My issue with Wizkid…why I took the case to the police – Culled From Her Blog..
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I’m sure many of you have read that the police is now involved in my issue with Wizkid. Yes, I reported his public threat to me two Sundays ago to the Lagos State Commissioner of Police and I want to explain why I did it! Please pay attention and keep an open mind.
I’ve read a lot online from people saying I don’t like Wizkid. Even Wizkid himself thinks I don’t like him. Why he or anyone would think so is puzzling to me to be honest. Apart from his achievements after he started insulting me online a few weeks ago…everything else, every success Wizkid has recorded in the last 3/4 years is on LIB. All the awards, all the record breaking feats, his sold out concerts, his foreign magazine features, and collaborations, everything that has built him up to the young man he is today is on LIB. Please verify! Search my blog. Please continue…
I was a huge Wizkid fan. The only song I danced harder to than his ‘Dance For Me’ track was Fuse ODG’s ‘Antenna and Kiss Daniel & DJ Shabzy’s Raba. So, no, I had no dislike for Wizkid. But about a year ago, I noticed his indirect snide remarks at me…and when some other music star beefed with me, Wizkid showed his support and made disrespectful comments. That was when I noticed he had issues with me… but that didn’t stop me from writing about him and celebrating him.
Now to the issue at hand. When I reported that he was served quit notice at his Lekki home, I stated fact and I didn’t write it out of malice. It’s not everyday you get exclusive stories…and I’m sure any other blogger who got the story first would also have published it. So, there was no beef, I was just doing my job. A day or so after I wrote this story, Wizkid went on my instagram page to call me names and lied that I slept with some director of his…which I have said before is 1000% lies! But the insult and lies is not why the police is now involved.
Here’s the thing; You can insult me, insult my family, call me any names you like, even lie that I slept with your forefathers…but don’t threaten me. If you threaten me, I will act!
I read people online saying that I reported to the police because I am scared of Wizkid. No, my darlings, I am not afraid of Wizkid. Though I do not take his threats lightly. I went to the authorities for two reasons…and please young boys of our generation, pay attention to what I am about to write below.
You see, violence against women and threat of violence against women is not okay. Threatening harm to someone in a public space is a criminal act in every country of the world, including Nigeria. I bet some of you didn’t know that, yeah? You can not publicly threaten someone with harm. You will only get away with it if your victim doesn’t report to the authorities. If they do, you will have a case with the police and I promise you, the police take these things seriously.
I reported this case to the authorities because I want our young men to know this is not okay. You should not raise your hands on a woman. You shouldn’t even threaten to raise your hands on a woman. Wizkid wrote that he would send his 16 year old cousin to beat the poo out of me. Letting Wizkid get away with it is basically telling our young men that this is okay…and it’s not!
After Wizkid made the threat to me, I saw a lot of teen boys hailing and applauding him. To them, this was okay. If their idol can threaten a woman with harm, and use derogatory words, they also can do it…and that’s how the circle of abuse of women continues. Women being called ‘smelly Kitty-Cat’ trended online for a day or two! Little boys were happy to use the words. Sad!
It is appalling to me that anyone, especially women, would cheer Wizkid on. When he wrote RIP Linda, I saw a few young girls write same, laughing. This is not a laughing matter. It doesn’t matter whether you like me or not! This is not about Linda Ikeji. This is about abuse of women which has eaten deep into our society, so deep that it has now been accepted as normal. Men do it all the time and get away with it. So many women are battered by their husbands and they refuse to speak up because of the stigma. They refuse to seek help because they are afraid of what people will say. I am sorry, I am not one of those women. I refuse to be victimized. And as long as I have my voice and my platform, I will speak up.
We women have to come together to lend a strong voice to the plight of women in our continent. When we see a woman being physically and mentally abused, let’s act. Let’s speak up. Let’s not laugh and say she deserves it. If we continue to keep quiet, the circle of abuse will continue. And one day, You, yes You, will find yourself in the receiving end of a thundering slap, followed by heavy blows. If not you, then maybe your daughter? Let’s condemn violence and threat of violence against women! This is not acceptable!
Young men like Wizkid, a father of two young boys himself, should never advocate violence against women. One day, he will have a daughter, how would he feel if another male threatens to put hands on her or even calls her a hoe?
I can’t count how many times Wizkid called me a hoe in his rant against me. That’s what boys do. When they get into a fight with a woman, they try to slut-shame her. Smelly Kitty-Cat, hoe, ashawo etc. You call a woman, who gave another young woman, whose real name she doesn’t even know N500,000 just because she said she would rather work by carrying cement than prostitute herself, that’s the person you call a hoe? When your mind is so warped you can’t differentiate between a woman and a hoe, then this is what happens. Except you drive to Sanusi Fanfuwa at 2am to pick up a prostitute, who proudly describes herself as one, then you shouldn’t call any woman a hoe.
Even Tupac who was a well known thug could differentiate between the types of women he dealt with. When asked in an interview why he called women bitches, he said people shouldn’t confuse things, that he wouldn’t address a mother or a sister the way he would address a Dam, that the bitches were the ones he dealt with in the clubs who behaved like one. He reiterated that he respected women!
