbreaking account of how the singer’s husband, Peter Nwachukwu, prevented her family from taking care of her.
Speaking at the Federal Capital Territory High Court in Abuja, Godwin recounted how Peter physically and verbally abused the singer, who died on April 8 2022 from injuries she allegedly sustained while being assaulted by her husband.
Godwin said Peter didn’t only subject Osinachi to perpetual fear but also disrespected and abused their mother, himself (Godwin), and her twin sister. According to him, Peter once called Osinachi’s mother a witch and sent her packing while she was sick.
While being led in evidence by the prosecution counsel, Godwin added that when Osinachi was hospitalized, Peter prevented her family from seeing her and used a security guard to send him out when he insisted on seeing his sister.
Read the full account below,
“In 2019 August, my mum was sick, Osinachi begged Peter for my mum to come over, but he refused. Then Osinachi went to Pastor Enenche’s wife, Becky, of Dunamis Church, to prevail on Peter to allow Osinachi’s mum to come down to Abuja for treatment.
So, Becky met with Peter and begged him, before he accepted. Then when she came down to Abuja. The first day Peter sent his son, Ebube, to go get water for him with a cup. When he went to get the water, as a child, the water spilt from the cup. Peter beat Ebube mercilessly, just because the boy made a very little mistake.
When my mum heard his cry, she started telling Peter that he should take it easy on him, that he is a child and mistakes were part of their learning. I was there listening to my mum, and the next thing Peter did was insult my mum, calling her names that she was a witch and that she wants to scatter his family.
When he was saying all those things, my mum kept quiet and didn’t respond. The next day my sister was in the kitchen cooking, and she called on me to come and assist her. I was in the kitchen helping her to cut onions, Peter then came to the kitchen and asked what I was doing there. My sister said to him, please allow him he is helping me. He started insulting my sister, calling her names. That day, he said to her ‘you know how I used to be to you,’ in my presence for the first time.
Then the second day, he did the same thing, I was in the kitchen helping my sister. He told her that I have warned you several times not to allow this your useless brother inside my kitchen. Then my sister said to him, there are so many things to do in the kitchen. He repeated the same words, ‘you know how I used to be to you,’ in my presence for the second time.
The next day, I was in the kitchen helping my sister wash the plates, and he repeated the same words to my sister. When he said it, I was very angry that very day, I said to Osinachi what does this man mean by these things he is saying, he heard what I said and started insulting me.
On the fourth day, I was with my mum in the room where she was when I was going to the kitchen, I saw him, he raised his hands to hit my sister Osinachi, then I said if you try it. My mum heard my voice and she called me, Peter started insulting me again.
The next day, he chased me and my mum out of his house. I called Osinachi’s twin sister, Amarachi, and I told her what happened. She called one of her Delta woman friends, it was the woman that came and picked me and my mum.
It was in that woman’s house that we stayed for one month until she completed her treatment before we both went back to Enugu. Then I came back to Abuja, I started my music stuff then when I go to church on Sunday, that is when I normally see my sister (Osinachi) and whenever she’s talking to me and notices the presence of Peter, she will be afraid, she will quickly leave and tell me ‘later.’”
Speaking further, he said,
“For years, it kept happening like that until March, this year, when my sister was sick, it was through my mum that I knew that my sister was sick. My mum said to me that I should go and find out what was happening to Osinachi. I went to their house, I knocked and knocked, Ebube came out, the first son. When he came out, he now asked Ebube who is that, Ebube said it was uncle Godwin. He told Ebube to tell me that I should go.
Then the next day, my sister was in the hospital, he never wanted to tell me that my sister was in the hospital. My sister cried and begged him to send the address of the hospital so that I can come. When I came to the hospital, I saw my sister in severe pain, holding her chest. I saw a doctor that was with her there. Right there when the doctor finished attending to her, Peter was there too, I wanted to see the doctor, but Peter blocked me and called security to push me out.
The second day, I came to the hospital, he didn’t allow me to come close. Then before the twin sister, Amarachi came. When she came, Peter started asking her what was doing there in the hospital, she said that she came to take care of her sister, and Peter said she should better go back to where she was coming from.
She didn’t say anything to Peter. Peter said we should both leave the hospital, that we should go far to the garden as he was expecting somebody. For more than 20 minutes, we were outside so that he will tell us the person had come and we can go in.
