It’s said that people respond to heartbreak differently but a South African man has taken his heartbreak up a notch by showing up at his ex-girlfriend’s house with his friend every single day to bare their butts.
In the rather bewildering series of events, after the lady ended her relationship with the young man, he and his friend started pulling up in front of her compound every morning to spread their butt cheeks in the direction of her house.
A Twitter user with handle @Kokoleo_zn took to the platform to relay the incident, and disclosed that the victim took a photo of them and shared it on the neighborhood watch group.
See the picture below,
He tweeted,
“So apparently this lady broke up with this gent and she posted in the neighbourhood watch group that he has been pulling up every morning to do this
I’m so confused.
“Our friendship has to be close for me to participate in this nonsense with u
These are grown men bruh”.
The incident has sparked mixed reactions online as netizens wondered why the man’s friend agreed to participate in the barbaric act with him.
See some reactions below,
@mdisaotile wrote, “I am impressed by the friendship. My friends would never do this for me, I need new friends 😂😂😂😂”
@thecarter80 wrote, “He’s not only crazy, but goofy too. Hope I solved that for you.”
@alexanderking4l wrote, “The dogs must wonder if humans are usually this stupid.”
@stella_dlangs wrote, “I’m not doing this for any of my friends. Let’s do a drive by and give the middle finger rather. Not spreading our butt cheeks, isidima sona?!😭😂”
Abba Bichi, the son of the Director General of the Department of State Security Service (DSS), Yusuf Magaji Bichi, has berated singer, Teni, for not bowing to President Buhari while receiving a national award.
The 29-year-old singer was on Tuesday, October 11, conferred as a Member of the Order of the Niger (MON), at a ceremony which was held at the Government House Villa in Aso Rock.
During the award ceremony, Teni, when called up, received her award from the president without bowing or shaking his hands, and then returned to her seat afterwards.
Watch video below,
What do you think about Teni's refusal to greet the president while receiving her national award?pic.twitter.com/6cLfdMU9Qi
Teni’s conduct sparked controversy online as many Nigerians accused her of being disrespectful to the presidency.
One of those who chided Teni for her conduct at the award ceremony was the DSS DG’s son, Abba Bichi. He shared a photo of Teni on his Instagram page and lambasted her for not bowing to the president.
Insisting that Teni was disrespectful to Buhari, he noted that the Director General of the World Trade Organization, Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala, and other high-ranking government officials bowed their heads as a sign of respect to the president at the event.
“Orobo with zero sense, even her excellency okonjo bowed down her head as a sign of respect to the president and commander in chief of the armed forces, likewise other high-ranking government officials. Who are you not to respect the president? This is disgusting and disturbing. Yoruba people are best known for their respect for elders but it got to your turn and you decided to be arrogant”. He wrote.
A Nigerian mother has been captured scolding her dog for being too stubborn, and the video has since gone viral and stirred hilarious reactions on social media.
In the trending clip, the woman is seen reprimanding the dog for disobeying her orders not to go to a place she has warned it severally not to go to.
While expressing her anger with the dog for being obstinate, the dog stood still and listened with rapt attention to her words like it understood what she was saying.
After scolding the dog to her heart’s content, the mother asked it if it would take to correction or keep disobeying her orders.
She asked repeatedly as if she was expecting the dog to suddenly open its mouth and talk like a human being.
See how some netizens reacted to the video as you scroll,
@onlymyboyfriend wrote, “make the dog just talk YES MA make everywhere scatter”
@_cumidee wrote, “I waited for the part the dog would say ‘I am sorry’ 😂😂😂😂😂”
@echokeblog wrote, “The fact that the dog is even listening 😂😂 dem no born you well make you no listen African parent can restore the sense of anything with that one slap 👋 even dogs”
@sterlinglams wrote, “Look at the way the dog is looking at her… She wants him to answer 😂😂😂she has forgotten it’s a dog…if it answers ‘i have heard you Granma’ nko ? Granma will run scatter every where 😂😂😂”
Big Brother Naija star and former beauty queen, Nengi Hampson, has made an intriguing revelation about herself.
The reality TV star, in a post via her verified Twitter page on Wednesday afternoon said she’s a ghetto babe.
She claims that, in contrast to what many people believe about her, she is a complete ghetto babe.
She added that she finds it amusing that the majority perceives her as bougie; an internet slang to describe someone who exudes wealth or is regarded as belonging to the upper class.
“It’s so funny how everyone thinks I’m bougie. “I’m a whole ghetto babe,” she wrote on Twitter.
See her post below,
A while ago, Nengi reacted after being linked to President Muhammadu Buhari on Twitter.
The drama started when media personality, Ebuka Obi-Uchendu, posted Buhari’s admonition to striking lecturers in the country to call off the strike because they are harming the next generation.
“Enough is enough. Don’t hurt the next generation for goodness sake.’ President Buhari to ASUU” he tweeted.
In response, a Twitter user lambasted Buhari for always acting oblivious to the happenings in the country and stated that Nengi has the same trait.