In more civilized countries, Wizkid would have lost his endorsements and spent the next year or so apologizing and being in the fore-front of promoting anti-violence crusades against women. It took Chris Brown years to get back on his feet after his assault on a woman. Up till today, he doesn’t have any major endorsements and some countries still deny him entrance into their country i.e Australia for something he did 7 years ago. Yes, violence against women is serious!
And there’s the case of incitement. When you have power and influence, you have to be careful what you say in public. Because you have such power, something you say can influence your followers. A fan can commit acts that even you may not support or might not even condone. But because it came out of your mouth, they think you mean it. So it is irresponsible to say things that might be inciteful. In Law, you can be held responsible when people act based on what you said in public. Tupac was charged to court and indicted after some thugs killed a police officer. The thugs went to court and mentioned that their idol encouraged violence against LA police officers in a song where he said ‘Drop a cop’. So, we folks with some measure of influence should be more careful with our utterances. People are watching and listening!
The second reason I filed a police report is to encourage other women in similar situations to do same. My dear ladies, if a man threatens to puts hands on you, and you feel the threat is real, report to the authorities. Don’t wait until he does it. What if you don’t survive it? If he’s picked up and may be charged to court (yes, you can be charged to court for making threats…it’s a misdemeanor with a prison sentence), then he will think twice before making threats against you in the future or any other woman for that matter.
I went as far as I did for me and for other women. This is to pass a strong message to our young men that these kinds of behaviour towards women will not be tolerated. Should not be tolerated. If you assault or even threaten to assault a woman, the law will come after you if she chooses not to be silent. Women, don’t be silent. Let’s break the circle. For your sake, for my sake, for the sake of our daughters, grand daughters, great grand daughters and all other women that will follow them.
And that’s really all I have to say in the matter. Thank you guys for reading
And to Wizkid fans, please be rest assured that I wish him all the best in life. He will continue to grow from strength to strength (as long as he doesn’t endorse violence against women) and his light will never diminish. God brought him to this level and will continue to keep him. I have nothing but love for his craft and hope that one day, we will put this behind us.
God bless him, me, you and everyone else in the world
Cheers.
Nollywood actress Mide Martins has been hospitalized a day after she opened up on the messy details of her broken marriage to fellow Afeez Abiodun.
The mother of two whose troubled marriage to fellow actor Afeez Abiodun popularly known as Afeez Owo became public on Afeez’s birthday is being hospitalized following the trauma she suffered based on the public outburst of their marriage break up.
Reports gathered claims that Martins was rushed to the hospital in the evening of Saturday, April 16 by one of her colleagues in the industry.
It was gathered that after she was rushed to the hospital, the colleague called Afeez Owo of the latest development and told him to come to the hospital.
Naij.com also gathered that Afeez did not go to the hospital until much more later when the Martin’s friend had left the hospital.
As at the time of filling this report, the cause of Mide Martins’hospitalization is yet to be known. Mide Martins have revealed a lot of messy details of their troubled marriage when she told the world via her Instagram page that her husband Afeez Owo had packed out of their matrimonial home three months before their marriage breakup was noticed.
She also revealed that her husband rented another apartment barely two weeks after he abandoned their matrimonial home which she still occupies with their children.
Afeez owo used to be Mide Martins late mother Funmi Martins’ personal assistant. The older Martins while alive was also an actor.
Afeez got closer to Funmi when her mother died and there was no one for the family her mother left behind but Afeez Owo who tried to fend and protect them.
When I was about to have a quick nap, I saw Davido’s tweet..
HKN Gang New Signee – Mayorkun dropped his debut single – “Eleko” (Download Mayorkun’s Eleko Here mp3)..and so far so good, the song has been doing really well!
He dropped the video about a week ago and Oh Yes! It has already hit 1 million views in just 10 days!
Apparently, it seems all isn’t well at the HKN Gang camp as Davido revealed his “Blood” is hating on him & of course Mayorkun’s success..
L-R: Dremo, Davido, Mayorkun
Below is what he tweeted:
My own blood hating on me .. Over MAYORKUN’s success wow !!! I’ve done so much for u .. U still no blow !! FUCK OUTTA HERE!! Hater oshi
My own blood hating on me .. Over MAYORKUN's success wow !!! I've done so much for u .. U still no blow !! FUCK OUTTA HERE!! Hater oshi
“At 5;26pm on February 1 2016, MaYorKun tweeted a 10 seconds video of himself singing the chorus of Davido’s smash hit – ‘The Money’ featuring Olamide, From that moment; His life changed! David spotted his talent and signed him up immediately.
MaYorKun is the latest addition to the HKN family and the first act under Davido Music Worldwide.
On signing to the Davido Worldwide Music & the HKN family; MaYorKun said
“Its a dream come true, Its time to show the world the talent Davido spotted in me & I am not relenting”
Here’s his debut offering – ELEKO; Produced by PuffyTee & mixed by Suka Sounds, The video was directed & shot in Lagos by the raved Director Q.