We waited for so long before we now came to the room in the hospital where they were, then my sister Osinachi was begging the twin sister that she should not be angry, Amarachi said okay that there’s no problem. After that, Peter brought out a lab result and gave it to Osinachi and said to her, you don’t have cancer, despite the pain and what Osinachi was passing through right there, she smiled.
Peter went to the toilet to ‘ease’ himself, Osinachi said to us that please we should go and check on the children, that she doesn’t want any torture from Peter again.”
Under cross-examination by the defense counsel, I.A Aliyu, Godwin said,
“If I had told anybody what Osinachi was passing through and Peter gets to find out, Peter will torture her seriously.”
After he was discharged from the witness box, the presiding judge, Justice Njideka Nwosu-Iheme, fixed January 17, 18 and 19, 2023 for the continuation of the trial.
The actress, who married over the weekend while sharing their unique love story and how they dated for seven years before finally tying the knot, said her husband was faithful to their relationship throughout those years and pleaded for him not to change.
She showered praise on her husband, describing him as a prayerful man, her best friend, true to his words, and someone who has proven his unwavering love for her time and time again.
She described herself as ‘lucky’ to be married to someone like him, and advised fellow ladies to be patient with their partners.
“I saw a man that is not a womanizer and most importantly that’s why I stayed for this long. Please don’t change, Fredrick is one man that I can beat my chest on, despite what everybody is saying, that he doesn’t womanize. I will love you, I will respect you”. She said in part.
Reality TV star and actor,Pere Egbi has taken to Twitter to reveal one of his dreams he hopes to achieve before dying.
Pere, in a post shared via his Twitter handle, said his ultimate dream is to stand on the pulpit and preach the gospel to tens of millions of people.
According to the 36-year-old Big Brother Naija star, that’s one of the last things he wants to do before leaving earth.
He tweeted;
“Forget this celebrity BS, I’m gonna stand on the pulpit someday and I’d preach the gospel to tens of millions. It’s my dream. The one last thing I have to do before leaving earth.”
Forget this celebrity BS, I’m gonna stand on the pulpit someday and I’d preach the gospel to tens of millions. It’s my dream. The one last thing I have to do before leaving earth.
His tweet has stirred different reactions online as netizens advise him to start from where he is, instead of waiting till he has a bigger platform to preach the gospel.
See some reactions below,
@funmilolah wrote, “You already have a platform, start using it. People will actually listen because it’s you. Don’t wait till you mount the pulpit. The best time to start is today. A word today, another tomorrow, here and there, people will be encouraged and souls saved.I pray the strength of God over you.”
@chiefmaziobi wrote, “After touring and flexing the world… It’s the “Last thing I’ll do” part for me. If you feel it’s so important, why not do it now? But no, you’ll wait till you’ve done all the evil on earth before doing the preaching part. “
@tgif1738 wrote, “And that’s why God made you a celebrity, use your platform to proclaim the glory of the Lord. This is awesome. God bless you with his grace and wisdom”
May Edochie, the first wife of Nollywood actor, Yul Edochie, has sparked reactions after she shared videos from her recent trip to London, United Kingdom.
The mother of four is currently in the UK and took to social media to document her journey from the Lagos airport until the time she landed at Heathrow Airport, UK.
May, who revealed she traveled in business class, shared all the goodies she enjoyed on the flight, from the food to the drinks.
“The queen is in London. a sneak peek into my trip”, she captioned the video.
However, the video sparked a flood of comments from social media users emphasizing May’s achievements since her marital scandal.
An Instagram follower @am.aka1968 wrote, “Where her so called husband could not take her ,what her so called husband could not do for her ,grace is doing it last last queen may you are exceptionally outstanding”.
@bella_jordie, “Success is for those that presses on when they see a wall, find ways around a road block and consistently push boundaries and conquer territories against all odds.”
@ecaep85, “You are a beacon of hope to many women across the globe. You are indeed a bright shining star. You’re a whole book to be studied. Because of you many women contemplating suicide after a betrayal will look at you and live. Because of you people will know that you can win battles by being still and knowing that God is God. Because of you many women around the world will have hope that the sun shines after a rainy day. God bless you!”