“This Man and Nengi get one thing in common, always acting like they don’t know what’s happening around them … The difference is that Nengi is simple and not wicked but him, tueeehhh!🤢🤮”, she wrote.
However, another Twitter user who seemed to have a beef with the reality show star, said he thinks Nengi is Buhari’s adviser because she has been ‘benefiting’ from the current administration.
The user went on to list Nengi’s achievement and called on EFCC to investigate her source of income.
“I think Nengi is the one advising that man to be wicked. That girl likes using men to achieve her goals. and she’s the only one benefiting from Nigeria government. Under 2 years, she has a house, car, private business. @officialEFCC should look into her case.”, the troll wrote.
Interestingly, the tweet caught the eye of the BBNaija star and she responded with a rather light-hearted comment.
“Special Adviser to the President, FRN. That’s my NEW Title. 😂😂🤣”, she wrote.
The Nzam community in the Anambra West Local Government Area of Anambra State has been thrown into mourning after six members of a family drowned in floodwater.
It was gathered that the victims—five children and their mother—were about to leave their home for a safer location when the floodwater rushed into their home and drowned them all.
A video shared online shows youths in the community bringing out their bodies and lining them up in an upland area of the town.
Watch video below,
This comes after a popular Islamic cleric in Kwara State, Sheikh Abdulganiyu Nuraini, popularly called Alfa Gani Aboto, and two of his aides, died after the vehicle they were travelling in was washed away in flood waters in the state.
Alfa Gani Aboto, his aides, Alfa Azeez Omoekun and Alfa Nurudeen, were coming from da’awah activity in Minna, Niger State, when the flood swept away his Toyota Yaris car while trying to cross a bridge near Harmony Estate/Kukende at the Akerebiata area of Ilorin.
The bodies of the victims were recovered by the state fire service from a river opposite Olusola Saraki Abattoir along Sobi Army Barracks road, Ilorin inside the car on Saturday, October 1, 2022.
The late sheik was a student of late Sheikh Kamaldeen Al-Adabiy, the first Mufti of Ilorin and founder of Ansarul Islam Society of Nigeria. He was also a hafeedh and leading trainer of Quran memorisers in the state.
A British man simply identified as Darren, who lost his iPhone in the UK a month ago, has discovered it in Nigeria.
Darren, who made this revelation on his Twitter page on Monday, said his iPhone went missing in the UK in September, and when he eventually gained access to his iCloud this October, he discovered the phone is now in Edo state, Nigeria.
The screenshot of the map that Darren posted on the micro-blogging platform to corroborate his claim showed the location of the iPhone as Ibiwe Street, Oredo area, Edo State.
Sharing the snapshot, he wrote,
”Lost me phone in town like a month ago, just got back into my iCloud to find out it’s went on holiday to Nigeria 😂😂😂”.
In other news, a Nigerian lady residing in the UK has advised Nigerians planning to relocate abroad to be discreet with their relocation plans after her encounter with a US-bound Nigerian man who misplaced his passport.
According to the lady, the Nigerian man who was traveling to the US lost his passport at the point of a connecting flight from the UK to the US.
In the viral video, the young man appeared really bewildered when the lady approached him to ask about what happened to his passport.
Responding, the man said the passport mysteriously disappeared because he remembered carrying it with him while going to the boarding gate.
The lady said after witnessing the incident she concluded that juju is real, and advised people to keep their relocation plan a secret until they get to their destination.
Popular socialite and crossdresser, James Brown has in a new video shared on his social media page claimed not to know who leaked his sex tape.
Recall that the male Barbie set the internet buzzing on Monday after a video of him having sexual relations with an unidentified lady was leaked online.
Following the release of the video, James Brown received serious criticism and bashing from Nigerians online, who believe the viral clip was a publicity stunt. Read here.
In reaction to the leaked tape, he took to Twitter to say the incident had left him sad and depressed. According to him, he couldn’t sleep and felt like he was living a nightmare, and wondered if this is how it feels when one’s intimate tape is leaked online.
Well, James Brown has now shared a new video where he commented on the sextape, and claimed not to know how the video found its way to the internet.
He said he filmed the video with his girlfriend six months ago, and is still in shock as to how the video leaked online. He then pointed accusing fingers at his numerous ‘haters’ and people who are jealous of him.
Speaking on why he had unprotected sex with the lady despite allegedly being HIV positive, James Brown said his girlfriend whom he has been dating for two years knows about his status, and pointed out that he didn’t ejaculate inside her private part in the video.
He then slammed those criticizing him over the sex tape, stating that he’s not the first person whose video has leaked online.
A Nigerian clergyman, Abel Damina, has averred that having a wedding reception is totally unnecessary and not recognized in the bible.
He said this while preaching in his church recently as he explained what constitutes a real marriage.
According to him, a couple are wedded when their parents hand them over to each other and the requirements of each party, including bride price payment, are met. He said anything other than that is frivolous and unnecessary.
Speaking further, he said couples don’t need to throw a lavish wedding party and spend over N2 million to feed hundreds of people when the money can be invested into a profitable venture.