STRAIGHT FIRE!!! NOBODY TOUCHING THE NEW KID! ENJOY!”
Several hours ago, actress Mide Martins was spitting fire on instagram and spilling all the details of her failed marriage to hubby and fellow actor Afeez Abiodun, producer/actor.
Well, she has now pulled down the post due to calls from friends, families, fans and loved ones of the couple.
Before Mide pulled down her post, a fan with the username, gbot13, advised thus:
The marriage, which is experiencing a storm currently, has produced two daughters and the couple adopted the child the late Funmi Martins had before her death.
Here are the posts Afeez Owo put up on Instagram on Wednesday during his birthday which kinda got Mide angry.
Senator Florence Ita-Giwa has no patience for the tedious judicial processes involved before ruling on cases especially rape cases.
“The best way to end rape is by cutting off the genitals of rapists,” the former senator reportedly said at an event yesterday.
“If I were a judge and a man is brought to court for raping a child, he will receive capital punishment. But I will say, ‘don’t kill him, rather let him live his life in pain, let his organ be cut off’”, she said.
This comes at a time when there are, on weekly basis, reports of rape cases piling in court, awaiting hearing. For Ita-Giwa, sparing rapists means unleashing terror on girls and women. The perpetrators do not deserve that anatomy anymore, she said, adding that rapists are lucky she left the Nigerian Senate.
“[A rapist] should not be allowed the pleasure of using that organ anymore,” the 70-year-old politician continued, adding, “If the organ is not cut off, at the end of his term in prison, he will use it on other children.
“Fortunately for them, I’m no longer in the Senate but I will find a way to get it into the chamber. This is the proper way to end the evil of rape in the society,” she concluded.
Aunty Maheeda has finally shared a Photo of her “White” hubby! She literally took a break from posting explicit photos to show off her husband.
“Enjoying life!!! Nothing to worry about,” the former singer captioned the clip of the family having dinner, before adding, “I’m doing just great.”
The first time the controversial nudist shared a photo of the Dutchman, it was to tell how he saved her from poverty. “He loved me when I was looking like shit,” she wrote last July. “He cleaned me up, that’s why he is my husband today.”
And then she added that he supports ALL that she does, and we assume she’s talking about her activities online.
Read the quite touching note:
Many times, fans had to ask who films most of her clips as some of them were recorded while she was in motion, but the mother of one daughter has never bothered to respond.
A mysterious lightning has killed two women in Imo State during a prayer session in a church leaving others seriously injured.
Tragedy struck in Imo State as 25-year-old Chioma Jonathan, a native of Obiangwu in Ngor Okpala Local Government Area and Chinonye Anyanwu, aged 26, from Ahiazu Mbaise LGA, both in Imo State, died when they were struck by lightning.
According to Daily Sun, the unfortunate incident happened when the two women went to participate in the regular Holy Ghost Hour prayer session of Heavenly Sure Charismatic Church, a Pentecostal church, usually held in the premises of Comprehensive Secondary School, Emekuku in Owerri North LGA, Imo State.
It was also gathered that the 54-year-old General Overseer of the church, Pastor Luke Nwokocha, who led the short-lived prayer session was slightly affected as he temporarily lost consciousness and was rushed to a hospital by his wife and another member of the church, where he was revived. In addition, he sustained injuries on his leg.
Recounting the story, Pastor “We always have fellowship every Tuesday. On the fateful day, we had our ‘Holy Ghost Hour’. We were five members in the church. The two deceased sisters, including the sister that swept the church premises; Evangelist Solomon and myself were arranging the benches. Around 4.30pm heavy rain started falling. I started praying for the programme.”
“Then there was a sudden lightning flash followed by the deafening sound of thunder. The two women, who were in the direct path of the electric field created by the lightning flash died instantly, when they were struck by the streak. Nwokocha, who apparently was off the direct path of the streak received a much lower jolt of electricity, which, however, was strong enough to throw him across the room, cause temporary loss of consciousness and physical injuries on his leg and hands.
“My wife, Pastor Eucharia Nwokocha and the other church member rushed me to the hospital for medical treatment,” he said.
“I have been in this ministry for 26 years. I have never experienced anything like this. I was called into ministry in 1990. Until that time, I was a policeman and served in the Imo State Police Command and retired at Akwa Ibom Police Command in July 2007. Following my retirement, I decided to focus on my ministry fulltime. I do not understand how it happened, its only God who understands and knows all.”
Following the incident, the elder brother of Chioma Jonathan reported the case to the Owerri North Divisional Police Station, from where the case was transferred to the homicide department at the headquarters of the Imo State Police Command, Owerri, the state capital.
The Commissioner of Police, Taiwo Lakanu who confirmed the incident said it was a strange occurrence. He added that the cleric was undergoing interrogation at the State Criminal Investigation Department while the corpses of the dead women had been deposited at the mortuary of the Holy Rosary Hospital, Emekuku.
One of the elders of Emekuku community, Godwin John revealed that the whole thing was a mystery.