@jessicaobioma, “So lovely, ma dear is better u hv moved on coz …. The most dangerous person to be with is someone who doesn’t love you and still doesn’t want to loose you.”
Big Brother Naija star and model, Tsakute Ladi Jonah better known as Saskay, has recounted how she attempted to cheat in an examination.
Saskay shared her experience while reacting to a trending question posed by a Twitter user. The tweep had asked people at what point they knew they would fail an exam in the exam hall.
“How did you know you weren’t going to pass an exam after getting the question paper?
Share your story 😂 🤔,” the tweet asked.
In response, Saskay revealed that she once carried 80 leaves full of ‘chokes’ – expo – into an exam hall but ended up getting disappointed because none of the questions corresponded with the expo.
According to her, she started picking random answers from the expo to answer the questions because she didn’t want to leave her answer sheet blank.
In her words;
“In secondary school, I carried a full 80 leaves sheet of ‘chokes’ into the exam hall and none of it corresponded with the questions. I started free styling and dashing each question anything from my chokes.”
Some curious fans inquired about the course that made her go the extra mile to cheat and she disclosed that it was history.
“I hated history so much and I didn’t want to fail😭”,she said
A Nigerian lady, Blessing Chubiyojo Ukwela, has taken to Facebook to reveal that she and her husband didn’t have sex before marriage.
The excited bride, who dated her husband briefly in 2016 and reconnected with him in 2021, made this revelation while sharing their unique love story on Facebook on Wednesday, November 23.
According to Blessing, she didn’t know a relationship could thrive without sex but they were able to abstain from sex till marriage.
Read her full story below,
“What God has destined to be will surely be no matter how long. I want to share a little story of what God has done.
2016, this young man and I dated not up to 6 months. We broke up cos it was a distance relationship. I was in Lagos while he was in Abuja.
After that I disconnected myself from him totally but he was still in contact with me. My mind was totally off his side.
2020 I got a message concerning him that we are destined for each other, I laughed and ignored bcos I done already design d kind of man I want.
Last year again another message came that he will come back and propose to me by December. Surprisingly Dec 8th while he was on Shiloh ground, I got an sms from him bcos I was avoiding his calls, I had to chat him up on WhatsApp that I got an sms from him.
That was how the journey started, first I was doubting but bcos it was d will of God, everything became a reality without any stress and today we are husband and wife to the glory of God.
This marriage is God’s project and is ordained by God. Within this period nothing like S*x but it still worked out. I never believed there will be a relationship without sex and it will work.
God is still God and his word always come to fulfillment.”
Ghanaian singer and socialite, Hajia4real, has returned to Instagram days after she was reportedly arrested in the UK.
It was earlier reported that the socialite was nabbed on Friday, November 11, in connection with an $8 million shady deal that occurred during her stay in the United States.
Hajia4real is said to have been on the “red list” of the US authorities for a couple of years over alleged money laundering. Read here.
Finally breaking her silence since the incident, the socialite expresses gratitude to her fans for their love, prayers, and support after she was arrested in the United Kingdom.
“Hi lovely people I miss you so much and I know you miss me too. Thank you so much for your love and support. I really appreciate it”, she said.
Watch video below,
In other news, American actress, Julie Fox, has shared explicit details about her romance with rapper and business tycoon, Kanye West.
In an interview with host Ziwe on Sunday, the Uncut Gems actress provided a visual description of her ex, Kanye West’s manhood.
This comes after Julia, who dated Kanye for less than two months, revealed that she dated the star to get him off his estranged wife, Kim Kardashian’s case.
When asked about her ex, Kanye West’s manhood during the interview, the actress was more than eager to provide a detailed description.
“Tell me when to stop,” host Ziwe told Julia while moving her hands wider and wider.
When the comedian, 30, had her hands almost as wide as her shoulders, Julia told her to make them smaller until they appeared to be a foot long. Watch video here.
Popular Nigerian singer, Oluwatobiloba Daniel Anidugbe, professionally known as Kizz Daniel, gave an electrifying performance at the 2022 FIFA World Cup in Qatar last night.
The “Buga” hitmaker, who was earlier announced by FIFA as one of the headline artistes at the international football competition, gave a mind-blowing performance at the World Cup Fans Festival in Qatar on Wednesday night.
Kizz Daniel and his band thrilled the crowd with some of his hit songs like “Cough” and “Buga.”