Preaching passionately on the topic, the clergyman said;
“Wedding is just a celebration after marriage. The real marriage has happened before wedding because the real marriage is parents giving their children to one another. That is marriage. It is cultural. So all that wedding is unnecessary. It is not in the bible. No wedding in the bible. White wedding is a white man’s culture. It is not a bible thing. In the bible, marriage is parents handing over the children when the requirements of the families are met. Once that happens, marriage has happened and as a responsible Christian, you call your pastor to speak a blessing. You don’t need to feed people. You don’t need to wear gown”
Nigerian filmmaker, Seun Egbegbe, has regained his freedom after spending three years and six months in prison.
The movie producer was jailed on February 10, 2017, for fraudulently obtaining money by false pretense from no fewer than 40 bureau de change operators in different parts of Lagos between 2015 and March 2017.
Egbegbe, who was the boss of Ebony Production, is said to have swindled the BDC operators out of money by claiming that he had naira to change into foreign currencies and vice versa.
According to the state police, he allegedly duped his victims for the total sums of N39,098,100, $90,000, and £12,550.
The filmmaker, alongside one Oyekan Ayomide, was first arraigned in February 2017, before Justice Oluremi Oguntoyinbo on 36 counts bordering on advance free fraud.
The prosecuting counsel for the police, Innocent Anyigor, said Egbegbe and the other defendants acted contrary to Section 8 of the Advance Fee Fraud and Other Related Offences Act 2006 and were liable to be punished under Section 1(3) of the same Act.
His charge sheet was subsequently amended twice, with the count eventually increasing to 40.
However, after 42 months in jail, Egbegbe was set free yesterday, October 11, 2022.
The Federal High Court in Ikoyi, after reviewing his case, found Egbegbe guilty of just one of the 44 counts charged against him.
Justice Oluremi Oguntoyinbo declared that 43 of the 44 were thrown out because of a lack of witnesses to substantiate their claims.
Reality TV star, actress and model, Beverly Osu has bewailed the rate at which infidelity has been normalized in relationships and marriages today.
In a recent interview on Vanguards’ “Lunch Date with Vanguard”, the 30-year-old actress while speaking on why she’s still single, said this generation has made relationships look cumbersome with the way they cheat on their spouses.
According to her, she’s not cut out for such relationships which explains why she’s not in a serious relationship at the moment. She however stated that she’s open to love if she meets a good partner.
She said;
“This generation is making love look so hard with cheating here and there. These days, cheating is now a norm. For me, I can’t. Maybe because I am old school but I can’t. I just want to love and have a companion. But so far, I am so single. I think this is the longest that I have been single. And I am open to love. The next man I date, I am going to expose him on social media so that I will know the fate of the relationship early enough. Maybe he is dating over 5 girls in this Lagos, you never can tell.”
On why she’s not married, Beverly said,
“If dem come marry me, I go go naw. Sincerely, there was a time I used dream about weddings. I see my wedding dress but now I don’t see anything. I just want to live and of course pray to God that I don’t breed children out of wedlock because I want to be under a family. A unit. I always say this to my friends and family, I am not emotionally strong to be a baby mama. I can’t do it all by myself.
“I know I have supportive system; I have friends, I have family that would be there. But I can’t do that. In a case where it happens, then the child would be in his father’s house. I know they say when you have the child, then you know better, but I tell you, if that happens the child will be in his or her father’s house. That’s why I want to try my best to do it the right way; marriage. And I love love. I want to be in love and obsessed with my family; my partner. We give birth and breed the child together.”
A bride-to-be canceled her wedding because her fiancé and his family requested that she not bring her child from a previous relationship.
Twitter user @thembisile_q, narrated that the single mother who had a child from a prior relationship and was scheduled to get married reportedly called off the union. The fiancé and his family had allegedly refused her bringing the child into the marriage.
Read what she tweeted:
“I stan this girl. She cancelled her engagement mid lobola negotiations because her fiance and his family wouldn’t allow her to move in with her child from her previous relationship. We really shld have a conversation about the damage & abandonment issues that come with being left behind as a child while your mother gets married and have other kids. Some of them grow up to be very resentful and angry at their mothers because their well being isn’t guaranteed.”
Netizens were concerned why the couple did not have this discussion during the course of their relationship and had to wait till the last possible time.
Read some comments below:
@mangkgateng wrote “Is this not a convo that she should of had with her partner before even agreeing to marry him ?”
@bekithembanyat3 wrote “But this is an issue that is discussed and agreed before you decide to marry? The family has no right in this. It’s a tricky situation if the father is alive and is part of the child’s life it might be uncomfortable or I completely adopt the child and raise it as my own.”
@itaichapunza wrote “This should have been discussed between the two of them before there was a lobola date.
Ladies, If he doesn’t want the child, it’s likely that he will not change even if papa prays for him.
And gents, if you dont want the children don’t date single mothers”
Nigerian singer, Buju fka BNXN drops the official music video of his recent song tagged, “In My Mind”, produced by Blaisebeatz.
“In My Mind”, is a song off his recent project ‘Bad Since 97‘ EP.
On this song, Buju reflected on his experience with toxic relationships, and he wanted to paint a picture of one person in a relationship wanting the best for the relationship, and the other just bringing pain, trouble and agony into the relationship, and how it’s all a mess at the end of the day.