“We know Pastor Luke usually holds the ‘Holy Ghost Hour’ prayer session. What happened to Pastor Luke Nwokocha and the lightning strike that killed two members of his church is an abomination. We will consult the elders,” he said.
Meanwhile Lakanu has reassured relations of the deceased women that proper investigation would be carried out by the officer in charge of the homicide section of State Criminal Investigation Department, Supol Innocent Obi, who is working hard with the detectives under him to ensure that there is no miscarriage of justice.
The Nigerian Army is winning the war against Boko Haram as it has made a major breakthrough by discovering a massive underground storage facility belonging to the terrorists.
The Nigerian Army has made a stunning discovery as it uncovered storage facility been used by the terrorist group to store food. This was made public by the Acting Director, Army Public Relations, Sani Usman, he said the storage contained large quantity of foodstuff when it was discovered.
The statement read:
“On Saturday 16th April 2016, troops of 7 Division Strike Group Team B and 22 Task Force Brigade conducted a simultaneous dawn raid on suspected Boko Haram terrorists hideouts at Biggoro, Warpaya and Aura, North of Kumshe in Bama Local Government Area.
“The essence of the operation was stop the reported criminal activities of remnants of Boko Haram terrorists hiding in the three villages. This became necessary as previous efforts were futile. The suspected terrorists kept coming in search for food, water and shelter.
“The surprised dawn attack yielded positive result as the troops discovered well concealed observation posts on trees in the villages constructed by the terrorists to give them early warning of troops movement or approach.
“In addition the troops found out that the observation posts though tree tops, were constructed in such a manner with chairs and ropes to pull up foods and other needs by the sentry without necessarily coming down the trees.
“To also save for the rainy day, the terrorists had underground food storage facilities where they stocked large quantity of foodstuffs. The troops killed two Boko Haram terrorists and also recovered three AK-47 rifles, magazines and ammunitions. They also recovered two motorcycles from them. In addition they rescued two children from the terrorists.”
One of Ghana’s most popular actor has shared testimony of his miraculous escape from the hands of armed robbers who nearly shot him dead after blocking his car.
Ghanaian Actor, John Dumelo has taken to Facebook to recount his miraculous escape from the hands of armed robbers in Nigeria.
According to him, the robbery incident took place while he was on his way to his hotel room after filming a movie. He revealed that the robbers blocked his car and was about to shoot him before he miraculously escaped.
He wrote:
“Yesterday we were attacked by armed robbers on our way back to the hotel from filming in Nigeria. The robbers wearing black, blocked the car we were in, got down with their guns and walked towards our car.
“It was God who took over the wheel. Our driver swerved and sped off. They just stood there watching. As if to say ‘these are not the people we have to rob’. Anything could have happened to us. My brothers and sisters, there is God! Believe in Him and He shall protect you. I thank God for my life and the lives of my fellow actresses in the car. #Jesustookthewheel #praiseGod”
Christian Girl Married Off To Boko Haram Commander Cries As Snake Kills Her Baby, Wants To Return To Husband In Sambisa Forest“I Want To Go Back To My Husband In Sambisa Forest” – Christian Girl Forced To Marry Boko Haram Commander Laments.
A teenager identified as Zara who was abducted by Boko Haram but was later rescued by the Nigerian Army has expressed her willingness to join the terror group because of the stigma she is now experiencing after she was reunited with her family.
This is just as Ahmad Salkida, a journalist known to have unfettered access to Boko Haram, said that the government’s decision to close down the Chibok school was a sign of victory for the terror group since their plan was to discourage western education.
However, the story of Zara (not real name), who is a 17-year-old girl, is one among the myriad of young girls, whose lives have been “cut short” by the invasion of the sect in various communities in the North-East.
Recounting her ordeal in an interview with the British Broadcasting Corporation (BBC), Zara said she was kidnapped by the Boko Haram and then freed by the army, a development that had made her sometimes wishing she were back in the forest (Sambisa) rather than suffering the stigma as a Boko Haram “bride”.
Though unconfirmed if she was one of the missing Chibok schoolgirls, Zara said until now she didn’t have her own social media hashtag, but like thousands of others – free or still captive – she is deeply traumatised.
In telling #ZarasStory, being the first time she was speaking to outsiders about her “terrible experience” a year on, and the pain she still suffers to this day, Zara said: “They gave us a choice – to be married, or to be a slave. I decided to marry.
One of the militants had once told her: “You are only coming to school for prostitution. Boko (Western education) is Haram (forbidden) so what are you doing in school?” But as she continued in her narration, there was so much confusion in her face and in her answers even though she claimed not being a killer, but just a child. Continuing, Zara said: “The feeling for the forest is strong now, but it will go away.
I will forget the time with Boko Haram, but not yet.” She said she was in love with her husband although she believes she had been brainwashed, a development which made her feel abandoned by her faminily and stigmatised by her community.
While she lamented the precarious state in which she had found herself, it became so obvious that there was little or no difference in her story, except for the fact that child she was soon to bear a child. Collaborating her story, her uncle, Mohamed Umaru, said: “Life was tough and dangerous.