One of the videos from the night, currently making the rounds online, captured the moment the crowd went into a frenzy when Kizz Daniel coughed into the microphone as he performed his latest hit, “Cough.”
A number of fans who witnessed the performance last night have taken to social media to laud the superstar singer.
Watch videos below,
In other news, social media adviser, Daniel Regha has warned Nigerian musician, Ruger to desist from being unnecessarily arrogant or else his career would fail.
The singer had taken to the microblogging platform to shade his colleague and brag about his musical prowess.
He wrote; “I am something. For years now, I have forced my songs down people’s throat whether e sweet abi e no sweet either by too much ads or by paying every influencer to make noise about a song they don’t even like. Or by speeding my song on TIKTOK. WHAT AM I ?”
Daniel tagged this tweet from the singer as unnecessary and proceeded to remind him to get his priorities right or he would lose his career.
In his words;
“Ruger u being unnecessari!y n¤isy nowadays; If u stay on this path, ur music career will fl¤p sooner or later. The fans hyping ur s!lly acts have noth!ng to l¤se, but u do, so get ur priorit!es stra!ght. Focus on making music, at the moment u d¤n’t have a h!t song. Th!nk smart.”
Nollywood actor, Abimbola Kazeem, better known as Jigan, has advised men against borrowing money from a woman, including their mothers.
The thespian gave this advice via his Twitter handle on Wednesday night, November 24.
“Don’t borrow money from woman. Even if na your mama ! E get why”, he tweeted.
His post, however, elicited a range of reactions on the microblogging platform. See some comments as you scroll,
@omocatechist, “E no get any why oo. I go borrow from my mama. If she talk too much I give her a grand child”.
@iamthatlindy, “Hmmmm…I understand say you don see shege😂😂😂but some women are different… and there are situations you can be in where no guy would be able to come through for you”.
@queen_ebys, “E no get any “why” my friend . Y’all constantly demonizing women”.
@talentedentertainment_, “I fit borrow money from only my mama and nobody go hear even if I no pay back. 😂 she’s my mother and she sef know say na she go enjoy my money pass later. I too love that woman”.
In other news, popular Nigerian singer, 2face Idibia has taken to his social media page to dish out relationship advise to his followers.
The singer, via his Instastories, said some people have mastered the art of hiding their red flags from their partners, and pretend to be good people in the relationship.
He added that the words genuine people use in winning the heart of their partners is the same words players also use in winning over their victims.
Addressing people who might have fallen victim of players, 2face told them not to allow the heartbreak stop them from giving love another chance. He also assured them that it was not their fault and nothing is wrong with them.
A serious altercation ensued between popular Afrobeat singer,Yemi Alade, and a troll who berated her music on microblogging platform, Twitter.
The drama started after her junior colleagues, Buju BNXN and Ruger, fought for the umpteenth time over who has more hit songs.
During the fight, Ruger seemingly accused BNXN of paying huge sum of monies to promote his songs even though people don’t like them.
This infuriated BNXN and he in turn accused Ruger’s record label boss of using ‘streaming farms’ to increase his numbers on music streaming platforms.
Reacting, another singer, Blaq Bones, jumped on the conversation and said, “all of you using streaming farms would be exposed soon. awon hushpuppi”.
It was at this point Yemi Alade waded into the controversial discourse, saying, “Never saw a ” realler ” tweet! Somebody pls frame this tweet for me. I want to hang it on my wall”
However, the self-styled ‘Mama Africa’ got caught in a serious clash with a troll who criticized her songs, calling them ‘nursery rhymes’.
“You can try writing good hit songs and not your nursery rhymes”,the troll wrote.
In response, she said, “Sing your own abeg. Make you see say eh dey easy. Poet”
The troll didn’t back down and fired back at Yemi Alade saying,
“I can show you music that is way better than yours, it just because you have the right platform. So dont feel you are too good”
Yemi Alade felt offended by the fan’s statement and lambasted him for berating her years of hardwork.
“Thunder go locate you if you don’t stop this rubbish. I have been on the Road for 7 years. I REPEAT GET YOUR FACTS RIGHTS. THIS IS MY JOB. IT IS NOT A GAME,”the angry star wrote.
Big Brother Naija level up housemate, Chichi has caused a buzz online after she said she doesn’t fly economy class.