The music video was shot and directed by Troy Roscoe.
A video making the rounds online captures the emotional moment a bride’s younger brother broke into tears at her wedding ceremony.
In the video shared on TikTok by @alaga_Dabira, the teenage boy, said to be the bride’s only brother, couldn’t contain his emotions and broke down in tears as their family gave his sister away in marriage.
When he was called to dance with his sister, he started crying uncontrollably as it dawned on him that his sister was leaving for her husband’s house.
The bride tried to console her brother but in the process she was also moved to tears and tried hard to fight back the tears.
The tear-jerking video has gone viral on social media and stirred a barrage of comments from internet users, the bulk of whom empathized with the bride’s brother.
See some reactions below,
TikTok user @Lucy Eyiuche wrote, “sometimes na person we dey fight you more,dey miss you more lol”
@itsayankay wrote, “People won’t understand. It’s a different kind of pain, when its the only sis you have. You feel like they are kidnapping her away from you.”
@dark_softie_ wrote, “Awwn brothers love ,but not mine though cause they will be busy packing all my luggages 😂😂those ones don tire for me”
@roziveni_ng wrote, “Chai I understand how he he feels but she’s still around dear. You can always visit”
Popular Nigerian singer, Davido, has replied to a Twitter user who made a suggestive remark about his latest purchase, a Mercedes G-Wagon for his heartthrob, Chioma.
After news made the rounds on Tuesday afternoon, October 11, that the 30BG boss had ordered a brand new black Mercedes Benz G-Wagon for his third baby mama, netizens across different social media platforms began sharing their thoughts on the gesture.
Recall that celebrity car dealer, Renee5star, shared a snapshot of her chat with Davido, where he ordered the luxury whip for his woman.
An observant Twitter user carefully went through the chat and pointed out that Davido had messaged the car dealer at exactly 2:42 am and made a naughty suggestion about the reason Davido decided to buy the expensive whip for Chioma at this time.
According to the tweep, Davido placed an order for the G-Wagon after an intimate session with his fiancée that blew his mind.
“2:42 You just know the sex was insane. ” The Twitter user wrote
Reacting to the tweet, Davido wrote, “Naw, the internet is undefeated.”
Meanwhile, Davido’s fourth babymama and mother of his second son, Larissa London, has flared up on social media and threatened to spill the tea about an undisclosed issue tonight.
Her outburst comes barely 24 hours after the singer bought a brand new G-Wagon for his fiancée and mother of his first son, Chioma Rowland.
Recall that Larissa welcomed a son named Dawson in 2020 and there were speculations that Davido is the biological father of the child.
However, they did not confirm or deny the report until recently when UK-based clergyman and friend of the singer confirmed that Dawson is Davido’s son.
Well, Larissa took to her Instastory today, October 12, to say she has had enough and wants to speak her truth on her Instagram live tonight.
Though, she did not disclose the topic of discussion, some netizens are speculating that she wants to speak about her relationship with Davido who is now head over heels in love with Chioma.
Terrorists have released a video showing two abducted daughters and a female domestic staff member of a former Accountant General of Zamfara state, Alhaji Abubakar Bello Furfuri.
The armed bandits had stormed the residence of the ex-accountant general in the Furfuri community, Bungudu Local Government Area, and abducted nine members of his family, including his two housewives, and over 10 other members of the community in June, 2022.
However, some of the captives were released after their families paid ransom, but the bandits held on to some of the girls.
In the now viral clip released by the terrorists, the girls are seen bearing firearms, including an LMG and an AK49 rifle.
The girls’ father
The bandits threatened to turn the girls into criminals who would be used to attract other targets if their parents failed to pay the ransom they demanded.
In the video of the terrorists is heard telling the girls their parents “think the issue is a joke or lie.”
“We are not even after the money. We’ll just use you and increase our number of fighters or use you as new targets.” he added.
Another one interrupted and said, “Tell them if they don’t cooperate, we will keep disgracing you.”
Speaking in the video, one of the daughters, Zulaihat, pleaded with her father to use every means to gather the ransom and free them from captivity.
“My name is Zulaihat from Zamfara. Please father, if you see this video help and save us from this situation. We’re in a critical condition living here. Disregard those advising you against paying the ransom please. Please don’t allow us to add another day in this condition.
“They threatened to give us something that will make us forget you and you may never see us. Please, save us from this condition. They said they would take us away from here. They said we would show them the houses of rich people and we’ll go to schools with them (to abduct pupils). Please help and save us from this situation”, she said.
Reality TV star and businesswoman, Natacha Akide better known as Tacha, has read her riot act for the forthcoming general election in 2023.
Taking to Twitter to pass her message on Wednesday morning, August 12, Tacha said nobody should pull the respect card during the election because she can not be expected to respect people trying to ruin her life and that of her unborn children.
She said even though she is very respectful and polite to the aged, nobody should demand respect from her in 2023 and anyone who acts unruly will receive a taste of their own medicine irrespective of their age.