The air force jets bombarded the vast Sambisa Forest where the militants have their camps and from where soldiers rescued her and eventually returned her to her relatives. “The women in our family realised she was three months pregnant. In our family it happens that some of us are Christians and some are Muslims.
She was a Christian before she was kidnapped but the Boko Haram who married her turned her into a Muslim.” On whether to give birth to the unborn baby or not, Umaru said there was a split in the family over what to do and they took a vote as to whether she should abort or keep the child. The majority prevailed and she gave birth to a boy.
“She said her husband’s father is called Usman, so that is how she named the child,” Mohamed said. Immediately “Usman” was born, according to him, the insults began. “People call me a Boko Haram wife and called me a criminal. They didn’t want me near.
They didn’t like me,” Zara said as a tear slowly slipped down her cheek. She now sits inside the small walled compound around her house, afraid to go outside because of the cruel insults of the neighbourhood children – messages of hate learned from their parents.
“They didn’t like my child. When he fell sick nobody would look after him,” she said. To justify this fact, Zara said last weekend, as she slept outside with “Usman” who was just nine months old because of the heat, a snake got into their compound and the boy was killed. She stated that half of the family celebrated what they called God’s will.
“Some were happy that he died. They were happy the blood of Boko Haram had gone from the family,” Zara said. “They said thank God that the kid is dead, that God has answered their prayers. Sometimes she says she wants to go to school and become a doctor and help society, but sometimes, when people insult her, she says she wants to go back to the Sambisa Forest.
“She always talks about her husband who happens to be a Boko Haram commander. She says the guy is nice to her and that he wants to start a new life with her,” Mohamed explained.
Listening to Zara’s story, told quietly with eyes flicking down at the ground, it is hard to imagine anyone going through what she has gone though, let alone a 17-year-old girl.
Asked how she feels whenever people ask why she is yet to marry, the actress cum business woman said, “I feel like a woman who is not yet married.”
“I am a realist. I am not the kind of woman who thinks that things just come to you. It will come at some point. It is not easy for people like us in the limelight unlike others. What kills us sometimes, is wanting to be perfect. A lot of people who fancy you probably don’t fancy being in the news.”
On the subject of of baby mamas, she said:
“Most of them, who pretend that they are happy about being ‘Baby Mamas’ go home and feel sorry for themselves wishing that have a proper man.
“I have friends who feel that they have got to a certain age and they are not taken. These days, there are 30 women to a man. There is no pressure on me for not being married because I come from an enlightened family.
“Most of the things happening in the industry are not encouraging. This week, you are happy and have a big wedding, the next, you have broken up. What is the essence?”
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IK tries to cheat his way through his exams…not knowing nature has another plan for him!
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Laura Ikeji and Ogbonna Nwankwo with family members
Kid sister to power blogger, Linda Ikeji, Laura has been reported to be enjoying a romantic affair with ex-footballer and Kanu Nwankwo’s younger brother, Ogbonna Nwankwo.
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A picture posted by Laura Ikeji with the caption, My boo
According to a report by Faith Irabor News Room, the two are seriously into one another and have been keeping their affair close themselves and few family members.
In one of the Laura’s 2,499 pictures on Instagram, she posted a picture of herself and Ogbonna having an early morning jog in far away United States of America, where she had gone to visit her sister.
Though Ogbonna, who works closely with his brother, Kanu Nwankwo, has two kids from a previous relationship that went sour, he’s said to be head over heels in love with Laura, who also doubles as a blogger.
In another picture, Laura posted a picture of herself in her bed awaiting the arrival of Mr O, and followed it with a picture of her hand and a male hand (suggested to be Ogbonna’s hand) with the caption, ‘My world.’
A horny teacher has been caught red-handed after video of him having se,x with a female student in the school toilet went viral online.
An Umlazi High School teacher in South Africa has been suspended pending investigations after a video of him engaged in s*x with a matric student went viral on social media, iMzansi reports.
The randy teacher was secretly filmed by a student as he had s*x with the female student in the school toilet.
The 2 minute long clip shows the teacher sitting on the toilet seat with the grade 12 student on top enjoying.
The incident allegedly occurred in the male toilets. An eye witness said : “These two have been an item for long now with the maths teacher, and she passes every test. Now we know how.’.
Another eye witness said: ‘Kodwa he is married, she is happy being side bae. Everyone knows he is promiscuous.”
Student teacher relationship is prohibited and if convicted, the teacher might lose his teaching post. The principal of the said school refused to comment saying this was an internal matter.
A 59-year-old physically challenged man, Mr Olaiya Adeagbo, has pleaded with an Igando Customary Court in Lagos to dissolve his 23-year-old marriage, accusing his wife of infidelity.
He told the court on Monday that that his wife with whom he had four children, was having an affair with his neighbour.
“I always received a tip-off from our neighbours that my wife is having an affair with one of our neighbours who was a bachelor.
“That fateful day, I came back home earlier and could not find her in our room, two of my neighbours told me that they sighted her when she sneaked into her lover’s room.
“I went to knock on his door but he refused to open after hearing my voice.