Chichi and her fellow level-up housemates were taken on a sponsored trip to South Africa by Pepsi but she didn’t join them in the economy class.
Taking to Snapchat to explain why she didn’t fly with her colleagues, Chichi said they were all given economy class tickets but since she’s not used to flying economy, she decided to upgrade her ticket to Business class.
Her words,
“I can’t remember the last time I flew economy, this is not about me being proud. So we all had economy class and I wanted to upgrade to business class. It was quite stressful but I did it anyway.”
Speaking in a recent interview, the exotic dancer turned reality TV star bewailed how people in that line of work are usually looked down on in Nigeria.
Chichi, who asserted in the chat with Punch that she is the most judged stripper, stated that exotic dancers are usually judged by people and seen as lesser humans in our part of the world.
“I think I am the most judged stripper. When I was a stripper, (I don’t strip anymore), people often came to me for help and at the same time, they would judge me. They did not see us as human beings. Stripping is actually a profession but in my father’s land (Nigeria), it is not seen as one. It was really hard because people were so judgmental.
“Because of that, I cannot talk in public. And, that is why I am uptight; I don’t like expressing myself. Whenever I talk, people are quick to throw ‘shades’ at me, saying what do I know since I’m just a stripper. They feel we (strippers) can do anything for money.” She said.
A Nigerian man has narrated how he was allegedly abducted and almost killed by suspected kidnappers after he boarded a bus at the Lekki-Ikoyi link bridge in Lagos state.
In a viral video, the man who claimed to be a skate coach said he had just finished his training at a facility on the island and then decided to board a bus from the link bridge to Iyana Oworo.
He claimed that as soon as he stepped onto the bus, he noticed a strange odor and figured it was a gas intended to knock the passengers off, so he covered his nose with his handkerchief. He said in no time everyone on the bus was asleep except the driver and his team, who had nose masks on.
“As I got into a bus that called Iyana Oworo, I noticed that there was this weird smell in the bus. Anybody who has been involved in military training or self defense will know gases that knock people off. That was what it was. So I spat in my handkerchief and used it to cover my nose. In about five or then minutes, every other occupants were all asleep asides from the team members who had all brought out their nose masks to cover their nose.” He said.
He said at one point, their leader, who was in front, looked back, and when he noticed he wasn’t asleep, he queried him. The victim said that at this point he knew that the men were kidnappers.
He said he appealed to the men to take his phone, valued at N1.3 million, and his ATM so they could empty his account, as well as a big chain he had on his neck worth millions, but they refused.
His words,
“They said the only place I am going to come down is where they will dagger me and pieces me. Because they saw that I was shouting, they veered off the road and went to the place that leads to Adeniji Underbridge. It was pitch dark. They brought me out and started using knife, cutlass, different things on me. I am fortified. I am an african. So when they saw that the stabbing attempts, that the knife was not entering…about three of them held my neck, another two held my hand to the back, they put knife on my neck to try and slash my neck and slaughter me but it wasn’t penetrating.
I heard their leader telling them in Hausa that they should lie me down and use their boot to crush my head.. About three of them were wearing army uniforms. About six of them held my hand and legs, two were using their boots to hit my eyes, hit my nose, they just wanted to knock me out. After some minutes, I just realised I was getting dizzy and I was about to faint and once that happens, these people will take me and do whatever they want.
So I reached out for my bag which was on the floor and nobody noticed. I took out the knife and I started waving it in different direction so it cut one of them in the tummy. His tummy got bursted, another one in the eye and they started bleeding profusely. Their leader was now like they have gotten the remaining ones who are asleep, let them carry them and deliver them and that they should leave me”.
He said he was eventually abandoned by the kidnappers, who left with the remaining passengers.
However, the spokesperson of the state police command, SP Benjamin Hundeyin, when contacted, said that there were no reports of such an event.
Popular Nigerian singer, 2face Idibia has taken to his social media page to dish out relationship advise to his followers.
The singer, via his Instastories, said some people have mastered the art of hiding their red flags from their partners, and pretend to be good people in the relationship.
He added that the words genuine people use in winning the heart of their partners is the same words players also use in winning over their victims.
Addressing people who might have fallen victim of players, 2face told them not to allow the heartbreak stop them from giving love another chance. He also assured them that it was not their fault and nothing is wrong with them.