She tweeted,
“You see this elections ehn! Let no body bring up respect oh! Because you cannot be trying to k*ll me and my unborn children and still be expecting respect from me. I like to be polite BUT Shurrup your mouth.”
A while back, Tacha Akide overtly declared her intention to be fully involved in the country’s 2023 general elections.
According to the reality star, who shared a video of herself in a health facility donning a hospital garb, she’d be actively involved in the election on all levels.
Tacha in her message, tells citizens that they can’t afford to be sitting on the fence during the elections.
She says those who campaign for their candidates should bear in mind that they would be the one to suffer the consequences if they choose a bad leader.
She then advised citizens not to take the election as a do-or-die affair but ensure that they vote wisely.
A Nigerian lady residing in the UK has advised Nigerians planning to relocate abroad to be discreet with their relocation plans after her encounter with a US-bound Nigerian man who misplaced his passport.
According to the lady, the Nigerian man who was traveling to the US lost his passport at the point of a connecting flight from the UK to the US.
In the viral video, the young man appeared really bewildered when the lady approached him to ask about what happened to his passport.
Responding, the man said the passport mysteriously disappeared because he remembered carrying it with him while going to the boarding gate.
The lady said after witnessing the incident she concluded that juju is real, and advised people to keep their relocation plan a secret until they get to their destination.
Watch video below,
In other news, following the current rave among Nigerians to leave the country, a Nigerian man residing in the UK, has given a premium advice to those planning to relocate to the UK.
Speaking in a video making rounds on the internet, the young man advised aspiring UK migrants to make sure they have as much sex as they can before moving to the UK because it’s hard to bed a woman over there.
According to him, since he relocated to the UK a year ago, he has not slept with a woman because most women believe that Nigerian migrants are after their ‘papers’.
Bewailing his inability to satisfy his heightened sexual urge, the young man said that’s the case for most black migrants in the UK hence why Nigerian men have phone sex with women back in Nigeria and request for their nudes to satisfy their sexual urge.
Nigerian music executive and politician, Bankole Wellington better known as Banky W, has dismissed claims of signing Big Brother Naija season 6 winner and singer, Whitemoney, to his record label, Empire Mates Entertainment (EME).
Some weeks back, a report emerged online that Whitemoney has been signed to EME record label, and photos seemingly showing the moment the deal was signed and sealed made rounds online.
The reality show star also took to Twitter to share the photos with a suggestive caption that seemed like he was indeed an EME signee.
He wrote, “Now that we are in good hands, let the music flow. “EGWU” & “YOU BAD” drops: 23/09/22 Are You Ready????”
Now that we are in good hands, let the music flow.
At the time the news was shared online, it was met with mixed reactions from netizens who shared their thoughts on the collaboration.
In a new development, Banky W, in a recent interview on HotFM Lagos, disclosed that he didn’t sign Whitemoney to his record label, and in fact, he doesn’t own a record label anymore because they rebranded as a media and marketing agency in 2017.
According to the music personality, he only handled an ambassadorial deal between Whitemoney and a company EME consults for, nothing more.
Singer, Davido’s fourth babymama and mother of his second son, Larissa London, has flared up on social media and threatened to spill the tea about an undisclosed issue tonight.
Her outburst comes barely 24 hours after the singer bought a brand new G-Wagon for his fiancée and mother of his first son, Chioma Rowland.
Recall that Larissa welcomed a son named Dawson in 2020 and there were speculations that Davido is the biological father of the child.
However, they did not confirm or deny the report until recently when UK-based clergyman and friend of the singer confirmed that Dawson is Davido’s son.
Well, Larissa took to her Instastory today, October 12, to say she has had enough and wants to speak her truth on her Instagram live tonight.
Though, she did not disclose the topic of discussion, some netizens are speculating that she wants to speak about her relationship with Davido who is now head over heels in love with Chioma.
In the now-deleted post, Larissa wrote,
“I’ve had enough!!
Coming on live tonight @ 7pm”
See below,
In other news, Davido has splashed millions of naira on a new G-wagon for his fiancée, Chioma.
The pair, who recently rekindled their relationship following their split in 2021, have revealed that they will be tying the knot in 2023.
Well, ahead of their much anticipated wedding, Davido just acquired a brand new Mercedes G-Wagon for the mother of one. Read here
Big Brother Naija season 7 winner, Phyna Otabor, has taken a swipe at an unnamed colleague.
The reality TV star, who in a recent interview addressed her recent outburst on Twitter, said she reacted in that manner because she had been receiving death threats from fans of the unnamed housemate because of her relationship with Groovy.
Recall that Phyna recently took to her Twitter handle to call out her haters and those that have been sending her unsolicited DMs to express their displeasure with her.
She tweeted how she felt without thinking of the consequences or backlash she’ll be getting from her fans but eventually deleted them after people called her out for behaving in an uncultured manner. Read here.
Speaking during the interview, Phyna said she regretted responding because she later realized it was an opportunity for the certain housemate to trend.
She further threatened to beat up the housemate if she doesn’t call her fans to order.