“I continued knocking and he later opened his door, and I saw my wife hiding behind his door sweating and panting, I greeted her and left.
“After some days, her lover died and my wife disappeared from the house without taking anything and refused to come back.
“My wife later went to marry another man, who also died after some months of their marriage,” he said.
The petitioner also told the court that his wife fights a lot with their neighbours.
“My wife fights a lot, she fought with our pregnant neighbour but the woman died the following morning.
“Every house we rented, we are always evicted because of her frequent fighting with me and neighbours; she once stabbed me with a knife” he said.
He urged the court to terminate the marriage as his life was not safe and that he was no longer interested in the union.
In her submission, the wife, Mrs Taiwo Adeagbo, 46, also accused her husband of committing adultery.
She told the court that man her husband saw her with was her benefactor not her lover.
“I am not having any affair with that our neighbour, he was only my benefactor who always meet my needs as my husband is not responsible, but unfortunately he is no more.” she said.
The mother of four, said her husband had at one point eloped with her best friend.
“My husband always bring home different women claiming they have one problem or another; he once ran away with my best friend to unknown destination for three-months,” she added.
She begged the court to grant her husband’s wish and terminate the marriage as she too was no longer interested in the union.
The President of the court, Mr Adegboyega Omilola, after listening to the couple, adjourned the case to May 10 for further hearing.
This picture of a University of Lagos student has been declared missing since Thursday after he went out a night of enjoyment and hasn’t returned.
A student of the University of Lagos identified as Oreoluwa Sokan has been declared missing by the police after family members hinted that he has not returned home since Thursday with his whereabouts unknown.
It was gathered that the student went missing after partying at a night club on Thursday. Anybody with useful information as to his whereabouts can contact the nearest police station.
A mother and her daughter have made history by graduating with degrees in Pharmacy in the same year from the same institution.
Nozibele Mpanga, a 56-year old traditional healer, and her 29-year-old daughter Nolindo were awarded their degrees at the University of the Western Cape.
The mother had decided to go back to school at the age of 56, inspiring her daughter to add another feather to her cap.
Nozibele started studying in 2011, after she was diagnosed with cancer and was healed. She’d been fascinated by the idea of combining her gifts as a traditional healer and modern medicine.
Nozibele says:
“I have always had the gift of healing and became a traditional healer at age 11.
“In Xhosa, you are a pharmacist because you can pick herbs and administer them but I wanted to also understand the science behind it.
“I had cancer of the oesophagus in 2011 and it was in the third stages and was malignant but I healed and I believe it was because of my faith and of course the medicine.”
Nollywood actor, Ernest Asuzu, and his wife, Jennifer, in this interview with Spice, speak about their seven-year-old marriage. See excerpts below:
How and when did you meet your wife? Ernest: I met my wife in Calabar some years ago, when I went to shoot a video. As soon as we met, I told her she would be my wife. I requested for her telephone number and afterwards, we spoke on the phone. Thereafter, we began to meet on a timely basis before we began to date and later got married.
What was her response when you told her she would be your wife? Ernest: She only laughed, which was expected of her as a woman. However, she was not difficult to relate with.
What was your reaction when he said he would marry you? Jennifer: I just laughed it off. It was absurd meeting someone for the first time and telling her she would be your wife. Nevertheless, we started communicating and seeing each other regularly.
What was the attraction? Jennifer: What really got me attracted to him was that I found him to be a God-fearing individual. He always talked about God and that prompted me to know more about him. He turned out to be a nice person. He was different from what people were used to seeing in movies.
How long did you date for before you got married?
Ernest: We dated for a long time, but we got married in 2009. I proposed to her around that period and we got married.
Did her parents object to the relationship based on the bad boy roles you played in movies? Ernest: Her mum passed away before we met, so I met with only her father. He welcomed me nicely and I told him I came to marry his daughter. He saw me as a nice person and after we discussed, he asked me to bring my family to meet with theirs.
What were some of initial challenges you faced when you got married to each other? Jennifer: The main challenge I had was that he was not always available. He was always travelling around for his job and shooting videos, but I held on to God. We also spoke all the time and that kept me going.
How would you describe the bond that exists between the two of you? Jennifer: We met and fell in love naturally like any man and woman would.
Is your marriage perfect? Jennifer: A marriage can never be perfect; it is only God that can make it work. We also disagree and argue like every other couple. At the end of the day, we learn from our mistakes and move on. This helps us to reach an agreement.
What kind of man is your husband? Jennifer: He plays the role of a father, husband and brother. One amazing thing about him is that he has the heart of a child; he does not have a heart of stone. He might seem tough when he talks, but he is not really that way.
What are some of the things you do to get each other angry?
Ernest: She has some principles that I find rather uncomfortable and they do not go down well with me. However, we always try to find a balance and make everything work.
Jennifer: He likes to throw things in various random directions in his room. He likes a lot of clothes, shoes and caps which he never places in their correct positions. He only returns them to their rightful positions after we might have argued about it. Disturbing him whenever he is listening to music can also lead to arguments. Aside from these, he is a nice person.