2face wrote,
“Na the same similar words and actions wey genuine person go use win your heart the player sef go use.
Some people have mastered the art of hiding red flags.
So therefore never allow it to depress you and never allow it to make you push love away.
He stated this in a post shared on his Instastory on Tuesday, November 22, adding that the phrase doesn’t sit well with him except white is not also considered a colour.
A young man has resorted to Twitter to vent his pain after his girlfriend ended things with him for being too perfect.
The heartbroken man identified as @RoarfxA on the micro-blogging platform, shared his conversation with the girlfriend who ended their relationship because he was too perfect.
In the chat shared online, the lady described the young man as perfect and the kind of man any lady will kill to have, which made her try to adjust and not be herself in the relationship.
She said she’s tired of pretending and believes it’s best she ends the relationship, seeing that she’ll never be able to match his energy.
“You are the kind of man anyone (including me) will kill to have, humble, kind, generous. I tried to fight it, even pretend to like it so you don’t feel bad but the more I do that, the more I hated it… I’m not good for you no matter how I want to be”, she wrote in part.
Sharing screenshots of the chat on his Twitter page, the distraught man wrote, “My babe ended our relationship because “I was too perfect” I did everything u mentioned above.”
Have you ever paused to wonder why the first thing a woman would do when you give her flowers is to smell them? I’ll tell you why: it is simply because women love good scents.
Nigerian women like other women across the globe have a great relish for good scents. Just like they smell flowers and of course smell cheating men from across a room, a Nigerian woman can be drawn by the type of fragrance a man wears. It is the first thing she’ll notice before she even raises her head to check if you’ve got a beard or not. We know that men are so busy with work, cryptocurrency, growing beards and football that they sometimes neglect how they smell.
I mean, women are attracted to good-looking men with well-paid jobs but they’re even more attracted to men who smell nice. So, whether you’re going on a first date, trying to boost your self-confidence or trying to get the attention of a particular woman, you would need the kind of scent that would swing her head towards your direction and when you finally do get her attention, it’ll have her clinging to you for the rest of the date just to savour the fragrance.
This is why we’ve decided to make your job pretty easy by giving you a list of 10 signature perfumes that can attract Nigerian women.
1. A Lion Kiss
You would agree with me that in Nigeria, only strong men are metaphorically linked to lions. A lion kiss by Aladé is a chypre floral perfume that is alluring and tempting. The opening notes of basil lavender and lime lead you into the middle notes of Moroccan clove bud and thyme that give off that scent of strong masculinity needed to pull in and get the attention of any woman.
1 Million fragrance For Men is a fresh and spicy perfume designed to make any man feel like a million dollars. Its main ingredients amber, leather and tangerine create a touch of irresistible seduction and are ideal for men with willful charm. You should consider adding this to your collection if you’re the type of man that likes to talk, look, walk and smell classy.
Bal d’Afrique by Byredo Eau de Parfum starts with notes of Amalfi lemon, black currant and African orange flower that have a savoury and captivating aroma of lemon extract instantly marking it out as something peculiar. The romantic aromas of violet and cyclamen combine with
black amber to create a pleasing effect. It is a floral-fruity scent every woman would like on her man.
The design of this perfume is a real sculpture of glass shaped like a fist to depict masculinity, bravery, determination and strength. The perfume opens with modern notes of Amalfi lemon and Mandarin orange, middle notes of violet, Virginia cedar and coriander and settles with base notes of amber, leather, benzoin, French labdanum and styrax to give an irresistible fragrance that will have any woman swaying her head towards you to check you out.
Bleu de Chanel by Chanel is a woody aromatic fragrance for men. It reveals the essence of determination. It is one of Chanel’s best collections with an aromatic freshness lingering on the warm, addictive fullness of cedar and sandalwood that sweeps throughout the intense, woody fragrance. It has a fresh, sensual and vibrant scent.
6. AMOUAGE Epic Man Eau de Parfum This perfume was launched in 2009. The rich scent is an invitation to an exotic journey. With epic notes brimming with frankincense and spices, cardamom, saffron and nutmeg, you experience a scent that is complemented by a very smoky spice mix. It exudes strong masculine energy that can draw in any woman. This perfume should be in every man’s closet.