“If you are clapping hands for your fan to be holding space to drag another person…I go drive come your house come beat you, I don’t have time, forget celebrity, yes I am a razz girl with my full chest, don’t push me”, she said in part.
A Nigerian midwife, identified as Chikaodinaka Nnadozie, has made a rather shocking revelation about the married women in her sex and sexual health online class.
Taking to Facebook, Nnadozie disclosed that 80% of the married women have never experienced orgasm while having sexual intercourse with their husbands.
She said it is alarming because most of these women are sexually dissatisfied in their marriages. According to her, it’s even worse for most women married to Igbo men as they are sex starved and stuck in an unromantic marriage.
Nnadozie wrote,
“This is more serious than you think. I have a WhatsApp group where I teach married women and single ladies sex and sexual health, the day I taught about orgasm, about 80% of the married women have not experienced it. And most of them married to Igbo men, are in sexless and un-romantic marriages.”
According to the young lady, she has an issue with sleeping with married men since they always appeal to her more than single men.
The lady however became bored of socializing with them and decided to pray to God about it, and her prayers were fulfilled.
She expressed joy in her post to Joro Olomofin about being able to cease sleeping with married men. She also prayed for those women like herself who are solely attracted to married guys.
A Lagos High Court sitting has watched the chilling footage of Chidinma Ojukwu, the prime suspect in the murder of Super TV CEO, Michael Ataga, confessing to stabbing him to death, all by herself.
Recall that Chidinma, who is standing trial for the alleged murder of Ataga, alongside her sister and third defendant, Chioma Egbuchu, and second defendant Adedapo Quadri, has been on trial since October 12, 2021, when they were arraigned at the high court sitting at the Tafawa Balewa Square (TBS) before Justice Yetunde Adesanya.
At the resumption of proceedings, the prosecution played the video recording from a Compact Disc (CD) on a large screen in the courtroom. The footage showed Ataga lying on the floor facing up with his hands spread open, wearing a white singlet and boxers stained with blood. His head was close to the wall and there was blood on the floor on his right-hand side. There were also large blood stains on the floor, the pillow, and the duvet cover.
“After I got the place on Sunday, we were smoking loud, drinking, watching movies and then I went to get food. The drug we were taking got finished and I ordered another one and went downstairs to get it from the delivery guy in the morning; that was on June 14, 2021.
“Then on Tuesday, we drank and smoked loud and I added Rophynol to his drink and we had sex. I was on the bed and he was on the chair. Then later he started disturbing me for more sex. I was tired and after struggling with him, he had his way and still wanted more.
“He wanted it, he was no longer himself and I thought he was no more interested in sex, only for him to return to the bed to ask for more sex. I pushed him away, which resulted in him hitting his head against a stool that had a glass. He had a cut on his leg and he became weak.
“I got a knife and stabbed him in the neck, ribs and stomach so that he would not be able to harm me. I tied his hands with hand kerchief. His blood was out and I was scared. I just packed everything, my clothes were also stained with blood, I just packed my things and left.
“I took the knife and handkerchief and when I got home, I threw the knife and handkerchief away. Michael (Ataga) was a friend, that we just talked. I didn’t know him that deep and we did not talk regularly.” Chidinma said in the video.
When she was asked in the video if she was assisted in killing the deceased, she replied, “There was nobody that assisted me, I did it alone.”
During examination in chief by prosecution counsel Mrs. Adenike Oluwafemi, Bamidele said the police recovered some items from the defendant’s house, including a small pink purse containing two syringes, eight pieces of Rophynol tablets, two sanitary pads, a small perfume, jewellery, an iPhone, a notebook, a diary, and an HP laptop.
Other items were the defendant’s ID card with her name, Ojukwu Chidinma Adora, Ataga’s driving licence, Ojukwu’s UBA ATM card, a Super net ID card with Ataga’s name, and three other cards that had the deceased’s name and six blank complimentary cards, among others.
In a short ruling, Justice Adesanya dismissed the defendant’s objection and admitted the items in evidence and adjourned till October 12, for the continuation of the trial.
Meanwhile, Chidinma had in an interview with crime fighters in July 2021 weeks after her arrest denied killing the businessman.
She claimed that she had nothing to do with the murder but only found Ataga’s corpse after returning to the service apartment where both of them had lodged. Read here.
The British government has said it is considering tightening the rules on how many relatives, immigrants can bring into the country.
According to a recent research by the UK Homie office, it was discovered that Nigerians had the highest number of dependants in the country compared to other groups of migrants.
According to the Times UK, UK Home Secretary, Suella Braverman said the government was considering tightening the rules on dependants after Home Office immigration figures showed a “surprising inconsistency” across different nationalities coming to the UK to work and study.
Based on the Home Office report, Nigerians accounted for 40% of all dependants who accompanied foreign students in the 12 months to June 2022 – despite Nigerian students making up just 7% of all foreign students in that period.
About 34,000 Nigerians were given study visas in the UK, bringing with them a total of 31,898 dependants. A similar ratio was recorded for work visas, with 8,972 Nigerians issued with one in the 12 months to June bringing with them 8,576 dependants.