How do you make up when you have misunderstandings? Jennifer: Discussing issues helps us to settle our differences. One thing about marriage is that when you involve a third party to settle your issues, they would destroy your marriage. All you have to do is understand each other, your likes, dislikes and try to balance it. That keeps our marriage going.
How were you able to build a successful marriage?
Ernest: I am a prayerful person. Whenever I encounter any issues, I pray to God and ask for solutions. When He gives me solutions, I apply them to my marriage and that works for me.
For some time now, you have not been acting. Is your wife responsible for this? Ernest: It was because I had challenges with my legs. I needed to recover fully before venturing into acting again. I am a vibrant person who likes to run around and remain very active. I need to be able to do that fully again. I will return to Nollywood when I recover completely, but right now, I am married to my faith.
What advice do you have for intending couples?
Jennifer: They should be prayerful and ensure that they are getting married to the right person else they will have problems in their marriage. They should make God the head of the family and understand each other. They should know their likes, dislikes, be able to share their views and fears with their partner. These things make a marriage healthy.
What advice do you have for celebrities who are also married?
Ernest: They should lean on God first and always do the right things. Also, they should make out time to know their spouses.
Do you both disagree over money? Jennifer: Money comes and goes. If you enjoy it while you have it, then you both have to adjust and endure when you do not have it. Personally, I do not think it should be a problem in any marriage.
Does your husband help out with chores at home? Jennifer: He is not the kind of man that wants to do domestic chores. He assists sometimes but not all the time.
How do you spend time as a couple? Jennifer: We watch music while sipping a glass of wine. But because of his health, we have not really visited a nightclub. We want him to heal completely. We also discuss the Bible and talk about God.
What was the nature of his sickness? Jennifer: He had a partial stroke, but he is getting better. In fact, his recovery is amazing and we want him to recuperate completely before he can commence any strenuous activity. We are acting according to the advice from the doctors.
Did you feel like leaving him when he was sick? Jennifer: No, I never felt that way. I knew he would get better and I trusted God too. He is my husband so I could not have left him.
What do you think of the negative stories that were written about him? Jennifer: It is really painful yet surprising. This was someone that was always beside me, so I wonder why it was reported that he died. What they could have done was to find out if any of the stories were true before they were published. How many people will I explain to that there is no iota of truth in the stories? I feel bad when they write all those things that seek to tarnish my husband’s good image.
What pet names do you call each other? Jennifer: He calls me Wifey and I call him El Cream. El Cream means El-Shaddai Christ Rules Everything Around Me.
The revelation was made by the actress in a Punch interview. When asked by Saturday Beats how it makes her feel when people ask her why she had not yet married, she said:
“I feel like a woman who is not yet married. I am a realist. I am not the kind of woman who thinks that things just come to you. . . It will come at some point. It is not easy for people like us in the limelight unlike others. What kills us sometimes, is wanting to be perfect. A lot of people who fancy you probably don’t fancy being in the news.”
While speaking about the deception and the trend of “Baby Mamas” in the industry, she said:
“Most of them, who pretend that they are happy about being ‘Baby Mamas’ go home and feel sorry for themselves wishing that have a proper man. I have friends who feel that they have got to a certain age and they are not taken. . . These days, there are 30 women to a man. There is no pressure on me for not being married because I come from an enlightened family. Most of the things happening in the industry are not encouraging. This week, you are happy and have a big wedding, the next, you have broken up. What is the essence?”
Few days ago, fans of actress Mide Martins raised an eyebrow after her husband, Afeez Martins took to his Instagram page to wish her happy birthday on April 12th but she refused to send the same gesture on his own birthday which was on April 13th. Many said she was separated and that her marriage was had hit the rock.
Now she has taken to her Instagram to clear the air on her relationship with her husband and father of her daughters.
Life Is a Mystery!!!…. We live in a world where so many strange things happen that are beyond human comprehension… First of all I want correct this impression of me moving out of my husband’s house, I did not leave my house nor pack out of his house, On the contrary, he was the one that left me and moved out of the house!!…. And this happened like 3months ago when we had a minor argument over the well being of his children…
And he packed out of the house abandoning me and 5 children at home; His 2kids, Our 2cousins that has been leaving with us for the past 10yrs now and the househelp… Anyone who is close to the house or our family can testify to it that I am still in the house that we have lived together for 4yrs now, he was the one that moved out and rented another apartment two weeks after… Presently as we speak, he’s now leaving in his new house, neglected his wife, kids & responsibilities since…I tried to resolve this issue by informing some of our close relatives but all to no avail… I guess his mind was strongly made up and must have his reasons for wanting to be a free man…
Naturally couples do have issues between each which are meant to be resolved between them amicably not taking such a drastic measure like moving out of the house, a man for that matter!!!…. Definitely he must have been planning to do so before was just looking for an excuse!!! A responsible man would never abandon his family no matter the circumstances!!!…. So I kept mute all this while and tried to move on with my life, going about my daily business , working my head up day and night for the survival of these children…. If you check through the years back, I never for once talked about my husband badly … I always give him praises and appreciate him anywhere and everywhere necessary… Is he God? Is he Angel? Or Is he that perfect?… Ofcourse No!!…. He has hurt me so many times before Infact has broken me countless time before but never for once said anything cruel about him but instead tried to play along with maturity… Because I don’t ever want to tarnish his image, I love my husband and cherish him more than any one can imagine!!!