7. Versace Dylan Blue Eau de Toilette Spray
A fresh, clean and natural scent combining notes of bergamot, grapefruit and black pepper to create a dynamic, transparent fragrance that’s immediate and long-lasting. This masculine scent is renowned for its very brief, refreshing nature. It is a fragrance that evokes relaxation, informality, freedom, and well-being.
8. Calvin Klein Eternity Men Eau de Parfum
Eternity for Men Eau de Parfum by Calvin Klein is an Aromatic Fougere fragrance for men. Eternity is a sophisticated yet casual scent that’s perfect for stylish men. With notes of sage, apple, nutmeg, and suede, it helps to create the sensual composure needed to attract any female.
9. Zara Tobacco Intense Dark Exclusive Rich Warm Addictive
Aside from being very affordable, this perfume has a very beautiful package design. It contains a mixture of apple and black pepper which gives off a fresh, dry and warm aroma. It also contains Tonka bean, white peony and vanilla bourbon that gives off a flowery, welcoming and seductive scent needed to draw in the attention of a woman.
If you’re looking for a calm and cool perfume, you should consider adding this to your collections.
Inspired by the most beautiful of all roses, a royal rose. This perfume gives off a very strong sensuality. Beginning with spicy notes of saffron with a hint of honey, middle notes of patchouli and dark woods with a hint of sweetness and finally settling with the warm and sensual scent of golden amber.
While the above-listed perfumes are of great attraction to Nigerian women, they must be both pleasing and comfortable for the wearer.
A woman would most likely want a man that looks good, smells good and of course, is confident in himself which is why it is important to go through the list of ingredients to see which one tickles your fancy, except, of course, your primary aim of wearing the perfume is to attract your crush.
So, now that I’ve done the homework for you by giving you a list of beautiful perfumes from our collection that are sure to attract any Nigerian woman, which one would you be ordering today?
Popular media personality,Eni Adeoluwa has revealed that he spends ₦22,000 to have his haircut at a barbing salon in Lagos.
Eni made this disclosure in a post shared via his Twitter page after discovering that he could spend the same amount on home service from another salon.
Bewailing the comfort he could have enjoyed with 22k at the other salon, Eni wrote,
“My salon charges 22K walk-ins for my haircut, and I just found out I could have been getting that for home service in another place. I’m crying!😭
Anyway sha, they used to give us biscuit and tea when we cut our hair, maybe it’s the food that makes me go back there.😅”
However, some netizens weren’t buying it at all and accused him of lying about paying 22k for a haircut because it’s too expensive, regardless of the location of the salon.
Responding to the negative comments, Eni said he also dyes his hair at the salon so the payment is not for a haircut alone.
“Wait o! You guys, I dye my hair when I go to the salon, so it’s not just the cutting; to be fair, that’s the relative price they charge for it. I’m just saying I could have been getting that at home instead of going to the salon😭,” he wrote in a follow-up tweet.
American actress, Julie Fox, has shared explicit details about her romance with rapper and business tycoon, Kanye West.
In an interview with host Ziwe on Sunday, the Uncut Gems actress provided a visual description of her ex, Kanye West’s manhood.
This comes after Julia, who dated Kanye for less than two months, revealed that she dated the star to get him off his estranged wife, Kim Kardashian’s case.
When asked about her ex, Kanye West’s manhood during the interview, the actress was more than eager to provide a detailed description.
“Tell me when to stop,” host Ziwe told Julia while moving her hands wider and wider.
When the comedian, 30, had her hands almost as wide as her shoulders, Julia told her to make them smaller until they appeared to be a foot long.
“Oh, my God! as hate comes in all sizes”, Ziwe shouted.
In addition to Kanye’s manhood size, Fox said getting “a lot of clothes” was a “utilitarian” perk for her short-lived relationship with West.
“Wow, I wasn’t expecting you to answer that,” Ziwe responded.
In other news, Kanye West has stated that he believes the death of his mother, Donda West, was part of a large conspiracy for “Hollywood” to “control” and “traumatize” him, saying she was ‘sacrificed’.
Ye discussed his theory with the paparazzi in a recent clip posted by The Shade Room while speaking from the passenger side of his car. He asserted that he wasn’t the only black billionaire who had made a “sacrifice” and that he is currently only in God’s service. Read here.