While 114,837 Chinese students who came to the UK last year brought with them a total of 401 dependants – and 93,049 Indian students came to Britain with 24,916 dependants, the figures show.
A Nigerian Army private identified as Emmanuel Iorliam of the 156 Task Force Battalion, Mainok in Borno state, has been arrested for gun running.
Iorliam who hails from Benue state, reportedly steals arms and ammunition from his base which he then sells to Bandits, Boko Haram members, and kidnappers. He was caught recently while he was moving the cache of ammunition out of Borno State to hand over to his customers.
Iorliam got intercepted by his colleagues at a checkpoint and upon searching him, he was found to be in possession of the stolen ammunition.
A video which was shared online shows the moment his colleagues intercepted him with the stolen items.
A Nigerian woman, Rosemary Nkiruka accused her estranged husband of threatening to kill her and destroy her business after she walked away from their marriage due to alleged domestic violence.
Rosemary, a mother of two revealed that her husband who she identified as Obarijima Yorgba, had been assaulting her for years, stripping her naked, even in public.
In the Facebook post she shared on Monday, October 10, Rosemary stated that she left her marriage on April 15, 2022 as she could no longer endure the constant abuse.
Sharing photos of her battered body, Rosemary wrote;
“I tried to avoid doing this because of how I was raised and because of my boys, but I have been pushed and it is time for the world to hear my voice and my side of story.”
“I left my marriage on the 15th of April 2022 because my life was almost taken away from me. I was That woman who stood and was ready to build a beautiful family with Mr Obarijima Yorgba. I had a beautiful dream planned out but the more I tried the more my life was put on the line for years I suffered in silence, I was beaten like a common criminal, Abused in public, A lot of people had seen my nakedness in some cases when Obarijima will beat me because he will destroy my clothes.’
“I have lost my memory before but God restored it, I have scars on my body today because of Obarijima I was depressed and almost gave up but God saved me.
“I was still married to Mr Obarijima but he spoils my name to friends, family members, co workers and church members the ones that believed him did and pushed me away and did more harm to my situation.
“A lot happened to me then I decided to take that bold step not minding what the world will say, because I have every reason to stay alive if not for anything for my boys so I left the marriage to stay alive but my life is being threatened by this Vampires till now and my business is also being threatened. he said he will kill me and destroy my business and bring me down.
“I want the world to be on the know am not scared of Obarijima Yorgba because his not my God and if he tries to hurt me or my boys again my God will kill him for every pain he made me went through in his house Obarijima will suffer, for my blood he constantly spill it will speak against him and everyone his working with let the judgement of God befall them from today. I AM NO LONGER MRS OBARIJIMA ROSEMARY I AM ROSEMARY NKIRUKA CHRISTIAN.”
A young woman has appreciated God for assisting her in abstaining from sleeping with married guys this year.
Accoridng to the young lady, she has an issue with sleeping with married men since they always appeal to her more than single men.
The lady however became bored of socializing with them and decided to pray to God about it, and her prayers were fulfilled.
She expressed joy in her post to Joro Olomofin about being able to cease sleeping with married men. She also prayed for those women like herself who are solely attracted to married guys.
“TESTIMONY have not slept with a married man this year. I thank God Hi Joro, good evening. I have a problem of sleeping with married men. I just like them, tbh it’s only married men who toast me. But I put it to prayer that I don’t want to sleep with married men anymore. Am very happy the year is coming close and I have not slept with any1 thank God. I no there are so many like me. If I can do it you can do it too. I pray my own husband will come soon.”
A young woman just dumped her lover and reconnected with her ex-boyfriend after her boyfriend obtained a visa for her to relocate abroad.
In a TikTok video, the lady’s friend described how she assisted the lady she trusted by connecting her with her brother in the UK.
Her friend married him just to vanish after a month of living with him in the UK. They later discovered that she had reconnected with her former lover.
In her words:
“I introduced my friend to my brother to marry and brought her to the UK. She ran away after one month she landed in UK. We couldn’t find her anywhere and later heard she was with her ex boyfriend. My brother cried like a baby blaming me for everything. I trusted my friend and didn’t think she could do something like that. My brother wrote to the home office about it and they cancelled her stay permit. Just 3days ago, the lady has been deported together with her boyfriend, he was also an immigrant. Don’t do evil to people who do you good.”
Two employees of the late gospel singer, Osinachi Nwachukwu, told a Federal Capital Territory High Court in Abuja today, Tuesday, October 11, that her husband, Peter Nwachukwu, verbally and physically harassed her.
Osinachi, best known for her gospel song “Ekwueme,” died on April 8. Her husband’s name. Mr. Nwachukwu is on trial on a 23-count culpable homicide and domestic abuse charge. He has been accused of being the cause of the late gospel singer’s death.
During the case’s resumed hearing today, a former Personal Assistant to the late Osinachi, Adetunji Moses, testified before the prosecution counsel, Yewande Gbola-Awopetu, that Nwachukwu referred to his wife as useless, sluggish, and lazy on multiple occasions during rehearsals.
Moses said he worked with the defendant and his wife as a PA and also a keyboardist from Sept 2018 to March 2021. According to him, he stopped working them because he could no longer bear the anger of Mr. Nwachukwu which was most times directed at him.