People usually judge people by their appearances which shouldn’t be so..we shouldn’t judge people from afar!!.. An innocent looking person might be a devil underneath while an arrogant/ flashy person might just be an angel to the core!!… So many people abused, cursed, judged, criticized and even condemned me for not uploading his picture on his birthday .. How can I celebrate a man that has abandoned me and his kids for over 3 months now without looking back and made it clear he wasn’t ready to get back to me!!…If actually did that who would I be fooling? Myself? Him? Or the Audience?… All that you see on his page.. @officialafeezowo on my birthday uploading my pictures and saying some nice things was just a camouflage!! Deception!!… He wrote there that am his angel..
“Can you leave your angel to starve to death?”….if you check through his page very well he hasn’t uploaded my picture there for a while before this very day of my birthday simply because he left me a long time ago… All he does is fool the world by uploading his children pictures which has been on him phone for long and now pretending to be the best dad in the world.
Whereas he hasn’t heard from these children or care about their well being in a long while now… I don’t like really to upload my children on net too much because I believe children are meant to be protected by keeping them well and save inside not exposing them to the world every time like they are some kind of items you wanna sell.
That’s why I don’t put them on Net too much except on very important occasion. That doesn’t mean I don’t love them. I adore them!!… Infact they are my life!!!
Now!!… My husband why are trying to destroy me? Why do you wanna kill me? What will be your achievement? Why do you wish destroy my career.. This is the career that gives me money to feed the children that came out from your flesh and blood… Why do I deserve this kind of hatred from you?… Is this what I get for having stayed by your side and supported you for good 13yrs?… Well no problem!!!..All will be well… But I leave everything into God’s hands to judge between you and I … I know he will surely fight my battle for me because ” Oba Elesan ni, Adakedajo, arinurode, Olumoran okan, olugbeja eda”… Now Am crying out unto you from the deepest pain of my heart!!.. “Gbogbo Eyin Abiamo Aye”….Pls save me!! Pls save this poor innocent woman who’s done nothing wrong but has always worked extra hard just to support and keep her family together … Pls I beg you all in the of God to save me from this. Trauma that am experiencing now… May God be with everyone… Thank You!!!
Uche Jombo Rodriquezand her son, Mathew both posed for an adorable selfie. The actress shared the sefie yesterday via her official Instagram page and her caption reads: “We woke up like this? good morning #ujlovers….seen #WivesOnStrike yet? It’s still showing in EVERY cinema nationwide…join the movement ????”
Two days ago, at Kobe Bryant’s farewell game, rap guru Jay Z attended the event without his wife Beyonce, and as expected, cameras searched him out, trolled him from the beginning to the end of the event, and now folks on social media have an interesting story to tell.
From the photos, a yet-to-be-identified woman sat at the front row with Jay Z, with another man sitting in between them, but something funny happened towards the end of the game; the lady had switched seats.
See the photos:
Of course it got people talking, with many wondering why the sudden change, if the photo was photoshopped to piss Beyonce off, all these speculations hinged on the fact that the singer is famous for spying on her husband at sports events.
Kids Say the Darndest Things was one of the hit shows of the late Nineties… and it seems the hilariously shocking things that an innocent child says never stops being funny. To celebrate this, parents have once again shared their children’s entertaining drawings and letters on social media.
Some are the result of spelling mistakes, others of poorly drawn figures and one from a misinterpretation of what mum and dad do behind closed doors. Peep them below.
“Reggae Blues” hitmaker, Harrysong has disclosed his plans to release new album soon.
While speaking with Channels Television lately, multiple award-winning Mr Songz said; ‘we are working on the new album titled ‘Spontaneous’ and I have a lot of my friends on it. The album is basically going to be about Harrysong all the way, from where I started to where I am right now to where I am going.’
The Five Star Music act also unvieled names of notable artiste who featured on “Spontaneous,” they include; Patoranking, Duncan Mighty, MI Abaga, Kcee, Yemi Alade, Seyi Shay and others.
Popular singer, Banky W celebrates one of his youngest fans, 7-year-old Tatyana’s birthday by giving her a brand new bicycle as gift.
Bank W shared on social media, the footage of Tatyana riding her new gift while singing one of Banky W’s singles, ‘Jaiye Ori Mi’.
“Awww she likes her birthday present!! Meet Tatyana, one of my youngest (and favourite) fans in the world!! She just turned 7 and I absolutely adore her. ??,” Banky W writes.
The multiple award winning RnB singer who recently renewed his endorsement deal with Samsung mobile also applauded Tatyana’s aunt for letting him discover the young girl. ”Thank you to her Aunt @sugaplays for bringing her to my attention.. enjoy hun – Much luv from Uncle Banky ??”