“In 2018, we traveled to Enugu. I was informed by the people who invited us that Nwachukwu left strict instructions that nobody should be allowed to visit mummy Osinachi. It was later I got to know that her family resided in Enugu and they were the reason he gave the instructions. On another occasion, we were to travel to Zimbabwe for ministration, and that morning, Nwachukwu got into an argument with his mother-in-law who was visiting at the time and due to the altercation, we missed our flight. He tried to book us on another flight, but to no avail, and on our way back from the airport, having missed our flight, it was a serious battle as Nwachukwu kept abusing his wife verbally. He told her that her family members were around to hinder our progress, to shut the door of the ministry and the blessings of God” Moses declared.
The former PA further claimed that the defendant told him not to allow the deceased’s twin sister to share the stage with her during ministration during a program in Lagos. He claimed that on a visit to Uyo for another ministry, a cheque in the deceased’s name was issued, and the defendant followed her to the bank to deposit the money into his account before paying the crew members.
“Some of the crew members like the bass guitarist got angry and left the group because of the defendant’s refusal to keep to the terms of their agreement which to pay them a percentage from every ministration,” he said.
Moses responded in the affirmative when I.A. Aliyu, the defendant’s lead attorney, asked him if the dead frequently complained to him about ulcer pains. How close Moses was to the dead as her PA was a question Aliyu also posed. He claimed that they interacted closely when they traveled for ministry outside of Abuja.
Moses was asked by the defense attorney if he was upset with the defendant because he wouldn’t raise his pay, but he said he wasn’t.
The hair stylist, Ms. Blessing Iyamabe, was also cross-examined. She said before the court that at some point in 2013 when she visited the deceased’s home to get her hair done, the defendant contacted his wife to ask for her car key, but Osinachi instead sent her son to deliver the key to the defendant.
“The defendant got angry, came to where we were making the hair, and slapped his wife. I witnessed another abuse in 2018. He came to my shop and slapped the deceased for not seeking his permission before coming to the salon” she stated.
She claimed that once, out of dread of the defendant, she had to accompany the deceased to her daughter’s school to make her hair. She claimed that in order to conceal from the defendant, she was forced to create the deceased daughter’s hair in a restroom at a mall.
Aliyu questioned the witness on cross-examination if, as claimed in her statement to the police, she ever counseled the deceased to break off her relationship with the defendant. She retorted that the manner the defendant was treating her prompted her to offer advice.
Iyamabe responded that she had been informed that Osinachi passed away as a result of throat cancer when questioned if she knew what caused her death.
Justice Njideka Nwosu-Iheme, the trial’s presiding judge, postponed the proceedings till Thursday after hearing the testimony.
Nollywood actress, Etinosa Idemudia, has chimed in on media personality Toke Makinwa’s disclosure about her unfaithful ex.
“That one time I caught my ex cheating on me, he said I was the wife and she was only the girlfriend and I should act appropriately. I let him continue cheating in peace as long as I was number 1” Toke Makinwa’s post read.
The mother-of-one commented on Toke’s post, recounting a similar tragedy she endured at the hands of her ex-husband.
According to Etinosa, she found a condom with her ex, but he said it was for his friend, and she believed him.
She also mentioned that he had a history of cheating on her, but she is grateful that he protected her from sexually transmitted diseases.
Read her comment here:
“Na so I see condom with my ex. Baba said his colleagues gave him to hold. We were trying to conceive so it definitely wasn’t his. Me mumu I believed him. Nigga was cheating from day one of the sham of a marriage. Condom everywhere. Our house, our cars, his wallet, everywhere. Later i was grateful to him for at least protecting me from std…. Never in my life”
A Twitter user has sparked a debate on the micro-blogging platform after she advised that married women shouldn’t keep unmarried friends.
According to the tweep identified as Omotayo, a married woman shouldn’t be close friends with a single lady if she wants her marriage to thrive and last.
To further reiterate her stance, she says that after marriage, a married woman no longer shares many things in common with single ladies.
She says for a married woman, her life revolves around her marital life, while a single woman has an entirely different priority.
Her words,
As a married woman, you don’t have any business being friends with a single lady.
As a married woman, 70% of your life revolves around your marital life so yes if you ask me, there are times when your conversations was centered around business, night club, partying, the new guy, holidays, shoppings and all, now she has husband, kids and a home to look after.
I don’t know how you want to put it but the thought and mindset of a single and married lady can never be the same, not like you can’t still have them as friends, they ain’t just the type of close friend you need if you want your marriage to thrive and last long
No one asked you not to have them as friends anyways, they ain’t just the close friends you need because you no longer share many things in common, how do you relate a marital related issue with someone who has never been married for a day? What type of advice are you expecting?
I don’t know how you want to put it but the thought and mindset of a single and married lady can never be the same, not like you can’t still have them as friends, they ain’t just the type of close friend you need if you want your marriage to thrive and last long”.
Omotayo’s post elicited varying reactions on the platform. While some agreed with her, a barrage of others held opposite opinions.
